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How to let someone down
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"How to tell someone you don't fancy them without being nasty?
Just say “sorry I don’t think we are compatible”
Mrs"
You don't need to tell them directly that you don't fancy them. The suggestion above is a good one I think. |
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"We just say thank you but you’re not for us. Happy fabbing  "
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Agreed, but without the "Happy Fabbing" part. I'm not sure why the salutation "Happy Fabbing" has become de rigueur on here. To me, personally, it comes across as disingenuous. 🩶 |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I got told that being BI made me the work of the devil and I shouldnt be on a swingers site...I just presumed she didnt fancy me after that lol"
I mean preferences are fine but that was a bit harsh |
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"I got told that being BI made me the work of the devil and I shouldnt be on a swingers site...I just presumed she didnt fancy me after that lol"
Maybe she was concerned you're better at sucking cock than she is.
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I use a variety from
A polite hi, not what I’m looking for at the moment sorry happy fabbing
To I read your profile and had a look around and you’re not what I’m looking for.
I don’t think you ever have to be mean; there’s someone for everyone out here. |
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By *oobaaMan 40 weeks ago
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"I got told that being BI made me the work of the devil and I shouldnt be on a swingers site...I just presumed she didnt fancy me after that lol
Maybe she was concerned you're better at sucking cock than she is.
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Been told I am pretty good mind lol |
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By *ussycat777Woman 40 weeks ago
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On here?
I find it's best to be blunt..If you're anything else than 100% crystal clear then folk can be left hanging on in hope.
Just say "sorry but you're not my type" or "I don't find you attractive." |
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"On here?
I find it's best to be blunt..If you're anything else than 100% crystal clear then folk can be left hanging on in hope.
Just say "sorry but you're not my type" or "I don't find you attractive.""
Yep. I do say “I am not attracted to you”.
Then I am being told I am fat, old, ugly and they never wanted to meet me anyway hahahaha  |
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By *ussycat777Woman 40 weeks ago
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"On here?
I find it's best to be blunt..If you're anything else than 100% crystal clear then folk can be left hanging on in hope.
Just say "sorry but you're not my type" or "I don't find you attractive."
Yep. I do say “I am not attracted to you”.
Then I am being told I am fat, old, ugly and they never wanted to meet me anyway hahahaha "
Arseholes will be arseholes!
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By *enelope2UWoman 40 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
"We just say thank you but you’re not for us. Happy fabbing
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Agreed, but without the "Happy Fabbing" part. I'm not sure why the salutation "Happy Fabbing" has become de rigueur on here. To me, personally, it comes across as disingenuous. 🩶"
As disingenuous as the UK standard of..kind regards..but that's the standard |
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By *enelope2UWoman 40 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
Sorry we're not compatible then a full block..
TO BE NOTED...I always say exactly what I'm into AND ASK WHAT they are seeking..first warning is to remind them to read the profile because most don't..then if they continue towards things I've already pointed out, I'd say that's not my type/style etc..after that's it's a simple we're not compatible and they are blocked...
otherwise they'll say why not?
then rewind words to try to fit.
or create other excuses.
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I was due to go to a club with someone i considered an old friend this weekend. She has completely blocked me and ghosted me.
So i'll take that as either she doesnt want to know me anymore OR she has lost her phone 🤣 |
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"Following a recent STD test a Doctor has told me to abstain from any sexual contact for at least 6 months.
I’d still love to meet for a coffee though as you seem really nice. "
Mic drop; I actually like this one… |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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is this F2F meets or messaging here or dating apps/chat groups?
the messaging bit is easy - just say - thank you for your time, I hope you find some lovely.
Same F2F
They should get the emssage |
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On here, if I contact somebody and they're not interested it's really fine by me if they just delete the message. If anything it's worse if I see they've replied but then it's just "thanks but no thanks".
So if someone contacts me... Nah who am I kidding. I have a solo guy profile, nobody's contacting me. 😆 |
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