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My partner has had a change of heart and is willing to have an fmm with me and another man as we both want to have the same different experiences as in FFM and fmm.
He's met the man and is happy and feels that I'll get on with him too. We were due to meet today, but my health stopped that, which I was gutted about. The 3 of us agreed to postpone. We're now planning it to be in 2 weeks.
Any advice please. |
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"My partner has had a change of heart and is willing to have an fmm with me and another man as we both want to have the same different experiences as in FFM and fmm.
He's met the man and is happy and feels that I'll get on with him too. We were due to meet today, but my health stopped that, which I was gutted about. The 3 of us agreed to postpone. We're now planning it to be in 2 weeks.
Any advice please. "
start with toys and lube and lots of foreplay for her.
I've had DP with toys... men get a little over eager so need to slow them down. |
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"My partner has had a change of heart and is willing to have an fmm with me and another man as we both want to have the same different experiences as in FFM and fmm.
He's met the man and is happy and feels that I'll get on with him too. We were due to meet today, but my health stopped that, which I was gutted about. The 3 of us agreed to postpone. We're now planning it to be in 2 weeks.
Any advice please. "
Just curious as to why DP specifically, is that the main feature of it for you?
I'm asking because DP is difficult even for an experienced trio, so it being your first MMF experience would you maybe consider just enjoying the whole thing without trying for a DP, and perhaps try that specific move once you're comfortable? |
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"My partner has had a change of heart and is willing to have an fmm with me and another man as we both want to have the same different experiences as in FFM and fmm.
He's met the man and is happy and feels that I'll get on with him too. We were due to meet today, but my health stopped that, which I was gutted about. The 3 of us agreed to postpone. We're now planning it to be in 2 weeks.
Any advice please.
Just curious as to why DP specifically, is that the main feature of it for you?
I'm asking because DP is difficult even for an experienced trio, so it being your first MMF experience would you maybe consider just enjoying the whole thing without trying for a DP, and perhaps try that specific move once you're comfortable?"
Definitely agree with this.
Don't make plans for certain sex positions, just let the meet unfold naturally. Most of all just enjoy being the centre of attention. |
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Start with foreplay. Lots of pussy fucking and cumming. When your pussy is well fucked if you like anal that will relax too. Let hubby go first in your bum. Then the other guy. Lay 1 guy down. You straddle and lean forward await the second entry and enjoy. Probably best the lady stays still and lets the 2 guys thrust.
Don’t forget dvp and spit roast are fun too. Maybe spit roast with a toy for airtight. Why not as you’re almost there anyway. |
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By *evlishduncMan 40 weeks ago
north suffolk south norfolk |
Lots of good advice above. I’ve found the best position is lady in reverse cowgirl on the edge of an armchair or the bed. As she leans back, this opens a gap above the ridden cock for the second guy to enter.
Be prepared to laugh, a lot. It’s hard and frustrating but fun to try! Good luck. |
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I agree to the below comments. I was regale with two couples for a few years and this is exactly what we did. It’s really a wholesome experience and once you get addicted it’s difficult ti kick though the difficulty is it’s not every lady’s cup of tea
"Start with foreplay. Lots of pussy fucking and cumming. When your pussy is well fucked if you like anal that will relax too. Let hubby go first in your bum. Then the other guy. Lay 1 guy down. You straddle and lean forward await the second entry and enjoy. Probably best the lady stays still and lets the 2 guys thrust.
Don’t forget dvp and spit roast are fun too. Maybe spit roast with a toy for airtight. Why not as you’re almost there anyway. "
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Molly, how is your anal game? I’d hesitate to go for a DP unless you are experienced and comfortable with anal penetration. Someone has already given the first bit of advice I’d also give: use dildos (in your ass if he’s in the front and in your pussy if he’s in your rear) with your regular partner to see how things are going to fit and feel. Also how girthy is the man’s cock who is going to go in your ass? For a first attempt a confident and experienced guy with a longish and slim cock might be best.
Both guys being hard is essential- don’t leave the DP for the end of the session when both guys might be struggling with getting and maintaining hard erections. You can’t do this ‘pushing rope’.
Lube, obvs (good stuff, not saliva)
Suggested first position is cowgirl, riding the guy who is going to be in your pussy. He (the ‘anchor’) is going to have to keep his legs together so that the second guy can put his knees either side and bring up the rear to your presented bum, doggy style.
It’s an amazing experience. Have a wonderful time
Finally, another piece of advice, something that has happened to me, and an issue that often gets neglected in DP: when both men are in you, the guy in the rear is able to get a lot of physical stimulation from thrusting - that’ll keep him hard. The anchor you are straddling will get no stimulation other than being inside you, seeing your face, sucking your tits etc. unless YOU move around (grind) for him. An experienced DP lady will keep both her men hard.
Enjoy! |
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"Molly, how is your anal game? I’d hesitate to go for a DP unless you are experienced and comfortable with anal penetration. Someone has already given the first bit of advice I’d also give: use dildos (in your ass if he’s in the front and in your pussy if he’s in your rear) with your regular partner to see how things are going to fit and feel. Also how girthy is the man’s cock who is going to go in your ass? For a first attempt a confident and experienced guy with a longish and slim cock might be best.
Both guys being hard is essential- don’t leave the DP for the end of the session when both guys might be struggling with getting and maintaining hard erections. You can’t do this ‘pushing rope’.
Lube, obvs (good stuff, not saliva)
Suggested first position is cowgirl, riding the guy who is going to be in your pussy. He (the ‘anchor’) is going to have to keep his legs together so that the second guy can put his knees either side and bring up the rear to your presented bum, doggy style.
It’s an amazing experience. Have a wonderful time
Finally, another piece of advice, something that has happened to me, and an issue that often gets neglected in DP: when both men are in you, the guy in the rear is able to get a lot of physical stimulation from thrusting - that’ll keep him hard. The anchor you are straddling will get no stimulation other than being inside you, seeing your face, sucking your tits etc. unless YOU move around (grind) for him. An experienced DP lady will keep both her men hard.
Enjoy!"
As a cuck whose watched his hotwife enjoy two men on a few occasions I’d say that’s an excellent description ! |
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"Molly, how is your anal game? I’d hesitate to go for a DP unless you are experienced and comfortable with anal penetration. Someone has already given the first bit of advice I’d also give: use dildos (in your ass if he’s in the front and in your pussy if he’s in your rear) with your regular partner to see how things are going to fit and feel. Also how girthy is the man’s cock who is going to go in your ass? For a first attempt a confident and experienced guy with a longish and slim cock might be best.
Both guys being hard is essential- don’t leave the DP for the end of the session when both guys might be struggling with getting and maintaining hard erections. You can’t do this ‘pushing rope’.
Lube, obvs (good stuff, not saliva)
Suggested first position is cowgirl, riding the guy who is going to be in your pussy. He (the ‘anchor’) is going to have to keep his legs together so that the second guy can put his knees either side and bring up the rear to your presented bum, doggy style.
It’s an amazing experience. Have a wonderful time
Finally, another piece of advice, something that has happened to me, and an issue that often gets neglected in DP: when both men are in you, the guy in the rear is able to get a lot of physical stimulation from thrusting - that’ll keep him hard. The anchor you are straddling will get no stimulation other than being inside you, seeing your face, sucking your tits etc. unless YOU move around (grind) for him. An experienced DP lady will keep both her men hard.
Enjoy!
As a cuck who’s watched his hotwife enjoy two men on a few occasions I’d say that’s an excellent description !"
Being able to watch her Mike is almost as good as being the participants! 😄 Dee must look amazing getting carried away in the act 😈 |
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Right so in my experience her ontop and another goes in behind in her ass, get on your knees guys on the bed close, you WILL have to get close with the other guy sorry if that puts guys off butt it is the way to do it to get the max pleasure for you all. |
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"My partner has had a change of heart and is willing to have an fmm with me and another man as we both want to have the same different experiences as in FFM and fmm.
He's met the man and is happy and feels that I'll get on with him too. We were due to meet today, but my health stopped that, which I was gutted about. The 3 of us agreed to postpone. We're now planning it to be in 2 weeks.
Any advice please.
Just curious as to why DP specifically, is that the main feature of it for you?
I'm asking because DP is difficult even for an experienced trio, so it being your first MMF experience would you maybe consider just enjoying the whole thing without trying for a DP, and perhaps try that specific move once you're comfortable?
Definitely agree with this.
Don't make plans for certain sex positions, just let the meet unfold naturally. Most of all just enjoy being the centre of attention."
The way my brain and body are wired, no anal will happen unless it's planned and prepped for.
I mean if you have a nice wide open relaxed ass and vagina great but mine's not like that.
I've never had children, I don't do fisting and I have a general problem relaxing, uptight ass/vag/brain, Lol! I had a guy try once when I wasn't prepared and it definitely did not go in and that was just one cock down there, Not 2! |
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By *itter78Couple 38 weeks ago
Spennymoor |
"Molly, how is your anal game? I’d hesitate to go for a DP unless you are experienced and comfortable with anal penetration. Someone has already given the first bit of advice I’d also give: use dildos (in your ass if he’s in the front and in your pussy if he’s in your rear) with your regular partner to see how things are going to fit and feel. Also how girthy is the man’s cock who is going to go in your ass? For a first attempt a confident and experienced guy with a longish and slim cock might be best.
Both guys being hard is essential- don’t leave the DP for the end of the session when both guys might be struggling with getting and maintaining hard erections. You can’t do this ‘pushing rope’.
Lube, obvs (good stuff, not saliva)
Suggested first position is cowgirl, riding the guy who is going to be in your pussy. He (the ‘anchor’) is going to have to keep his legs together so that the second guy can put his knees either side and bring up the rear to your presented bum, doggy style.
It’s an amazing experience. Have a wonderful time
Finally, another piece of advice, something that has happened to me, and an issue that often gets neglected in DP: when both men are in you, the guy in the rear is able to get a lot of physical stimulation from thrusting - that’ll keep him hard. The anchor you are straddling will get no stimulation other than being inside you, seeing your face, sucking your tits etc. unless YOU move around (grind) for him. An experienced DP lady will keep both her men hard.
Enjoy!"
This is exceptional advice!! |
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"Molly, how is your anal game? I’d hesitate to go for a DP unless you are experienced and comfortable with anal penetration. Someone has already given the first bit of advice I’d also give: use dildos (in your ass if he’s in the front and in your pussy if he’s in your rear) with your regular partner to see how things are going to fit and feel. Also how girthy is the man’s cock who is going to go in your ass? For a first attempt a confident and experienced guy with a longish and slim cock might be best.
Both guys being hard is essential- don’t leave the DP for the end of the session when both guys might be struggling with getting and maintaining hard erections. You can’t do this ‘pushing rope’.
Lube, obvs (good stuff, not saliva)
Suggested first position is cowgirl, riding the guy who is going to be in your pussy. He (the ‘anchor’) is going to have to keep his legs together so that the second guy can put his knees either side and bring up the rear to your presented bum, doggy style.
It’s an amazing experience. Have a wonderful time
Finally, another piece of advice, something that has happened to me, and an issue that often gets neglected in DP: when both men are in you, the guy in the rear is able to get a lot of physical stimulation from thrusting - that’ll keep him hard. The anchor you are straddling will get no stimulation other than being inside you, seeing your face, sucking your tits etc. unless YOU move around (grind) for him. An experienced DP lady will keep both her men hard.
Enjoy!
This is exceptional advice!!"
Yup. Although I think the woman should stay still. Women moving around too much can cause an accident such as broken penis. Easy for 2 blokes to stay in synch thrusting than a grinding woman and a thrusting man.
People have no idea how athletic porn stars actually are.
Hip thrusts for the bottom penetrator and thrusting squats for the top penetrator.
Or, depending on the weight of the woman, they both hold her up while thrusting in.
The woman needs to stay in the kneeling squat position so no bad knees. I have a dodgy knee but I can still squat for a long time. Maybe after an hour, ligaments and tendons start to hurt |
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