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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Hi everyone,I'm looking for advice on how to meet beautiful women and couples. I don't know why it's so hard to even start a conversation here; it's very frustrating. I think we are all here for the same reasons, right?!
I'm a very private person and I don't like to share too much about myself online. I prefer face-to-face interaction, and I think there's nothing wrong with getting a coffee or drinks together to see if we connect." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Infortunaly my time is very limited due to my job....sometimes I go to the club ( when I have time) here I just mex but most of the people doesn't give you the chance even start a conversation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Get a profile pic rather than a silhouette. You say you’re not into men, but verified by a TV/TS "
You right about the set the profile...and i like operated trans and this is not a man... |
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Apologies if I'm wrong, but are you married op?
You look like you have a wedding ring on in one pic along with not being able to accom and mentioning being discreet.
If so, that will out some women ans couples off. |
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"Hi everyone,I'm looking for advice on how to meet beautiful women and couples. I don't know why it's so hard to even start a conversation here; it's very frustrating. I think we are all here for the same reasons, right?!
I'm a very private person and I don't like to share too much about myself online. I prefer face-to-face interaction, and I think there's nothing wrong with getting a coffee or drinks together to see if we connect.""
Um...Your profile is very generic and pretty much the same as all the 1000 other men within a 5 mile radius.
If you lived near me, I wouldn't message you because there's nothing that we would share in common apart from being on this site.
I need to have something in common to build a rapport with before I even consider letting them touch my body and touching doesn't always mean sex.
You might need a paid lady if you are only after sex and nothing more and have limited time for clubs ad socials due to work. Paid ladies are very discreet because it's their income and they don't want to turn off the tap so to speak. |
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We always find it a bit of a red flag when someone says they’re keen to meet couples, but then makes it crystal clear they absolutely don't want to meet men. Just a heads-up: most couples do come with one of those.
Totally get that you’re probably just saying you’re not looking for any guy-on-guy action (which, fair enough). But when it’s worded like a hard “no men” rule, it reads like you’re hoping to meet women, and if they happen to come with a partner, you’ll just pretend he is invisible. That’s not really the dynamic most couples look for. |
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I echo what most have said here.
Women will only chat if they think that you're likely to be mutually compatible. The onus is on you to share enough to support their interest. This will include appropriate images and details of you, to start and cultivate their interest.  |
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