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By *erdyguy45 OP Man 36 weeks ago
Solihull/milton keynes & other |
Looking for a bit of advice. Been out the scene for quite a while and the site.
Really struggling with getting any chats (never mind a meet).
I don't remember it being this hard 🤣 last time. |
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By *erdyguy45 OP Man 36 weeks ago
Solihull/milton keynes & other |
"Possibly add more pics. Write up not too bad. Are you attached? "
Cheers, will look to add more.
Yes I'm attached but it's a ENM relationship. Never sure to add it though as people just call bs 🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Possibly add more pics. Write up not too bad. Are you attached?
Cheers, will look to add more.
Yes I'm attached but it's a ENM relationship. Never sure to add it though as people just call bs 🤣"
No idea what ENM relationship means. |
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"Looking for a bit of advice. Been out the scene for quite a while and the site.
Really struggling with getting any chats (never mind a meet).
I don't remember it being this hard 🤣 last time."
Couple of things we'd pick up if you messaged us....the one photo isn't very flattering and it's taken in a hotel by the looks of it....we always (often wrongly, maybe) assume that it means a guy only gets a chance to take pics when he's away from home.
Age range could do with setting - doubt you'd really want a 99yr old.
No verifications - Birmingham has clubs and socials that you can get to and get some meet verifications, they at least show you leave the house. |
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As a couple who prefer more than one meet with someone, we really don't engage with guys who go UNLOS and then return after a break. It suggests to us that they get to scratch that itch and then disappear. |
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By *erdyguy45 OP Man 36 weeks ago
Solihull/milton keynes & other |
"As a couple who prefer more than one meet with someone, we really don't engage with guys who go UNLOS and then return after a break. It suggests to us that they get to scratch that itch and then disappear. "
Sorry UNLOS?
I think I get it but not the letters 🤣
I was here once a long time ago but when we married we decided to go all in together. A loooong time later we are looking differently that's all.
Not a leave and come back every few months thing but yeah I get how it could look. |
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By *erdyguy45 OP Man 36 weeks ago
Solihull/milton keynes & other |
"Its not a bad profile and we have seen worse pics, but you really should add the ENM relationship to the profile. Let people make an informed choice."
Cheers, yeah maybe will add that on thanks. |
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"Possibly add more pics.
Cheers, will look to add more.
Yes I'm attached but it's a ENM relationship.
You could ask your partner to take some pics of you. "
Beat me to it !!! If you have such an understanding partner get her to take some pics for you
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Some useful advice given above by these gentlefolks. I agree that you need more photographs, perhaps with some variety. Thankfully your profile isn't emblazoned with a multitude of cock photos, but your first photo is your cock which isn't a perfect introduction to your gallery.
Good luck OP. |
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"Some useful advice given above by these gentlefolks. I agree that you need more photographs, perhaps with some variety. Thankfully your profile isn't emblazoned with a multitude of cock photos, but your first photo is your cock which isn't a perfect introduction to your gallery.
Good luck OP."
Profile got worse after adding the dick pic. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Not the OP, but can anyone else that wants profile advice maybe start their own thread instead of messaging us direct, thanks."
Yep, had the same from a bloke who's so far away from our narrative. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Not the OP, but can anyone else that wants profile advice maybe start their own thread instead of messaging us direct, thanks.
Yeah we got that as well."
Guessing it was the same Bi Man who mailed us too? |
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By *erdyguy45 OP Man 36 weeks ago
Solihull/milton keynes & other |
"Not the OP, but can anyone else that wants profile advice maybe start their own thread instead of messaging us direct, thanks.
Yeah we got that as well.
Guessing it was the same Bi Man who mailed us too? "
Thanks for helping me out apologies for the problems with people messaging now |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Not the OP, but can anyone else that wants profile advice maybe start their own thread instead of messaging us direct, thanks.
Yeah we got that as well.
Guessing it was the same Bi Man who mailed us too? "
Yep, I would say so. |
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By *erdyguy45 OP Man 33 weeks ago
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"Any advice for being noticed because honestly I've kind of given up on the site any devices. What do I need to remove or what do I need to add?"
Set up your own thread, will get noticed easier. The group here are all brilliant. |
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