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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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Hi there, I’m a younger guy in his very early 20s. The idea of playing with a couple has always interested me but I’ve never known how to approach it, even on here. Do older couples tend to be interested in younger guys especially when I have no experience with couples? Any advice would be greatly appreciated  |
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By *CExeCouple 36 weeks ago
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Chat on here to start. Be prepared for no action and no meets for a while. Get to know people, be self deprecating and stick with it. Get to a club for a night but go with an open mind and no expectations. It's a great scene, but can take time to break into. Addictive mind. |
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Be aware that about 75% of people on FAB are timewasters.
If you want to meet real swingers who can pass on real advice from real meet experience then an organised social would be a start. The sexual side will take somewhat longer.
Initially you may feel overwhelmed, a bit out of your depth, that's OK and very natural
Just be yourself, tell everyone it's your first time, tell them you are inexperienced and scared shitless.
We all can remember our first meets.
If you are confident enough, try a swingers club.
Go with no expectations and maybe plan to spend just a few hours there, you will live to fight another day.
Don't worry about the ratio of single men to couples, most will never make the effort to attend any clubs or socials.
We have been to private parties where they struggle to get decent single guys, mature or young.
Just take your time, like most things in life, the more you put in, the better it becomes.
Good luck, it's a fabulous adventure. |
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The fact you're bi curious gives you a massive advantage with couples I'd say.
You'll find most couples say no single guys and no bi guys, however the couples who want single guys very often also want bi guys.
You're fit and you're profile is good, we'd meet you if you were local.
I think you'll do fine here. |
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To be honest, there's plenty of older couples that will turn you down because of your age - they don't want to play with someone the same age as their kids.
But here's the thing. As others have said, if you go to a club or social, then age is much less important, and people tend to judge you more for who you are, than how old you are.
And if you're genuinely single then you have more chance than the majority of single males on here. |
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Yup, age and no experience would put us off but then we're probably not the aged type couple you're looking for. When I was a single guy on fab in my early days 53/54 I was on as straight. I then changed to bi and it didn't hinder me at all, probably improved my meets. We now hold partys where all guys are bi and there's no shortage of them. Our lower limit is 35 for reasons already stated, we don't play with anyone younger than our kids. It may take a while and although verifications from social meets are helpful, nothing beats experience. Same with webcam meets, multiple of those just says to us, no balls to go through with an actual meet. |
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There are lots of couple where the wife enjoys younger men, does seem to be a bit of a taboo about it at time to be honest.
Best advice from us, is go to a club, chat to people, let them see you as a person and I’m sure you’ll get to play with the people who’s dynamic also works for you. |
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