A toy is only ever going to be a very poor substitute for a real live woman, an oily hand or bum even if its male might be the next best thing but it will always be lacking the wonderful aroma.
Some lube and a ‘Jerk to the beat’ vid on Xham works for me! (There’s a metronome you have to stroke in time to, which speeds up and slows down as different images are displayed) Try one 😏👌