"Is it a bad profile that nobody wants to message back. Or am I that ugly "
Let's look at it a different way, if you were to walk into a pub or night club how many of those women would knock you back when you approached them? I would say the majority, it's no different here. It's not about being ugly it's about being attractive to that person and that becomes a numbers game.
Although the self entitled approach is not attractive imho. |
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"Is it a bad profile that nobody wants to message back. Or am I that ugly
Let's look at it a different way, if you were to walk into a pub or night club how many of those women would knock you back when you approached them? I would say the majority, it's no different here. It's not about being ugly it's about being attractive to that person and that becomes a numbers game.
Although the self entitled approach is not attractive imho."
Not self entitaled and met in clubs not on fab |
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"You looked through your camera roll for pictures to upload to Fab that showed you at your best?
That’s what people have to assume.
Not good at taking pics so only choice"
Thing is your profile is your shop window...
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Some thoughts from me:
Each pictures needs to convey information about you to the audience....
So your last picture...what is it that that's telling someone about you? I can't see your body or you face and you seem to be in work clothes. None if which is giving me information about what it would be like to have a sexusl experience with you.
The two 16th of may pictures are both roughly the same, do you need both? Could you crop one of them so your body fills more of the picture?
I look at the first few pictures and I notice clutter and a bare light bulb and I think to myself would I want to spend time in this person's house. No, is the harsh answer.
Also, visually, the more things you have in a picture, the more distraction there is from the focus of the picture.
Get a cheap tripod of the Internet and spend some time learning to take better selfies
I hope that all comes across constructively 🙂
Mrs DD |
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By *CExeCouple 35 weeks ago
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I agree with the above post, the photos in the house will subconsciously not click with people. No lightshade, a bit of clutter etc. Keep the smart ones, and some of you in work gear will always be popular.
As you know, guys have it hard on here. Get yourself on Tinder etc, and look for a like minded lass on there too. I'd been swinging for a few years, but met Chels on Tinder before we realised we're both filthy perverts  |
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