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Am I really Bi-Curious?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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Hi, so on my profile I’ve put bi-curious and I just want to check my understanding of this. My own personal experience of this is I had a male masseuse last year fairy local to me do a massage for me, which ended up with a rather nice ending but using his hands only.
That’s it really. What I have thought of and would like to perhaps happen in the future is find a wank buddy, maybe go a bit further with a male, but I also am very attracted to women and females mainly. I’ve just always been intrigued by males too.
I would ideally like to find someone similar age to me, same interests and would be up for some fun but to go at it at my pace as I would be incredibly nervous, but extremely intrigued. Whether that be using my hand on a man, or going further with my mouth.
Does that make me bi-curious? What exactly is the definition would you say?
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Yes, in my opinion, it does make you bi-curious. As you are considering having a sexual interaction, on whatever level you choose, with men.
Also, OP, please explain to me, what's the difference between women and females? As you're saying that you're attracted to "women and females", is it not the same? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"Yes, in my opinion, it does make you bi-curious. As you are considering having a sexual interaction, on whatever level you choose, with men.
Also, OP, please explain to me, what's the difference between women and females? As you're saying that you're attracted to "women and females", is it not the same?"
You’re right, they are the same! That’s an error on my part there.. 
Thanks for confirming what I thought was the case though. I know I need to improve my profile at some stage and add some better pictures. |
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By *aveonMan 34 weeks ago
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Yes you are and this is where it starts - get past the nerves and any hang ups - similar to my journey and just enjoy sensual fun regardless of gender - but my preference would be 51% straight  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"Yes you are and this is where it starts - get past the nerves and any hang ups - similar to my journey and just enjoy sensual fun regardless of gender - but my preference would be 51% straight "
Thank you. I sort of bit the bullet last year. A local guy offers free massages in the local town close to me and I was intrigued. I went along nervous as.. and it was really chilled, relaxed. Maybe slightly awkward as well but soon relaxed and got into it. I had already agreed and suggested before that I may want more. And when he did so I just got harder and harder until he used his hand on me and it was great! Would I do it again? I think I would! There’s other things I would like to do as well in time… |
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"Hi, so on my profile I’ve put bi-curious and I just want to check my understanding of this. My own personal experience of this is I had a male masseuse last year fairy local to me do a massage for me, which ended up with a rather nice ending but using his hands only.
That’s it really. What I have thought of and would like to perhaps happen in the future is find a wank buddy, maybe go a bit further with a male, but I also am very attracted to women and females mainly. I’ve just always been intrigued by males too.
I would ideally like to find someone similar age to me, same interests and would be up for some fun but to go at it at my pace as I would be incredibly nervous, but extremely intrigued. Whether that be using my hand on a man, or going further with my mouth.
Does that make me bi-curious? What exactly is the definition would you say?
Thanks,"
The fact that you are asking the question AND providing the answer suggests that you are bi-curious until at some point you either are no longer, or you decide into bisexual or gay! These feelings may or not change throughout your lifetime. |
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Some people have no attraction to the same gender and have a lot of sex with them, including those who do it professionally. It's less the amount of sex or partners and more the attraction.
OP - you sound bi curious, as most would understand it to be, though it doesn't sound like you have much if any attraction. Ultimately, it's for you to define yourself. |
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A lot of people make the mistake of thinking that they need to think long and hard about which category they fit into.
But that's rubbish - what you actually need to think about is what person you're trying to attract.
So if you're a guy currently only looking for women, then you're straight. If you don't mind whether people responding are male or female, then you're bi. And if you want a bit of male on male action but only as part of having sex with a male/female couple, then you're bi-curios.
See, it wasn't that difficult, was it? |
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Finding the right person and setting expectations is important. As a teenager I wanked with a mate and enjoying being with someone while we were horny, sharing the experience etc.
While I’m essentially straight, I still enjoy being in a MM situation as it’s a uniquely erotic and explicit experience for me.
I’ve zero interest in kissing, fucking or cuddling a man, but mutual cock appreciation and seeing a hard cock up close adds another dimension to my sexuality.
My experience on FAB is that lots of ‘straight’ guys enjoy cam-wanking with other guys, despite their profile not mentioning this.
Often part of a MF couple, it’s something that appears to becoming more normalised.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"Finding the right person and setting expectations is important. As a teenager I wanked with a mate and enjoying being with someone while we were horny, sharing the experience etc.
While I’m essentially straight, I still enjoy being in a MM situation as it’s a uniquely erotic and explicit experience for me.
I’ve zero interest in kissing, fucking or cuddling a man, but mutual cock appreciation and seeing a hard cock up close adds another dimension to my sexuality.
My experience on FAB is that lots of ‘straight’ guys enjoy cam-wanking with other guys, despite their profile not mentioning this.
Often part of a MF couple, it’s something that appears to becoming more normalised.
OK folks Telegram or in-person? "
This is exactly what I am looking for! Not interested in kissing or fucking or cuddling for sure, just interested in mutually wanking |
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By *G101Man 34 weeks ago
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I am very similar to OP although not had the pleasure of a MM massage that ended the same way. I have fantasised about cock for several years now and am determined to meet another local guy who would like to experiment together. Go for it sir! |
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Basically I would say as you have not had sex with a man the your bi curious I found at an early age I was bisexual as I was happy to have a man or a women it was just sex if I went out for the evening and no women available then I would look for a guy it's just sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"I am very similar to OP although not had the pleasure of a MM massage that ended the same way. I have fantasised about cock for several years now and am determined to meet another local guy who would like to experiment together. Go for it sir!"
Go and do it, it really was good! And now from that experience I/you could go further next time if you decide to. You’re in control! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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"Yes I would say that being Bi-curious is that you want sexual contact with the same gender. Even if you're not sure how much contact you are wanting at this time. "
Thank you, I do like your profile by the way! |
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To me you sound what I would call fab straight.
You would and are interesting in maybe having a sexual interaction with a man to some level but you might not be attracted to men or find them attractive.
I might be wrong but I think bi sexuality is less about the sexual act and more about your attraction to men. Men play and have sex with other men often but would fancy them, or kiss them. Would probably be strictly a top, or like having their cock sucked or played with, but wouldn’t reciprocate. |
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I consider myself as dick curious. Im not attracted to men or the male form. This is neither in a romantic or physical manner. However, i do like the idea of playing with a cock. Be that a mans or trans. Its an interest of C to watch and be involved with this and actually, i wouldnt want to without her there anyway. And before anyone asks, nope, this hasnt come from her first, its all my intrest. To be fair, curiousity is just that, intregue into something unknown.
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I get where you’re coming from.
I got accidentally introduced during a mmf situation. He wanked me whilst I was fucking my ex. Since then I’ve had a few wank buddy meets and live it but no interest in anything more. |
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"Finding the right person and setting expectations is important. As a teenager I wanked with a mate and enjoying being with someone while we were horny, sharing the experience etc.
While I’m essentially straight, I still enjoy being in a MM situation as it’s a uniquely erotic and explicit experience for me.
I’ve zero interest in kissing, fucking or cuddling a man, but mutual cock appreciation and seeing a hard cock up close adds another dimension to my sexuality.
My experience on FAB is that lots of ‘straight’ guys enjoy cam-wanking with other guys, despite their profile not mentioning this.
Often part of a MF couple, it’s something that appears to becoming more normalised.
OK folks Telegram or in-person? "
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"Finding the right person and setting expectations is important. As a teenager I wanked with a mate and enjoying being with someone while we were horny, sharing the experience etc.
While I’m essentially straight, I still enjoy being in a MM situation as it’s a uniquely erotic and explicit experience for me.
I’ve zero interest in kissing, fucking or cuddling a man, but mutual cock appreciation and seeing a hard cock up close adds another dimension to my sexuality.
My experience on FAB is that lots of ‘straight’ guys enjoy cam-wanking with other guys, despite their profile not mentioning this.
Often part of a MF couple, it’s something that appears to becoming more normalised.
OK folks Telegram or in-person? "
Always in person lol |
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I never had the luxury of bi-curious. My first time was with a man, soon afterwards with a woman. I have never questioned my sexuality, I have always been bisexual.
OP, I reckon you can stick with bi-curious, until the first time you have sex with a man. Unless you try and think that it's not for you.
Personally I would recommend sucking another man and accepting his cum as the first step. Having another man suck you is not really that different to having a woman do it, close your eyes and it can be anyone you imagine.
Good luck, I hope you find what you want. |
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It does to us yes. We read bi curious are wishing to explore a little, often focused on very specific things.
For my hubby his bi curiosity is wanking, handjobs, blowjobs and sharing a fleshlight. |
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"Finding the right person and setting expectations is important. As a teenager I wanked with a mate and enjoying being with someone while we were horny, sharing the experience etc.
While I’m essentially straight, I still enjoy being in a MM situation as it’s a uniquely erotic and explicit experience for me.
I’ve zero interest in kissing, fucking or cuddling a man, but mutual cock appreciation and seeing a hard cock up close adds another dimension to my sexuality.
My experience on FAB is that lots of ‘straight’ guys enjoy cam-wanking with other guys, despite their profile not mentioning this.
Often part of a MF couple, it’s something that appears to becoming more normalised.
OK folks Telegram or in-person?
This is exactly what I am looking for! Not interested in kissing or fucking or cuddling for sure, just interested in mutually wanking"
Much the same here! |
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