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People who try to get money from you
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"What details do you mean? If you've reported them admin will have checked it out. " As in bank details someone has used (not publicly obviously), just another way of identifying people that do this skulduggery … throwing it out there, not really with a clear idea in mind  | |||
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"I’ve found a few people have tried to get you to send them money for cabs to them or other such things, with the idea to extort money from you for the promise of making the meeting happen… I have reported such things, but I wonder if those people rinse repeat and come back and use the same trick under a new identity… is there a place where we can share those details with admin so they are able to use that info in some way? I realise you can’t share personal details on the website, sure it must have happened before so wondered what the process might be?" I think, if people have been caught out like that on this website, it should be allowed to name and shane, like you said, they may appear as a different username again but with the same photo maybe, my answer to this is, anyone who looks for money, end of conversation | |||
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"I’ve found a few people have tried to get you to send them money for cabs to them or other such things, with the idea to extort money from you for the promise of making the meeting happen… I have reported such things, but I wonder if those people rinse repeat and come back and use the same trick under a new identity… is there a place where we can share those details with admin so they are able to use that info in some way? I realise you can’t share personal details on the website, sure it must have happened before so wondered what the process might be? I think, if people have been caught out like that on this website, it should be allowed to name and shane, like you said, they may appear as a different username again but with the same photo maybe, my answer to this is, anyone who looks for money, end of conversation" It seems there is a route to being able to consistently abuse this type of trick, which users need some protection from. It’s not the websites fault, and user discretion should be advised, but people will fall for it, and there might be a way to come to a process that helps minimise this | |||
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"What details do you mean? If you've reported them admin will have checked it out. As in bank details someone has used (not publicly obviously), just another way of identifying people that do this skulduggery … throwing it out there, not really with a clear idea in mind "There's a feedback section that you could post this suggestion in . | |||
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"What details do you mean? If you've reported them admin will have checked it out. As in bank details someone has used (not publicly obviously), just another way of identifying people that do this skulduggery … throwing it out there, not really with a clear idea in mind
There's a feedback section that you could post this suggestion in . "Ok, cool… thanks for that | |||
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"I’ve found a few people have tried to get you to send them money for cabs to them or other such things, with the idea to extort money from you for the promise of making the meeting happen… I have reported such things, but I wonder if those people rinse repeat and come back and use the same trick under a new identity… is there a place where we can share those details with admin so they are able to use that info in some way? I realise you can’t share personal details on the website, sure it must have happened before so wondered what the process might be? I think, if people have been caught out like that on this website, it should be allowed to name and shane, like you said, they may appear as a different username again but with the same photo maybe, my answer to this is, anyone who looks for money, end of conversation" Naming and shaming will never be all it's open to too much abuse | |||
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"I’ve found a few people have tried to get you to send them money for cabs to them or other such things, with the idea to extort money from you for the promise of making the meeting happen… I have reported such things, but I wonder if those people rinse repeat and come back and use the same trick under a new identity… is there a place where we can share those details with admin so they are able to use that info in some way? I realise you can’t share personal details on the website, sure it must have happened before so wondered what the process might be? I think, if people have been caught out like that on this website, it should be allowed to name and shane, like you said, they may appear as a different username again but with the same photo maybe, my answer to this is, anyone who looks for money, end of conversation It seems there is a route to being able to consistently abuse this type of trick, which users need some protection from. It’s not the websites fault, and user discretion should be advised, but people will fall for it, and there might be a way to come to a process that helps minimise this " It's against site rules to ask for or offer money. I think it wise to realise that it's unlikely that someone on a swingers site asking for money or gifts is genuine. | |||
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"I’ve found a few people have tried to get you to send them money for cabs to them or other such things, with the idea to extort money from you for the promise of making the meeting happen… I have reported such things, but I wonder if those people rinse repeat and come back and use the same trick under a new identity… is there a place where we can share those details with admin so they are able to use that info in some way? I realise you can’t share personal details on the website, sure it must have happened before so wondered what the process might be? I think, if people have been caught out like that on this website, it should be allowed to name and shane, like you said, they may appear as a different username again but with the same photo maybe, my answer to this is, anyone who looks for money, end of conversation Naming and shaming will never be all it's open to too much abuse" Was thinking perhaps there needs to be another level of authorisation, such as a phone number or some form of individual identification. | |||
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"I’ve found a few people have tried to get you to send them money for cabs to them or other such things, with the idea to extort money from you for the promise of making the meeting happen… I have reported such things, but I wonder if those people rinse repeat and come back and use the same trick under a new identity… is there a place where we can share those details with admin so they are able to use that info in some way? I realise you can’t share personal details on the website, sure it must have happened before so wondered what the process might be? I think, if people have been caught out like that on this website, it should be allowed to name and shane, like you said, they may appear as a different username again but with the same photo maybe, my answer to this is, anyone who looks for money, end of conversation Naming and shaming will never be all it's open to too much abuse Was thinking perhaps there needs to be another level of authorisation, such as a phone number or some form of individual identification. " Reporting allows admin to deal with it. I'll post how in my next response | |||
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