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new ish .. would like some action pls

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By *heworkshop OP   Man 34 weeks ago

boa

Hi all,

I've been on this site under 2 different names for about 7 yrs.

I now find myself wanting to try all of this out. I can def. Compartmentalise physical abd emotional connection, and .. you know what ..... Im good in bed ! ( ha .. said it ) and I want to please local women... and for that to be reciprocated.

It seems like a (sorry) hard community to get into ( for good reasons I guess) a d im just looking for a proper way in. ( more puns ... sorry) .. so ... I dunno, anyone/couple wanna take me under there wing ? ... need a cameraman ?? I dunno ... I just want to feel part of a community I feel I have always belonged to. ... oh that and of course hearing my name shouted from the rooftops, or begging me not to stop. That would be great to.

Your thoughts please.

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By *cottish guy 555Man 34 weeks ago

London

Go to a club or an organised group social. Talk to people.

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By *heworkshop OP   Man 34 weeks ago

boa

Ok .. cool ... WHERE ? .. where on fotum ..

I've been trying to get into clublove ... but not gone well ..

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By *CExeCouple 34 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

Are you 47 or 36? Your profile seems to have two ages...

Chat to folks on the forums and cams, get along to a club and keep an eye on the meet me page for local meets.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

The way to do it is to stand out with a good profile and good messages, and put yourself out there at clubs and socials.

Show who you are in your profile - informative text, a variety of well taken pictures. Send messages that respect people's wishes. Get a reputation in person.

I've been mentored and mentored people here, and these relationships started because the mentee stood out in some way to the potential mentor.

As others have said, an inconsistent age (I'd also include an age that appears incongruous with pictures presented) is a red flag.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

Photos of you smiling may help. And agree with the age comment.

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By *heworkshop OP   Man 34 weeks ago

boa

So ... sorted out (hope ) the age thing, just a genuine mistake. Agree with the smiling in pics ... but honestly .... smiling doesn't show me very well ... ( yes I do smile )

Thanks for the advice.. and I will look out for the next meet me in my area

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