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Hi all, really want to attend a club one evening but my mrs isn’t interested. What advice would you suggest, I just want to attend so she can see it’s not all about sex. And the worse thing is I know she’d get admirers. TIA |
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Your profile says "single guy". If you do have a partner and she's not interested in going to a club then leave it there, it will likely lead to drama. Couples with already great sex lives with each other have the most drama free fun at clubs. |
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By *irsSubCouple 32 weeks ago
Stockton |
You need to be asking this question of your wife, not random strangers on the internet. Whilst I'm not a big fan the idea of "persuading" someone to do something, sometimes it can be that she has concerns that can be solved by talking. Just be prepared that what you want, and what you get might not match |
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The number of guys on here who pose this question is unreal 
It’s always a grab the popcorn moment and wait for the inevitable character assassination!
“Show your wife your single man profile” is always my favourite  |
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"The number of guys on here who pose this question is unreal
It’s always a grab the popcorn moment and wait for the inevitable character assassination!
“Show your wife your single man profile” is always my favourite "
I wonder if anyone ever takes that advice 🤔 |
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By *oelMan 32 weeks ago
Midlands, London, Brussels |
"Hi all, really want to attend a club one evening but my mrs isn’t interested. What advice would you suggest, I just want to attend so she can see it’s not all about sex. And the worse thing is I know she’d get admirers. TIA"
Don't, don't persuade. My advice is don't, if she wants she will suggest. |
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"Imagine you got her to go and she says to you " I want you to get fucked up the arse by that 9in cock on that guy". Would you do it?"
 I often wonder how people would react if their partner said "yes, I will do X on condition that you do (insert something they have previously refused to do). I know you'll enjoy it". |
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"Imagine you got her to go and she says to you " I want you to get fucked up the arse by that 9in cock on that guy". Would you do it?
I often wonder how people would react if their partner said "yes, I will do X on condition that you do (insert something they have previously refused to do). I know you'll enjoy it". "
Or worse… “it would really turn me on.” 😵💫 |
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"Hi all, really want to attend a club one evening but my mrs isn’t interested. What advice would you suggest, I just want to attend so she can see it’s not all about sex. And the worse thing is I know she’d get admirers. TIA"
I’ll echo the other posts saying if she said she’s not interested then why don’t you believe her? Also if she did agree to go why would you care how many admirers she’s got? Attraction is a mutual thing every guy at the club could “fancy” her but if she isn’t interested in them it’s irrelevant |
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By *entenTeaCouple 32 weeks ago
Buckley North Wales |
You can try to persuade her and it might even work. However you are just pursuing your fantasy and it will become pretty evident to others at the club that she is not having a good time. The shear awkwardness will be very palpable. She will be left feeling pissed off, uncomfortable and manipulated, you will feel disappointed and resentful towards her.
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By *piceyMan 32 weeks ago
your marital bed given the chance |
"The number of guys on here who pose this question is unreal
It’s always a grab the popcorn moment and wait for the inevitable character assassination!
“Show your wife your single man profile” is always my favourite
I wonder if anyone ever takes that advice 🤔"
We all know what’s being said here.
‘Single’ men that really aren’t ‘single’ yeah?
That are married or have a partner.
As a mod are we saying this isn’t allowed? And morally isn’t correct?
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"The number of guys on here who pose this question is unreal
It’s always a grab the popcorn moment and wait for the inevitable character assassination!
“Show your wife your single man profile” is always my favourite
I wonder if anyone ever takes that advice 🤔
We all know what’s being said here.
‘Single’ men that really aren’t ‘single’ yeah?
That are married or have a partner.
As a mod are we saying this isn’t allowed? And morally isn’t correct?
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Nope! I meant exactly what I said, that is I wonder if anyone ever does show their partner their single profile .
Being married and on fab as a single person isn't against the rules so me being a mod isn't relevant |
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By *piceyMan 32 weeks ago
your marital bed given the chance |
"The number of guys on here who pose this question is unreal
It’s always a grab the popcorn moment and wait for the inevitable character assassination!
“Show your wife your single man profile” is always my favourite
I wonder if anyone ever takes that advice 🤔
We all know what’s being said here.
‘Single’ men that really aren’t ‘single’ yeah?
That are married or have a partner.
As a mod are we saying this isn’t allowed? And morally isn’t correct?
Nope! I meant exactly what I said, that is I wonder if anyone ever does show their partner their single profile .
Being married and on fab as a single person isn't against the rules so me being a mod isn't relevant "
Thank you for the clarification  |
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To be honest for us ot really is mostly about the sex. Making acquaintances and friends along the way is nice but really when we go to a sex club we are looking for sex.
Perhaps not so much for more experienced swingers mind you. Those we can understand the hang out and social side.
Have you asked her is she wants to be spitroasted by you and another man? If she's disinterested in being the focus of attention like that then she probably isn't bothered about swinging. |
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