Please could someone give me some advice,
I’m not getting as much engagement on here as I used to.
Is it anything to do with my profile or a is there not as much of an interest for single males anymore? |
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By *il-widgeMan 30 weeks ago
Stone Staffordshire |
We are one of hundreds of blokes on here, sometimes our message gets lost in dozens of others, sometimes we aren't what the other profile is looking for. Just take it on the chin and move on. Occasionally I have sent messages again to a same profile which has led to some engagement, sometimes its about timing. I know if we chat and meet then usually things go pretty good, but we aren't for everyone so que sera |
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I find swinging very much a couples + couples thing, I was seeing a slow down last year in my own interactions, this year has been even slower positively glacial.
The last time I had an individual meet (social) purely through here was August 2024.
Group socials tend to make up the bulk of my swinging activities these days  Even the private parties have dried up these last few months. Clubs are rarely accessible for me. |
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By *aandLoCouple 30 weeks ago
Southampton |
There seems to be a lot of single men asking the same sort of question. So, that's the first consideration: there's a lot of single men!
Obviously, there are those not looking to meet single men, and from outward appearances it seems to me there are the majority. But as are we, plenty are looking for single men. It just needs to be the right man....
On a quick look at your profile, for me the photos aren't showing the best of you. Too many similar, and too posed. Maybe try to mix it up a bit - Google might give you some ideas for different style selfies.
Perhaps inject a little more of your personality into your profile. Again only me, but I like a bit more cheeky humour.
The first message is important so give it careful thought, and try to relate to something specific in the profile of the person/people you're messaging.
Good luck x |
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“it wouldn’t take much for me to fall for you ahahah.” Is enough to put us off. We don’t need drama when there are so many others who are experienced and stress free.
Too many arm shots (great work, but not for me), as others have said, the photos are very repetitive.
Good luck.
X Ms |
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