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"I show most of mine. The ones I keep hidden are either graphic or have my non fab name in them x"
I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications but I didn't think about people maybe using real names or being a little too graphic!
I shall try to be less judgemental moving forwards! |
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"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications
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How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?"
If they have their summary showing it tells you how many veris they have. |
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"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications
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How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?
If they have their summary showing it tells you how many veris they have. "
But some of their verifications may be from people who have left the site. It may not necessarily be them hiding any.
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"There is no general view.
You show whatever you please, how much or how little.
This.
Do Fab your way. You'll never please everyone whichever you decide."
Completely agree, I choose not to display ones that are a word or two from people who barely know me or have my name in, and many of my veris have left the site now. But no judgement |
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I don't show mine usually, if someone wants to check them out I am happy to make them visible.
I don't mind if people have theirs on show or not though.
Other peoples opinions hold very little weight to me , I like to make my own judgement. |
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I only show ones that talk about me as a person, any that go into detail about sexual acts or my cock or cum stay hidden. I ask anyone I meet who wants to verify to keep it PG so I can display them |
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"Show all verifications, or just a couple. What is the general view?"
Depends upon what you are after and your audience!
We are looking for just one regular buddy so notches on the bed post would not attract us to a profile with loads of verifications. |
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"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications
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How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?
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If they have their summary showing it tells you how many veris they have. "
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Not necessarily - people leave the site but the overall tally remains. |
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As someone who likes to meet the same person more than once, I like to see a couple of verifications from the same member on someone's profile. It used to be the case that a verification was to show that the profile was a true representation of the person met and how easy was communication/arranging the meet...oh, and did they turn up? Any hiccups? Now many leave verifications for no reason other than to exhibit their own sexual prowess... Some are nothing more than graffiti - saying little more than, "I've shagged her!", or words to that effect. Some think it's an opportunity to provide a brief synopsis...some aren't so brief.
Some are bloody useless. I once seen one from a club that said they didnt get a chance to meet him personally but the ladies he had met spoke highly of him. All I take from verifications left by clubs is that the member's payment cleared and they turned up on the night.
I went through a phase of enjoying outdoor meets late at night. ,and I thought it was important to show that I had done it before and men who had turned up had lived to
tell the tale.
Personally, I don't care what they leave in a verification. Sometimes I find they can enhance someone's profile.
Just as an aside, I do think there is something suspicious about peope who hide their verification summary.
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As a general rule, I prefer not to show all of mine. I usually show one so people can see itd genuine.
No one needs to know who I've been meeting . I was also put off showing them because on more than one occasion, people have inboxed me about people I've met. Or, men saying that somebody on my verifications list didn't fit what my profile said so I should give them a go....
Each to their own  |
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We're so new that it makes sense to show all our verifications. That way, we figure that it tells others a little about us.
That said, if we received one that was a bit too explicit, we'd hide it.
As the numbers go up, we'll be selective as to which we show, just because we are thinking, who wants to read through pages of opinion that's 10 years old?
We're assuming a lot by thinking they will go up though, haha.
Anything other than meet in person, we discount as not being something that tells us what we want to know about people anyway. |
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"I've historically found it a bit of a red flag when people don't display all their verifications
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How do you know they're not displaying all their verifications?
If they have their summary showing it tells you how many veris they have.
But some of their verifications may be from people who have left the site. It may not necessarily be them hiding any.
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That's also true, I have quite a few like that myself. |
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"As someone who likes to meet the same person more than once, I like to see a couple of verifications from the same member on someone's profile. It used to be the case that a verification was to show that the profile was a true representation of the person met and how easy was communication/arranging the meet...oh, and did they turn up? Any hiccups? Now many leave verifications for no reason other than to exhibit their own sexual prowess... Some are nothing more than graffiti - saying little more than, "I've shagged her!", or words to that effect. Some think it's an opportunity to provide a brief synopsis...some aren't so brief.
Some are bloody useless. I once seen one from a club that said they didnt get a chance to meet him personally but the ladies he had met spoke highly of him. All I take from verifications left by clubs is that the member's payment cleared and they turned up on the night.
I went through a phase of enjoying outdoor meets late at night. ,and I thought it was important to show that I had done it before and men who had turned up had lived to
tell the tale.
Personally, I don't care what they leave in a verification. Sometimes I find they can enhance someone's profile.
Just as an aside, I do think there is something suspicious about peope who hide their verification summary.
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A very interesting and informative post.
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People can do as they wish. Personally we only reply if some or all of their verifications are displayed. We read a lot more into verifications than "they're real and they turned up". Last week we got a nice message off a hot looking couple, however something in a verification ensured we didn't reply. |
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By *ittynzWoman 29 weeks ago
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I’m always interested in this,
I used to show mine but they say same or similar things so I don’t show any now.
I’ve seen some people with 160+ displayed which I’m always like do you need to show them all?
Others I’ve seen some people don’t display recent ones but do oldest ones.
It’s your account you do what ever you want for me the only thing is if you’ve had an account for a while and you’ve not got any or you lost recent is from 2019 then id be less likely to meet.
But everyone has there own theory |
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"Show all verifications, or just a couple. What is the general view?"
All in general. We only hide those that stupidly mention our real names or from folk we'd certainly not meet again hence don't want to be judged by... |
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