"I am struggling to have sex and not sure why. I can get it up but go through with it  "
Could be stress or something else psychological. See your GP there’s a great range of medications and they work wonders.
Maybe add some kink to the mix too xx  |
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By *eaverMan 29 weeks ago
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"No we have been together for years "
Have a look to see if your work has an employee assistance programe that normally offers a few councilling sessions and that could highlight what your blocker is? |
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"I am struggling to have sex and not sure why. I can get it up but go through with it "
Make menopause is a real thing that does affect many men. Loss of libido is common. Speak to gp as someone mentioned earlier |
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The right partner is everything.
Maybe try meeting a soft swap partner / partners for a while. Having a little solo fun with someone can also help you build up to something else. Probably not easy to find, but the outcome could be worth the effort. |
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mate I feel for you.
don't overthink it, that will just make you more anxious and it wont be enjoyable even when you do
I assume you and your partner love each other, so try other things, mutual masturbation, oral etc, see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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You likely struggled once and now the psychological affects are, you’re thinking about that time which is causing you to become anxious about not fulfilling either yours or your partners needs.
Speak to someone regarding it, Gp, talking therapies.
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