I suggest she/you goes to a woman only event first. Get experience and an idea of what she/you like, what you don’t and the space to play without thinking about the male partner’s pleasure/comfort. Once you’re confident and know what you want the you’ll know who you’re looking for and what you have to offer them.
Female only nights are at lots of clubs. Liberty elite, le boudoir, one night parties etc. I hope you have a blast!!
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By *andJWCouple 29 weeks ago
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We've met a few couples and have a play date arranged, and a couple of club visits booked to see how they go. I'd wanted to book on a ladies only party too but there weren't any nearby that I could make so figured we'd just see how it goes meeting other couples first x |
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We only play together that’s part of the fun for us. We always treat another woman with respect and we’ve always all had a fun time- many repeat plays so obviously doing something right!
Our first time we just went with the flow, stuck to everyone’s boundaries and had fun.  |
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I'm not your target audience, but it's not clear what dynamic would be.
Would he join in, watch etc?
What can you offer another lady who joins you? As many won't want to play with a bicurious woman and her partner who are experimenting.
Remember bi fems are the most sought after demographic here, as so many couples and men want that all elusive ffm.
So you have alot of competition and if the man is involved, she needs to fancy 2 people.
Many couples have said in the past, that clubs have worked best for them, rather than just using fab, where bi women are inundated with messages. |
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Introduce a woman to swinging? Take them to a club perhaps, but be prepared to kotkplay yourselves. If she expects someone to have her back that's going to be pretty hard if you two are mid coitus with other people. |
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