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My new partner is interested in looking at swinging as she is new to this, she wants to go to a club where she can be watched while we have sex but no touching, do clubs facilitate this kind of request? |
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"My new partner is interested in looking at swinging as she is new to this, she wants to go to a club where she can be watched while we have sex but no touching, do clubs facilitate this kind of request? "
Of course all clubs operate a no touching without consent policy |
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"My new partner is interested in looking at swinging as she is new to this, she wants to go to a club where she can be watched while we have sex but no touching, do clubs facilitate this kind of request?
Of course all clubs operate a no touching without consent policy "
However, staff can't be everywhere, also some people seem to believe consent is a given once you're over the threshold of a swingers club. Or that, because they paid entrance fees, they are entitled to play. Both are very much myths that all clubs try to fight.
If you just want to be watched, most clubs have a room with either a window to look inside or barn door, where you can keep the top part of the door open and the bottom locked so nobody can come in. Some clubs also have cameras in certain rooms that show what is happening in that room on a screen by the bar, usually. This is just live streaming, not recording. |
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Watching and being watched is our thing too. Occasionally a little bit more than that.
Go to a club on a couples night, many are there for exactly the same thing we find.
We've not looked back from our first time and only found unwanted attention in places with single males. |
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Yes,you can do as much or as little as you like at clubs, I've found.
Sometimes me and my partner have played with others and sometimes we've only played with each other, in a room with others there too. |
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"My new partner is interested in looking at swinging as she is new to this, she wants to go to a club where she can be watched while we have sex but no touching, do clubs facilitate this kind of request? "
Most clubs really. For that extra security and freedom for worry most clubs have a spaces where you can be watched at a safe distance. Such as lockable rooms with viewing windows.
Be aware that if you play in open spaces that although no means no you may still get people bothering you to ask if they can join or getting withing close proximity to you. Some people are OK and fine being assertive with this but for others it can be a bit intense , distracting and a nuance. Generally couples nights tend to be tamer and gentler for starting out. Also couples nights tend to be a good night for parallel play as a couple (where you have sex in close proximity to others having sex but you don't get involved with each other). Lots of people find this a really hot baby step when starting out. |
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