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By *lexj36 OP Man 26 weeks ago
london |
Hi first post ever on this site! Hope this is in the right place 
So i was thinking of trying out Rios Spa in London and inviting my friend who is also kind interested. She is a very attractive girl who does attract a lot of attention.
I have heard a lot of mixed thinks about Rios from is great fun to worst exp ever and so what i wanted to know is that am i going to have to be fighting off a lot of random singles guys pushing boundaries or is this just a bit off its not as bad as some people have made it out to be and people are chill?
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By *R01Couple 26 weeks ago
St Albans |
What is she actually into? If she’s comfortable with that kind of environment — for example, men approaching her strong, trying to touch her, or following her around — then she’ll probably be fine. But if that’s not her thing, I’d strongly advise her not to go. We personally wouldn’t set foot in that place when single men are around. |
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I have been to Rios a few times and every time it was worse than before. My companion was a size 8, blue eyed blonde, she got followed everywhere. No one seemed to understand what No means. Guys were trying to grope her all the time. Was absolutely dreadful. That was couples night so can't even imagine on a normal day. |
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One important thing you need to remember about Rio's, OP, is that it's not a swingers club or a private members club. It's "just" a naturist spa with some "rest rooms" available. Staff don't know (and probably even don't care) who's there and what they're up to. When I went there years ago with a friend, on couples only night, it was not too bad but we still had people trying to barge into the locked rooms, constantly knocking on the door and trying the handle.
I would say take your friend to Ignite instead of Rio's. Might be better experience with similar facilities. |
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Never met anyone chill in that place. Take the advice from people here, if she's into that kind of atmosphere she will have a great time (some women are), either way it will take a while to recover from the experience |
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By *lexj36 OP Man 26 weeks ago
london |
Funny enough she can be pretty feisty and i am sure she can take care of herself no problem but i do feel responsible for her safety so just want to mentaly prepare myself.
Curiosity will prob win out in the end haha |
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"I was not even aware there was a couples night tbh. Is that still a thing sorry?"
Don't think so- their website doesn't mention anything about it, but probably people who are regular there will know and reply on here. |
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"One important thing you need to remember about Rio's, OP, is that it's not a swingers club or a private members club. It's "just" a naturist spa with some "rest rooms" available. Staff don't know (and probably even don't care) who's there and what they're up to. When I went there years ago with a friend, on couples only night, it was not too bad but we still had people trying to barge into the locked rooms, constantly knocking on the door and trying the handle.
I would say take your friend to Ignite instead of Rio's. Might be better experience with similar facilities. "
This is exactly what I was thinking. Hands down Ignite over Rio’s.
I’ve only been once to Rio’s and I am in no rush to go back… ever. |
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Men I go with are more upset by other men than me. I was in the hot tub with two guys I know and my head was turned to my Dom and I could feel my pussy being touched. It was by a random dude opposite. So my Dom had a word with him. Later on an hour later he had to talk to him again xx
They usually listen when you say you’re not interested xx
It’s a fun club and the staff are nice and it’s easy to get in to. Other clubs with strict ratios need personal information xx  |
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"I was not even aware there was a couples night tbh. Is that still a thing sorry?"
No I believe they've stopped them so it's open to anyone... literally. You can walk in off the street with no ID and I think this is the main issue as there's no consequences for poor behaviour. |
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Genuinely OP don't do it. not even a conversation for me if its the first experience.
I have been and had mixed experiences, but... the fact I had an experience where I had to threaten physical violence because two guys wouldn't leave the girl I was with alone does say it all.
Places can change so if it was me on my own and I had nothing else to do, I might consider it, but no way would I take somebody else. |
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I've been twice and the first time it wasn't too bad but it was fairly quiet in the middle of the week.
THe second time I went I was embarrassed to be male. Most of the guys there were aggressivly pushy around women and couples, no chill and just trying to barge their way into the rooms, constantly banging on the doors and following them around.
I wouldn't consider it a proper naturist venue because you will be in the minority if you are nude, I wouldn't consider it a proper swingers venue either, it's like the wild west in there compared to a properly managed club. |
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"I've been twice and the first time it wasn't too bad but it was fairly quiet in the middle of the week.
THe second time I went I was embarrassed to be male. Most of the guys there were aggressivly pushy around women and couples, no chill and just trying to barge their way into the rooms, constantly banging on the doors and following them around.
I wouldn't consider it a proper naturist venue because you will be in the minority if you are nude, I wouldn't consider it a proper swingers venue either, it's like the wild west in there compared to a properly managed club."
We must go |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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It's not the best to be honest, lots of people aren't actually nude, and the guys are creepy. Even as a guy myself I was followed and touched without consent, which surprised me lol |
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By *Xtriple7Couple 25 weeks ago
N Peterborough. |
When we used to rarely go, back in 2018-2020 it was at least predominantly nude with topless bar staff.
Guys have always been a nuisance. Even seen guys pestering women walking past the place, outside in the street. Just to get into the couples only night. |
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"Hi first post ever on this site! Hope this is in the right place
So i was thinking of trying out Rios Spa in London and inviting my friend who is also kind interested. She is a very attractive girl who does attract a lot of attention.
I have heard a lot of mixed thinks about Rios from is great fun to worst exp ever and so what i wanted to know is that am i going to have to be fighting off a lot of random singles guys pushing boundaries or is this just a bit off its not as bad as some people have made it out to be and people are chill?
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Go to Le boudoir or Hellfire . If it’s your first times le boudoir is excellent. Hands down the best run club and felt the safest at. |
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