I quite like it. But as a fellow Nordie the humour is relatable.
You'll see no doubt already from the few replies already that you'll never please everyone. My advice? If you're happy with it, run with it. You can always amend it as you go along if later you decide there's something you're specifically looking for (or not). Your profile doesn't have to be the finished article straight out of the traps - it can grow and evolve with you.
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If you feel your profile represents you and your personality well, I wouldn’t change it. Your aim should never be to attract as many people as possible. It should be to show yourself off to the people you’re compatible with. |
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"Crimson_Rose: Your aim should never be to attract as many people as possible. It should be to show yourself off to the people you’re compatible with."
Very, very much this. Not seen it out like this before but totally agree. |
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By *ickD80Man 25 weeks ago
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This is one of the most original, non generic profiles i’ve seen for a long time. It’s not amazing and doesn’t really tell me much about you but the way it’s written tells me a lot more than the actual content. It gives the impression that you’re laid back, you don’t take life too seriously and you have a sense of humour….so if that’s what you’re like then it’s doing what it’s supposed to do.
The only negative comment i’d make is that you say you’re not in bad shape but you’re not in great shape either (or something like that) but your pictures show that you are actually in really great shape, so maybe you should consider removing that as it’s a bit contradictory.
And definitely bonus points for not using AI to write your bio like so many now obviously do. |
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We dont know what you had before because now it says "fill in later" which isn't great.
But the problem with asking others what you should write is you are getting a snapshot of what they want to see, rather than what you want to portray.
And what you want to portray is paramount.
If you'd asked "how can I word this more to show I'm looking for "deeper connection than one off one night stands" or "one off no strings fun" then fair enough.
But people cant tell you how to word things to project what you are seeking unless you explain what you are seeking. |
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What you had before was 100% better than now. Like others have said it was definitely different and stood out in the sea of sameness. While it wasn’t for me it will be for others (several have said they liked it). You’re way more likely to get results by standing out.
It might be worth recognising that conversion rates are much lower here than on typical dating apps regardless. Being yourself will always be better than the same as the homogeneous hoards. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Just had a look and its empty now, fill in later would be an auto pass by too
Not sure what was there before "
It was good. Pretty funny actually, showed he had a sense of humour. |
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