I'm assuming 'buy' was a typo and you're not offering people money to meet as that's against site rules.
I'll move this to support and advice where you might get some comments on your profile
Hello Gary. You say you are into "anything except extreme pain and watersports" but as you are straight you can't be into bi sex so you are not into anything.
Also I find the word "fems" offputting.
Have you had fun at the clubs you go to ?
