Hi all,
I could do with some advice on how to respond to a wink from another member.
We seem to go through a cycle every 6 months or so where we wink at each other and then I send a message then she doesn't reply. The messages I've sent haven't been anything crazy (e.g. meet now?) and I've sent face photos (no cock photos) since I don't have any public ones on my profile.
The first time this happened, she winked at me after probably seeing I looked at her profile.
From her short bio, I seem to match what she's looking for but I can understand if she's changed her mind after I've sent photos.
We've now just started this cycle for the third (maybe fourth) time where I winked at her a few days ago, she's looked and my profile and winked back.
Are winks not a good indicator I could at least expect a response to a message? I'm starting to think that maybe my previous messages were a little too tame and maybe I should send something more X-rated this time...any advice on how to proceed would be appreciated.
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By *sm265Woman 20 weeks ago
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Personally, I dont really look at winks and I never send them, so Im probably not an expert on winking etiquette. However, having seen many posts similar to this one over the years, there is no difinitive answer, people use and interpret winks in all sorts of different ways.
Maybe base your latest message around your confussion over the ongoing game of wink tag and see if she responds?
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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If someone winks at me and I'm interested I'll wink back to see if they message and reply if they do.
If she isn't replying to your messages it's probably worth just blocking and moving on. |
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We don't respond to winks, we are looking for single guys and there are loads so they have to stand out by sending a decent message. We think winks are lazy.
As for the ops situation I would leave it, if she was interested she would message you. |
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It seems to me she's winking back in much the same way she would respond with 'hi' to a passer by who acknowledged her in the street, with no expectation of further discourse.
I would say to anybody who feels confused about any form of communication on fab that anything other than a positive, in writing response in unambiguous terms is a 'not interested'. It's not a 'maybe' or ' I'll get back to you'. |
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What I've gathered from the forums (and profiles) over time is that single men like winks, and that the majority of couples and women really don't like them.
Maybe such a feature should be removed if everyone keeps arguing that it's pointless? |
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