My girlfriend and I are both interested in visiting a club and enjoying the social side of things to begin with, some sexy voyeurism and also playing while others watch maybe. Just an easy introduction kind of thing.
She’s worried about her body although she’s also very keen on the idea.
She’s lost a load of weight over a three year period and isn’t as ‘toned’ as she’d like. She’s beautiful though. 😊
Anyway I’ve got some history of a couple of low key clubs from some years back and my memory is that there is a whole mixture of ‘types’ there and in any case, clothes come off when/where she wants so she’ll not be under any pressure.
Clearly that’s my memory though and I wondered what other seasoned experts might think.
Just to be clear…. This is not a case of me pressuring her in anyway, but I’m keen to get some first hand experience on how newbies are received, how the evenings pan out and what sort of even we should aim for.
All feedback welcome…. 😁❤️ |
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By *DW1983Man 20 weeks ago
Blackpool, Aberdeen or Sheffield |
You'll see all shapes and sizes, everyone's there to enjoy themselves and no one is going to care. Be yourselves, be well-dressed, be friendly, make a good impression and you'll be fine. And even if she's (or you're) not someone's type, or they're not yours, people aren't there to judge. |
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Theres always lots of different body types on show at clubs. Most people wouldnt judge. It was our biggest hang up before we started going to clubs.
Some places are dress down so youd need to be comfortable in underwear or a towel, but a lot of clubs are smart casual and only dress down if you want to. |
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By *each bumsCouple 20 weeks ago
SPAIN.. PERMANENTLY |
When I got together with my man I had zero experience at all. Previous partner degraded me due to my size, sex for him was his expected Thursday night grope the ten seconds before he was done. When I met my soulmate he showed nothing but interest both in me as a person, but also equally sexually ...he was totally open about his sexuality open and adventurous attitude towards two people enjoying exploring without being closed minded. He at no time pressured me or tried to persuade me to do anything, just to follow my new found confidence in myself. We eventually went to a club which had had explained the basics well in advance. I'm a big girl and was really body conscious about what others would say. We had been there around an hour and seeing all shapes and sizes of both sexes I felt so comfortable that I took myself off and changed into an outfit returning to the bar and lounges. My advice would be go, see for yourself and don't be surprised for any other reactions except positive compliments. I can guarantee that the only concerns you had will dissolve. Go for it !!! xxxx |
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Three years dieting I take my hat off to her shes got will power that means to me shes got guts and a good mind she’ll be a very strong willed lady in the club sene your shape or size means nothing it’s what’s between your ears that matters and those who think otherwise aren’t the type you would want to mix with the one thing I would say is make sure your clean and smell freash |
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I think that’s the key.
She has a stunning figure when dressed, she’s just not personally keen her untoned skin after all the weight loss.
Of course, I fancy her just as she is, it’s only about her confidence.
She loves the idea though so maybe a visit with our clothes on and then just see how the mood takes us.
I think she has an image of arriving and just being thrown into a room of naked people.
Anyway, thanks very much everybody. |
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