I think the text is ok, you might want to change the dick pics up a bit? Some prefer to see clothed pics. One or two dick pics is alright but other than that it could get a bit samey?
I think you also need to just have patience. Attend a few socials or clubs in your area, if you can, and see how you go. Sometimes it can take ages to get a meet, it’s not a reflection on you just that men outweigh women on here by quite some margin.
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When we first started, we read loads of profiles, of all persuasions. It really helped us pick up tips. You can see the successful ones if you really drill into them. Things like a balanced number of veris over a reasonable time frame is useful to look at.
And of course, there's no point in doing that unless you apply the tips you pick up directly to your profile. Keep updating, refreshing & adding.
Ours is probably a bit long-winded, but there are 2 of us & we both have things to say about what we'd like & our values.
One other thing. Do you have a superpower? A friend of ours has a massive thing he offers, no not the obvious, but a skill in a certain type of massage. Don't claim you have it if you don't, though. It's embarrassing to be found out when you meet someone. |
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Are you using your profile to tell people what you’re looking for and what you offer? This is how people will gauge compatibility and decide whether or not to reply.
Don’t be side tracked by the ‘so many messages’ argument. We spot the good messages from potentially compatible people. Everyone will have a filter that helps them narrow things down - for example I instantly delete anything I can read without opening it (good morning, hi etc.). Others will delete messages from people with cock profile photos or silhouettes and so on.
Focus on what you can control, which is how well you sell yourself. |
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I agree have only been back on fab for a few months after several years away and I got a meeting last sat but when I was last on I think it took about 6 months before I got a meet, the problem is if you don't get a meet you cannot get a verification and for very good and obvious reasons many ladies will not meet or even accept messages from guys who have not been varied. |
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"Ditch the dick pics
Ladies don't like them.
Show off your body, wear nice clothes.
Be suggestive and saucey and funny
Women love cake as well."
So all this time I should have been offering cake too? 🙄 |
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"Are you using your profile to tell people what you’re looking for and what you offer? This is how people will gauge compatibility and decide whether or not to reply.
Don’t be side tracked by the ‘so many messages’ argument. We spot the good messages from potentially compatible people. Everyone will have a filter that helps them narrow things down - for example I instantly delete anything I can read without opening it (good morning, hi etc.). Others will delete messages from people with cock profile photos or silhouettes and so on.
Focus on what you can control, which is how well you sell yourself. "
Never a truer word said 👏 |
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Thanks for all the help people, I've ditched the dick pics and will look to add more body and clothed pics soon. As for only having 1 veri from 3 years ago I can't get any new veris if I don't get any replies to messages but I will try harder, thanks again |
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By *ML49Man 19 weeks ago
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"Is there anything I can do to my profile to help get more replies? Or is it just a case of you ladies getting too many messages to answer them all?"
Open another account so you can feel what its like to receive a message. Failing that just send a message to yourself via your profile.  |
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