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Sadly my partner (female) and I have just fallen out of the habit.
I think we had sex like... once in 2025.
Some random local guy I occasionally meet however, pumped me full of cum at least six times.
Hopefully 2026 will be a bit more mixed.
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Every time we see each other and a couple of times each day we are together. We see each other a couple of times a week.
We literally can't keep our hands off each other...but we live apart and have only been together about a year, so that might be the reason!
But touch is definitely part of our love language!
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"Every time we see each other and a couple of times each day we are together. We see each other a couple of times a week.
We literally can't keep our hands off each other...but we live apart and have only been together about a year, so that might be the reason!
But touch is definitely part of our love language!
Mrs DD"
Same! We’ve been together five years and still are like this. I’m a big fan of living apart together relationships. |
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Tends to be a bit bunched up really. There are weeks where it's 3 times and months where it's also 3 times.
Just about how much stress and ordinary life stuff is in the way.
And to a point how much we are swinging. If we are swinging more then there's a little bit less biological urgency for more sex in general |
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With kids at home it is difficult, but we can usually do it about 1-2 times a week if we are not too busy at work.
About once a month we splash out and go to a love hotel for a good fuck fest. We did that last night as I had been away for three weeks.
Sometimes life gets in the way and we don’t do it at all. She seems to be winding down since she hit 50 though, but I’m still up for it like a horny teenager 😆
17 years married and still at it, I think we are doing okay 👍 |
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"Every time we see each other and a couple of times each day we are together. We see each other a couple of times a week.
We literally can't keep our hands off each other...but we live apart and have only been together about a year, so that might be the reason!
But touch is definitely part of our love language!
Mrs DD
Same! We’ve been together five years and still are like this. I’m a big fan of living apart together relationships. "
Debaucherous duo...great name! 😜 |
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"Just curious as to how often people do have sex with their partners?
How often do you guys do it in a month? Or weekly ?
Thanks  "
if we are in the same house... a few times a week... if in a club a lot..
We would love to do so more but unfortunately we have family at home that would be disturbed if we jumped each other when we fancied it. We are almost constantly touching each other though x |
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Our 32 year marriage
First 10 years daily
10-28 years 4-5 times a week
Last few years due to my menopause about twice a week. Hubby’s sex drive hasn’t really reduced so I give him a BJ 2-3 times a week as well |
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We've been together for 4 years now and have consistently averaged around 5 times per week. External factors do play a part and the number has fluctuated at times but there has been very little decline over the long term, even though we are now both the wrong side of 50. We are very fortunate that we have similar levels of sexual energy 😁
Whenever we have done lifestyle stuff it has given us a massive boost and we can't keep our hands off each other!!! |
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By *igad999Man 18 weeks ago
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Married 25+ years now
Over time has its up and downs some dry spells some insatiable spells
Right now last few years both have high sex drives. I’d say least 3-4 times a week but also some times will have times where don’t have sex but willl tease play oral only etc and if got a weekend planned may tease each other that week with no cumming etc |
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All depends on many things.
Paul works overseas, I work full time, busy lives, etc
But our sex life is of high quality.
The number of times is not an issue to us, its about the where, when, how and who with.
If you measure on number of times or what you believe others do, you will always come up disappointed, also take into account people tell fibs about their sex lives.
Just enjoy all the different aspects of a fulfilling sex life, forget the numbers.  |
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