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By *eyeY OP Couple 18 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Hi ladies, we all know the frustration around mother nature hindering fun.
But I've managed the ultimate one in that our wedding day and honeymoon have perfectly aligned with mine in around 5 months.. 🤬🤦
Contemplating the delay pill in the hope it may alter my pattern during the months running up to it.
Am I wishing on a star?!
Any help/advice/experience would be greatly appreciated!! 🤞😘 |
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Sayana Press, a three monthly injection, totally stops periods. My daughter has been using it with no problems for about three years.
I had no periods with Depo injections but I know some people do. |
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The delay tablet works well. Used it many times take on the day your period is due and i think it’s 3 a day and it will stop then until you stop taking. But will make you have severe cramps after.. |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 18 weeks ago
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"If you’re on the pill already just start the next packet straight away so no week off and therefore no breakthrough bleed.
Congratulations on your imminent wedding. Susannah x"
No I'm not D had the snip before we met, so no need to..
Both a positive and negative mind. 😘 |
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I went with injections in hope it would prevent mine at my wedding...instead I ended up bleeding almost constantly for six months, including my wedding, I happened to be the one out of ten.
Norethisterone mini pill used three times a day as the delay pill works well for me and I hardly have after effects. I don't ever delay more than three or four days though, I think the after effects get worse the longer you driay it. |
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Delay pills have worked well for me in the past, used them for my wedding to my ex.
Bit late for you but I got a hormonal IUD a year ago and I went from heavy painful periods to spotting a day or two a month, best decision for me. |
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"Sayana Press, a three monthly injection, totally stops periods. My daughter has been using it with no problems for about three years.
I had no periods with Depo injections but I know some people do. "
It took about a year of me taking this but it’s the only contraceptive that has completely stopped them and it’s a god send for lots of reasons |
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"Thank you ladies ☺️
I used a delay pill once for D's birthday party and while it worked, I agree with after effects..
The injection sounds interesting and I'll investigate.
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I have the injection too. No monthlies to worry about it's great.
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If on the contraception pill, keep taking it (no week break) and you won’t have a period! They tell ladies who have Endometriosis to do this to stop periods and so low down further damage from happening internally. X
Massive congratulations on your wedding guys! Xx |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 17 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Thank you for the congratulations!
Yeah a little excited to be able to call my sexy man 'my husband'!
Appreciate all the thoughts and avenues to explore, after all who'd not want to consecrate a marriage thoroughly?! ☺️🤣😈 |
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Extraordinary that you would consider hormonal pills to delay a perfectly normal process.
A bit of blood should not put your life partner off.
Indeed, plenty of other ways to play. Vibrators, masturbation, rimming.
Women even go to clubs when they have their periods but usually don't allow penetration. |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 13 weeks ago
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"Extraordinary that you would consider hormonal pills to delay a perfectly normal process.
A bit of blood should not put your life partner off.
Indeed, plenty of other ways to play. Vibrators, masturbation, rimming.
Women even go to clubs when they have their periods but usually don't allow penetration."
Extraordinary!
That's a very assumed and judgemental post from a man, it's my body and I wasn't seeking 'your' opinion on what I choose to do or how my life partner feels.
A bit of blood doesn't bother him at all and do we honestly look like we need your advice on alternative play methods?
Clubs during a monthly, yes done that..
Pretty sure you've not had a period, unlike the other contributors here, so your input wasn't relevant or appreciated in the slightest..
Thanks though! Y x |
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You can do this with the period delay tablet. I’ve had them from my GP. You can also get them thru boots and Superdrug doctors.
You need to take them 3 days before your period is roughly due. You may find some light spotting while taking them.
Pains and period can be slightly heavier when you do come on, besides that I’ve found no issues. X |
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"Extraordinary that you would consider hormonal pills to delay a perfectly normal process.
A bit of blood should not put your life partner off.
Indeed, plenty of other ways to play. Vibrators, masturbation, rimming.
Women even go to clubs when they have their periods but usually don't allow penetration."
Honey, if you think being on your period is 'just a bit of blood' then you've got no horse in this race I'm afraid.
Most women experience a lonnnggggg list of symptoms during their period, some that make 'a little bit of blood' seem irrelevant, although just fyi for some women it isn't 'a little bit of blood' but quite a lot of blood.
Now I could be wrong but I'm almost certain she would be looking at delaying her period for her own feelings, not to please her partner....it's a wild thought but sometimes women do things for their own benefit to  |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 13 weeks ago
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"You can do this with the period delay tablet. I’ve had them from my GP. You can also get them thru boots and Superdrug doctors.
You need to take them 3 days before your period is roughly due. You may find some light spotting while taking them.
Pains and period can be slightly heavier when you do come on, besides that I’ve found no issues. X"
Appreciated, I have used them previously and whilst not as easy as you're experience it wasn't horrendous.
Can you remember the last time? Reason being I can't remember whether the monthly after was a roughly normal cycle time after the one I delayed.. ie I pushed all future ones back.
Thoughts being done this a couple of months prior, so I have neither the effects of doing so or my monthly around our nuptials or definite consecration 😉😘 |
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Much as I empathise with the inconvenience of menstruation, one has to be aware of the side effects of taking this pill, it's not like taking smarties.
I quote from a female pharmacist :
She also warned that these tablets, like many medications, can come with side effects including breast tenderness, loss of libido, nausea, headaches and changes in mood.
None of the above is desirable on a romantic break.
I cannot understand why people would want to interfere with healthy biological processes. That of course leads to discussions on HRT which involves a long term commitment on a completely different scale. |
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I cannot understand why people would want to interfere with healthy biological processes. "
Maybe it's because you have never had really painful stomach cramps or had such heavy bleeding your bedsheets or trousers have been stained. |
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"You can do this with the period delay tablet. I’ve had them from my GP. You can also get them thru boots and Superdrug doctors.
You need to take them 3 days before your period is roughly due. You may find some light spotting while taking them.
Pains and period can be slightly heavier when you do come on, besides that I’ve found no issues. X
Appreciated, I have used them previously and whilst not as easy as you're experience it wasn't horrendous.
Can you remember the last time? Reason being I can't remember whether the monthly after was a roughly normal cycle time after the one I delayed.. ie I pushed all future ones back.
Thoughts being done this a couple of months prior, so I have neither the effects of doing so or my monthly around our nuptials or definite consecration 😉😘"
November time for me as I went on holiday. My first period after was heavier.
I think if you did it months prior it would work out ok with a little planning x |
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"Much as I empathise with the inconvenience of menstruation, one has to be aware of the side effects of taking this pill, it's not like taking smarties.
I quote from a female pharmacist :
She also warned that these tablets, like many medications, can come with side effects including breast tenderness, loss of libido, nausea, headaches and changes in mood.
None of the above is desirable on a romantic break.
I cannot understand why people would want to interfere with healthy biological processes. That of course leads to discussions on HRT which involves a long term commitment on a completely different scale. "
As a man, you will never be able to comprehend anything to do with a menstrual cycle. As you are lucky enough to never have to deal with them. |
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By *eyeY OP Couple 13 weeks ago
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"Much as I empathise with the inconvenience of menstruation, one has to be aware of the side effects of taking this pill, it's not like taking smarties.
I quote from a female pharmacist :
She also warned that these tablets, like many medications, can come with side effects including breast tenderness, loss of libido, nausea, headaches and changes in mood.
None of the above is desirable on a romantic break.
I cannot understand why people would want to interfere with healthy biological processes. That of course leads to discussions on HRT which involves a long term commitment on a completely different scale. "
Jeez, read the room! It may be something to do with the fact you are not a woman, a bit of a self righteous prick, but not a woman.
When you have your first month please feel free to tell us about it 🙄 |
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Firstly , many congratulations on your news.
Secondly, the replies (bar one or two) show the togetherness of fabbers, willing to offer constructive guidance and benefits of their experiences.
Whatever the decision/process you go through, I wish you all the best in your future together
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