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"Man to man i can't see much wrong with it.. The pictures of the hand and the eye are a bit unnerving but other than those, great profile! "
Really don't know what to think to be fair. Always polite in the messages and no woman is really interested even to reply. The only reply wich is a reply, is message opened but left as it but not deleted or ignored completely.
Fuck knows...
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"Looks fine to me op just got to plod on and have some patience and hopefully you get somewhere  "
Sincerely I got over with it.
At the start I was concerned about it, now days I see it as if it happens it happens. But the curiosity remains there together with the question of what I am doing wrong? |
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"Profile is fine, I'm always a bit put of by someone's toy collection, but that's just me.
You've had three meets you are doing better than most men on fab.
Mrs "
Thanks I will put them as a private and see if does change something. Thanks for the reply. Alfie xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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It's just about finding someone that's attracted to you, and seemingly we all find different things attractive.
If you're happy with it then who cares what a few people on the forum think. |
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It's just about finding someone that's attracted to you, and seemingly we all find different things attractive.
If you're happy with it then who cares what a few people on the forum think. "
Totally agree, everyone has their taste on their own and we are all different of course.
Well I am not really happy with it to be fair, otherwise I wouldn't have asked the question. I just said that I have to get over it somehow otherwise it could get in my head.
Saying this, I don't think that I am the only one thinking in that way.
Just saying. Thanks for the reply.
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By *olfiMan 17 weeks ago
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It's just about finding someone that's attracted to you, and seemingly we all find different things attractive.
If you're happy with it then who cares what a few people on the forum think.
Totally agree, everyone has their taste on their own and we are all different of course.
Well I am not really happy with it to be fair, otherwise I wouldn't have asked the question. I just said that I have to get over it somehow otherwise it could get in my head.
Saying this, I don't think that I am the only one thinking in that way.
Just saying. Thanks for the reply.
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Oh you're not the only one that thinks that way.
I don't think my profile looks very good, but I try not to let it bother me. Whatever happens will happen.
I know I'm shit at completing bio's, I struggle talking about myself.
But try to see it, as it's always a work in progress.
You can always add to it or change things when you need to, no limits. |
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It's just about finding someone that's attracted to you, and seemingly we all find different things attractive.
If you're happy with it then who cares what a few people on the forum think.
Totally agree, everyone has their taste on their own and we are all different of course.
Well I am not really happy with it to be fair, otherwise I wouldn't have asked the question. I just said that I have to get over it somehow otherwise it could get in my head.
Saying this, I don't think that I am the only one thinking in that way.
Just saying. Thanks for the reply.
Oh you're not the only one that thinks that way.
I don't think my profile looks very good, but I try not to let it bother me. Whatever happens will happen.
I know I'm shit at completing bio's, I struggle talking about myself.
But try to see it, as it's always a work in progress.
You can always add to it or change things when you need to, no limits."
That's exactly what I do.
It can be mentally devastating so as I said and you said if it happens it happens, it means that I played well my card.
But the question it's still there in your mind unanswered.
And I am sure that is not only me and you here.
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To me the text reads as AI and full of clichés rather than really saying much.
I like the pictures though.
It's a tough market on here. Don't get down about a lack of interest, that is what most straight men experience on here 💜 |
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"To me the text reads as AI and full of clichés rather than really saying much.
I like the pictures though.
It's a tough market on here. Don't get down about a lack of interest, that is what most straight men experience on here 💜"
I would have assumed AI given the abundance of em-dash |
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"To me the text reads as AI and full of clichés rather than really saying much.
I like the pictures though.
It's a tough market on here. Don't get down about a lack of interest, that is what most straight men experience on here 💜
I would have assumed AI given the abundance of em-dash"
Any suggestions to improve it? Thanks for the apparition for the pictures. Xx
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"I spy ai assisted profile bio
To be fair I used AI to make sure that would have made sense what I was trying to write to be honest . "
Points for honesty, and it is good for that and helping with structure
But then go over it all and make sure its still your voice. This is a personal process and needs the human touch
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By *vaRoseWoman 17 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"I spy ai assisted profile bio
To be fair I used AI to make sure that would have made sense what I was trying to write to be honest .
Points for honesty, and it is good for that and helping with structure
But then go over it all and make sure its still your voice. This is a personal process and needs the human touch
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Exactly this
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"I have no idea what your profile looked like seven hours ago but I'll say it's one of the more remarkable male profiles I've come across.
Other men should take note. 🩶"
I really just set as private 3 pictures so far that's all.
One was my eye
One of my hands (Some women prefer big hands)
And another one was a light bdsm toy collection.
Thanks but it seems like is to AI though.
So I have to modify the bio. |
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"I have no idea what your profile looked like seven hours ago but I'll say it's one of the more remarkable male profiles I've come across.
Other men should take note. 🩶
I really just set as private 3 pictures so far that's all.
One was my eye
One of my hands (Some women prefer big hands)
And another one was a light bdsm toy collection.
Thanks but it seems like is to AI though.
So I have to modify the bio. "
And if you have an interesting accent...as your veris seem to indicate. Ive seen men post videos of themselves speaaking 🤷♀️ |
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"I spy ai assisted profile bio
To be fair I used AI to make sure that would have made sense what I was trying to write to be honest .
Points for honesty, and it is good for that and helping with structure
But then go over it all and make sure its still your voice. This is a personal process and needs the human touch
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That's really who I am. I don't like lies and also I don't like playing with people feeling.
Understandably English is not my first language and even after 11 years I still learning about it every day.
I will try to make few adjustments and see how it goes. Thank you. |
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"I have no idea what your profile looked like seven hours ago but I'll say it's one of the more remarkable male profiles I've come across.
Other men should take note. 🩶
I really just set as private 3 pictures so far that's all.
One was my eye
One of my hands (Some women prefer big hands)
And another one was a light bdsm toy collection.
Thanks but it seems like is to AI though.
So I have to modify the bio.
And if you have an interesting accent...as your veris seem to indicate. Ive seen men post videos of themselves speaaking 🤷♀️"
I actually have a Scottish Italian accent. All my friends call me the Scottish Italian. So I should video myself. Although there is plenty of me talking about how repair cars on YouTube lol. |
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"I spy ai assisted profile bio
To be fair I used AI to make sure that would have made sense what I was trying to write to be honest .
Points for honesty, and it is good for that and helping with structure
But then go over it all and make sure its still your voice. This is a personal process and needs the human touch
Exactly this
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I will do some adjustments and see how it goes. Thanks 😊 |
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If the input for AI is "write me something amazing that will get me sex and dates" then it's not acceptable.
If you're describing something in •detail• about yourself into AI, about your desires, your outlook in life, your interests and something about your personality and your traits, anything that resembles the 'true you' and where the output can't be applied to anyone else, then it can be acceptable. Especially IF English isn't your first language or perhaps one needs help with grammar etc.
Personally I'm not a fan of AI. However, I do agree with Eva and StormQueen above: read it back to yourself and refine it, polish it up so that it truly represents you and not some automaton. |
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"As many to man, the profile now is fine.
You haven't any pics with you 'measuring' yourself. No demeaning language on the profile etc.
Just now be yourself"
Unfortunately has to be man to woman lol.
Joke on the side I am going to make some adjustments. |
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"If the input for AI is "write me something amazing that will get me sex and dates" then it's not acceptable.
If you're describing something in •detail• about yourself into AI, about your desires, your outlook in life, your interests and something about your personality and your traits, anything that resembles the 'true you' and where the output can't be applied to anyone else, then it can be acceptable. Especially IF English isn't your first language or perhaps one needs help with grammar etc.
Personally I'm not a fan of AI. However, I do agree with Eva and StormQueen above: read it back to yourself and refine it, polish it up so that it truly represents you and not some automaton. "
Thanks man. Appreciate it |
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"Womens and couples could you please give me some advice regarding my profile. Not sure if there is something there wrong, I am too fat, I am too ugly or maybe because I am a foreign? Cheers "
It is very easy to blame it on anything.
I think there is a simple answer.
There is LOADS of competition here, and men outnumber women and couples maybe 25 to 1.
So, they either find you attractive or not.
Simple really.
Just knuckle down and be patient. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 17 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"I have no idea what your profile looked like seven hours ago but I'll say it's one of the more remarkable male profiles I've come across.
Other men should take note. 🩶
I really just set as private 3 pictures so far that's all.
One was my eye
One of my hands (Some women prefer big hands)
And another one was a light bdsm toy collection.
Thanks but it seems like is to AI though.
So I have to modify the bio.
And if you have an interesting accent...as your veris seem to indicate. Ive seen men post videos of themselves speaaking 🤷♀️
I actually have a Scottish Italian accent. All my friends call me the Scottish Italian. So I should video myself. Although there is plenty of me talking about how repair cars on YouTube lol. "
Well now we definitely need a video |
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"I have no idea what your profile looked like seven hours ago but I'll say it's one of the more remarkable male profiles I've come across.
Other men should take note. 🩶
I really just set as private 3 pictures so far that's all.
One was my eye
One of my hands (Some women prefer big hands)
And another one was a light bdsm toy collection.
Thanks but it seems like is to AI though.
So I have to modify the bio.
And if you have an interesting accent...as your veris seem to indicate. Ive seen men post videos of themselves speaaking 🤷♀️
I actually have a Scottish Italian accent. All my friends call me the Scottish Italian. So I should video myself. Although there is plenty of me talking about how repair cars on YouTube lol.
Well now we definitely need a video"
Ok will try to record something nice then xx |
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