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Single guys WTH is wrong with you?
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By *elphinius OP Couple 17 weeks ago
East Midlands |
Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on? |
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We get plenty of them that just chat big when you say ok meet they run & hide. |
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Sadly that’s why those of us who do want to meet get a bad rep across the board.
Peoples circumstances change and things happen sometimes but on the whole it’s the thrill of the chase that people enjoy and when it comes to the actual meet they back out because they get overwhelmed or scared.
Sorry you’ve had to have people back out. We’re not all like that though  |
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Thats a shame. Sorry to hear that. |
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By *esJulieCouple 17 weeks ago
Blackburn |
Looks like we all have the same problem, very frustrating and it makes you lose enthusiasm to meet at all.. So what we do is to use swingers clubs instead.. If your arranged meet doesn't turn up, there are always guys around to use for your pleasure.. Our go to place is the empire cinema club in Huddersfield, it's perfect, always lots of horny guys there, safe, cheap, discreet and no hassle from all the unreliable losers who think they're gods gift.. We always have fun.. |
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I just wish I could get the chance chat to a couple,nevermind meet. All goes pearshaped. |
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I’m in a different predicament, I’d like a meet but can’t get one! |
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If you keep getting let down, it's probably time to reevaluate how you go about things |
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By *elphinius OP Couple 17 weeks ago
East Midlands |
Isn’t this what Fab is for? Any suggestions? |
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"Isn’t this what Fab is for? Any suggestions?"
We find that Clubs are a great place to meet people, and they've already "shown up" when you chat with them.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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You can’t get any attention on here OP As you have blocked guys !! |
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I was in a hotel once and wanted to invite a guy over so go chatting on here and there were four up for it guys. Invited them all on the basis there may be no shows but more than one would have been a bonus, then the excuses started. Result was fab guys nil, hotel barman one. |
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We're getting a lot of this kind of crap. Who would have thought it was so difficult to find a single bloke up for fun! Going to keep tabs on this post to see if we can learn something. If we reply to single men, don't be surprised if we ask lots of questions! So many wannabes it would seem, bad mannered and spineless it would appear! |
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Im reading this thread with incredulity! We all know how hard it is to make arrangements but to do so and then bail out is unbelievable. It is soooo hard to get meets with couples so it really does behove us to show up when we do!
Come on guys! |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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Wannabe pornstars |
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By *ambocoolMan 17 weeks ago
potters bar / Somerset |
Must be mad , missing out on these lovely people .. |
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It’s not just single guys either. Couples are also very guilty of this. It’s happened to me more than once. |
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Maybe just plain old nervousness?
I think for all of us the first time meeting is the most nervous. Thoughts as "What if they don't look like photos", "what if they simply don't fit once they've met", being outed as a swinger, sometimes worried about potential performance.
But yes, very much frustrating when arrangements result in a no show. Unfortunately members report that it happens. |
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Quite sad to see all the comments here, I would think it’s because the guys you were chatting to were all married and playing away, I’m Derby area and love to chat and meet a couple xxx fingers crossed xxx |
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Weve had the same and this is why we only meet in clubs now, at least your guaranteed someone to be there even if you don't play with them and they watch, its still fun |
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It's very difficult to find genuine people that want to meet especially day meets for us night workers I have meet with a couple of very lovely ladies on here in the past but lately in seems less likely to find proper genuine fabbers |
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Yeh, we literally got stood up last Saturday too, annoyingly we were convinced he was going to show as he said he was at a shop and asked what wine we'd like. Then nothing....
It's really difficult because there seems to be no obvious signs as to who is likely to stand you up. We've been let down by guys with good profiles and plenty of verifications...but when it comes to it...nothing. not even a polite message to say they can't make it.
So clubs only for us now with anyone new. |
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Well It would be a hardship but I’ll volunteer to step in at short notice if anyone gets let down |
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I've had the same experiences but with couples.
Unfortunately fantasists and time wasters are endmeic across the whole of Fab. |
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"I've had the same experiences but with couples.
Unfortunately fantasists and time wasters are endmeic across the whole of Fab. "
. very true |
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This is why clubs are so popular for Couples and singles. Real players who are already there. |
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I have had that problem to,men talk the talk but dont walk the walk. Dont understand men |
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By *eyeYCouple 17 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
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Can't tar us all with the same brush |
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"I've had the same experiences but with couples.
Unfortunately fantasists and time wasters are endmeic across the whole of Fab. "
Same |
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"We're getting a lot of this kind of crap. Who would have thought it was so difficult to find a single bloke up for fun! Going to keep tabs on this post to see if we can learn something. If we reply to single men, don't be surprised if we ask lots of questions! So many wannabes it would seem, bad mannered and spineless it would appear!"
Wow so local hello |
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By *eyeYCouple 17 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"I've had the same experiences but with couples.
Unfortunately fantasists and time wasters are endmeic across the whole of Fab. "
That!
Not reserved to single guy's as has been said already, and we find guy's to be pretty decent by and large.
Though by the fact men make up the vast majority here, proportionally they'll be more case's reported, however with the Fab hierarchy, if any guy here posts a similar thing about ladies or couples there'd be a public crucifixion or tumble.. 🤷🤣😘
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By *evlishduncMan 17 weeks ago
north suffolk south norfolk |
I am disappointed to read this thread. There are genuine guys, with experience and credibility out there who have plenty to offer but who are being let down by the actions (or inaction) of others.
I do have limited time to meet because of work and caring for aged parents, but when I am free, I really am free to meet.
I don’t know what the answer is …. Just keep kissing frogs, I guess! |
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It must be hard for yourselves, trying to find a needle in a haystack ,of who you are attracted to and arrange with confidence that they will turn up ,
When I arrange I go by veris ,the vibe but again its all about trust ,
When you get 5 tale a peek at my profile/ veris
I may be of interest to yourselves |
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Every day there are forum posts from men crying about how they cant get meets but they will never understand the sheer level of dross women or couples have to look through if they want to meet men. If you haven't seen it you can't understand it. |
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"You can’t get any attention on here OP As you have blocked guys !!"
Maybe a click bait headline to get views.
If a playdate was arranged i wouldn't cancel without a good reason,but I would be contacting to let them/her know,I wouldn't just not turn up. |
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By *eyeYCouple 17 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"You can’t get any attention on here OP As you have blocked guys !!
Maybe a click bait headline to get views.
If a playdate was arranged i wouldn't cancel without a good reason,but I would be contacting to let them/her know,I wouldn't just not turn up."
The OP specifically stated that they had opened their filters to single guys.
Evidently closed them again, we do exactly the same as and when we are looking for a guy so don't think that's a fair comment. |
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"You can’t get any attention on here OP As you have blocked guys !!
Maybe a click bait headline to get views.
If a playdate was arranged i wouldn't cancel without a good reason,but I would be contacting to let them/her know,I wouldn't just not turn up.
The OP specifically stated that they had opened their filters to single guys.
Evidently closed them again, we do exactly the same as and when we are looking for a guy so don't think that's a fair comment."
Doesn't have to be a fair comment but it is how some people work,not saying they are like that but we just dont know |
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By *eyeYCouple 17 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Correct we don't know, it was your suggestion though. |
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By *irsSubCouple 17 weeks ago
Stockton |
We just meet them at clubs, sorts the wheat from the chaff, and if they aren't out cup of tea in person there's plenty others to choose from on the night |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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DeyeY replied to my comment then blocked me you weapons |
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"We get plenty of them that just chat big when you say ok meet they run & hide."
That’s been our experience over the years on here. Always invite at least double the number of men you want for a GB because at least half will flake & those who turn up bring other issues.
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We find FAB as a 121 meeting site is horrendous, too many timewasters.
We tend to use clubs, parties, socials and swingers holidays.
FAB is great finding all these venues.
As others say, why mix with timewasters when clubs and socials have no timewasters and at a social the almost guarantee of a lovely night which may lead to fun at a later date.
Seems a win, win for us. |
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By *manteeCouple 17 weeks ago
Manchester |
Its a good idea to have a look at their verifications if they have any, always a good indicator. Guys who are constantly changing their profile names and contacting us time and again are always a waste of our time |
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Shame so many spoil it for the rest of us ..it’s a up hill struggle getting meets on here without blokes messing about
Good luck with future meets x |
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"It’s not just single guys either. Couples are also very guilty of this. It’s happened to me more than once. "
100% I'm on my worst ever run with couples. 5 on the bounce recently.
Not turning up at the hotel they said they were staying in, another insisting i pay for the hotel but won't give out phone number or share face pic, ghosting, blocking.
Certainly isn't just SM |
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By *abioMan 17 weeks ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
Why are you opening up your profile
If you know exactly what you are after, why don’t you do the looking, why aren’t you being the hunters rather than waiting on the mountain to come to you? |
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""I've had the same experiences but with couples.
Unfortunately fantasists and time wasters are endmeic across the whole of Fab. "
That!
Not reserved to single guy's as has been said already, and we find guy's to be pretty decent by and large.
Though by the fact men make up the vast majority here, proportionally they'll be more case's reported, however with the Fab hierarchy, if any guy here posts a similar thing about ladies or couples there'd be a public crucifixion or tumble.. 🤷🤣😘
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Fully agree and sorry to hear about the shattered ankle. What a start to a new year! Ouch!! |
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In our experience it's the unverified ones who are the biggest time wasters. |
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By *abioMan 17 weeks ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Shame so many spoil it for the rest of us ..it’s a up hill struggle getting meets on here without blokes messing about
Good luck with future meets x"
The “spoil it for the rest of us” line is a kop out answer!
You don’t dictate how well I may or may not do on here…. I am not influential in how you do
That is an easy excuse in i am doing everything right and it’s everyone else’s fault
Sometimes a bit of self reflection in how can i be better and what can I do to make that happen is in order
Mirrors.. great to look in to once in a while  |
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"We just meet them at clubs, sorts the wheat from the chaff, and if they aren't out cup of tea in person there's plenty others to choose from on the night "
I agree this is the way to go. Once you know they're genuine (or not!) you can set up a private meet for a later date. |
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By *eyeYCouple 17 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"DeyeY replied to my comment then blocked me you weapons "
Err, no we didn't.
We responded to 'Van Mans' comment on your comment and for the record you were already blocked as we do with folk who's forum comments we find unnecessarily antagonistic, it must have been a previous post of yours we blocked you from and evidently just.
Have a great day x |
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By *eyeYCouple 17 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
""I've had the same experiences but with couples.
Unfortunately fantasists and time wasters are endmeic across the whole of Fab. "
That!
Not reserved to single guy's as has been said already, and we find guy's to be pretty decent by and large.
Though by the fact men make up the vast majority here, proportionally they'll be more case's reported, however with the Fab hierarchy, if any guy here posts a similar thing about ladies or couples there'd be a public crucifixion or tumble.. 🤷🤣😘
Fully agree and sorry to hear about the shattered ankle. What a start to a new year! Ouch!!"
Thanks, he did it last year, but a long recovery 🤷😔 |
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"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
Not al of us or like that I myself am respectful understand that if I say I'm going to meet i meet
And know that people have to plan put effort in |
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I’ve had the opposite happen to me. Responded to meet requests, get chatting…then nothing.
I just think communication is a big grey area in society as a whole anyway because we’re not really taught how to communicate effectively! |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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Buffoons |
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We find it hard to meet the right single bi gguy but we d8d have a guy contact us recently . Who sauid our pictures were out od date . Which in fairness they are but we havent changed that much. Als9 wad not realy up for a social i mean even in a club you always chat to someone before playing . And h3 thought he would turn up fuck and go. C'mon realky. So i the male decided you know what i cant be arsed to meet him . It just didnt feel right . Funnynthing is where we asked to meet him we met another guy who we had a cracking might with and the verification speaks volumes |
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In our Experience, Single guys jump to the conclusion that we are meeting after just a couple of messages. Then start to only address the female. This really gets our back up. |
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And here I am struggling to even get a response back most of the time, let alone have a chance at bailing on a meet.
Last month I was chatting to the female half of the couple on Telegram. All going VERY well (maybe a bit too well), and then just after Christmas completely ghosted me, with no explanation. I even messaged them on here to see what was going on, and got ghosted again.
So there's plenty of couples/women on here that seemingly mess about. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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Like others have said, it gives us genuine guys a bad rep...even more sad as I'm not far and looking for couples to play with |
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We’ve seen the same trend over the past year. And Sunday evenings are worst. Bored guys wasting genuine peoples times. We need a solution as it’s killing Fabs. |
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I am definitely meeting if get chance, but seems a lot of people get taken in by smooth talking instead of honesty. |
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I would like to be in the catagory of the guys who will turn up. But just can't get that couple to meet.
Genuine vers bi guy in the north west near and around preston. Any couples or ladies around this area willing to give me that chance. I await with open arms |
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It's does astound me when guys chicken out
Just take that leap of faith and turn up to a meet, if when you get to the meet it's not for just he polite and say no thank you, but to ghost or back out at the last minute especially when couples and ladies have gone out of there way to meet you is simply stupid
No wonder us single guys get such a bad reputation on here  |
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"This is why clubs are so popular for Couples and singles. Real players who are already there. "
And yet the clubs I've visited, were filled with couples "We're not interested in single guys thanks", and rarely a single female present....  |
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I was ghosted by a single female on Wednesday. Hot to trot to meet, now vanished off the face of the Earth
After over 13 years of using Fab, I can honestly say I hold a 100% attendance record for arranged meets. Single females and couples letting ME down though; plenty.... |
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We've recently opened up to meeting a single guy and can't believe how hard it is to find one. We narrowed it down to one and within the 24hrs before the meet he just stopped replying to messages wasted about 3 days of our life planning it. We then had a free night and booked a hotel and sent a couple more messages to SG's and one of the replys we got back of a man
probably 25miles away was ''it's a bit far for a * * * * isn't it!! WTF?? We are speaking to a gent now who is actually married and he has been the most honest one from the start and hasn't messed us around, currently trying to pin a date down.
Also we have spoken to guys and they have just demanded pics of us straight away which is really really off putting. To the single guys in the Lancashire/Greater manc area if you've got a big cock 8'' + aren't a bell sprout are honest and reliable, doesn't smoke* like a few pics of
ours and I will get back to you as messages aren' open to sg's. Cheer Tat. |
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"We've recently opened up to meeting a single guy and can't believe how hard it is to find one. We narrowed it down to one and within the 24hrs before the meet he just stopped replying to messages wasted about 3 days of our life planning it. We then had a free night and booked a hotel and sent a couple more messages to SG's and one of the replys we got back of a man
probably 25miles away was ''it's a bit far for a * * * * isn't it!! WTF?? We are speaking to a gent now who is actually married and he has been the most honest one from the start and hasn't messed us around, currently trying to pin a date down.
Also we have spoken to guys and they have just demanded pics of us straight away which is really really off putting. To the single guys in the Lancashire/Greater manc area if you've got a big cock 8'' + aren't a bell sprout are honest and reliable, doesn't smoke* like a few pics of
ours and I will get back to you as messages aren' open to sg's. Cheer Tat. "
Wish I could message you. |
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I show up 100% of the time and manners and a good vibe, no point in wasting people's time |
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"We've recently opened up to meeting a single guy and can't believe how hard it is to find one. We narrowed it down to one and within the 24hrs before the meet he just stopped replying to messages wasted about 3 days of our life planning it. We then had a free night and booked a hotel and sent a couple more messages to SG's and one of the replys we got back of a man
probably 25miles away was ''it's a bit far for a * * * * isn't it!! WTF?? We are speaking to a gent now who is actually married and he has been the most honest one from the start and hasn't messed us around, currently trying to pin a date down.
Also we have spoken to guys and they have just demanded pics of us straight away which is really really off putting. To the single guys in the Lancashire/Greater manc area if you've got a big cock 8'' + aren't a bell sprout are honest and reliable, doesn't smoke* like a few pics of
ours and I will get back to you as messages aren' open to sg's. Cheer Tat. "
Liked a few of your pics as well |
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"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
That’s very bizarre.
As it goes, I’m actually learning how strangely common it is.
Currently part of a planned party next month, and the amount of guys dropping out now is pretty wild.
I guess there’s a big chunk here who like the idea and fantasy more than they like following through.
Sorry you’ve experienced it. Truth be told, it’s also annoying for us guys who do wanna get out and meet. Understandably, makes couples and girls lose a lot of trust. |
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"We’ve seen the same trend over the past year. And Sunday evenings are worst. Bored guys wasting genuine peoples times. We need a solution as it’s killing Fabs. "
I think there should maybe be some kind of strike system.
Like you no show once, red mark, and you need to explain a reason to the site owners, and if you do it again, instant ban. No creating a new profile.
Reddit somehow manages to do it. So it is possible. |
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I do find also that there seams to be always something not quite right , never mind it’s all just a game xx |
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By *elphinius OP Couple 17 weeks ago
East Midlands |
"You can’t get any attention on here OP As you have blocked guys !!
Maybe a click bait headline to get views.
If a playdate was arranged i wouldn't cancel without a good reason,but I would be contacting to let them/her know,I wouldn't just not turn up.
The OP specifically stated that they had opened their filters to single guys.
Evidently closed them again, we do exactly the same as and when we are looking for a guy so don't think that's a fair comment."
We DID have our profile open to SMs, and after deleting the dross “hi how ru’s”, we had about10 guys shortlisted. 5 came back to us, and we arranged socials. 3 stood us up, including one AFTER a social when we had booked a hotel, and 2 disappeared off fab.
You can see why it has massively pissed me off! I just want a decent MFM with FWB potential-not too much to ask or so I thought. But we’ve had much more success with unicorns. Sigh. |
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By *abulincsCouple 17 weeks ago
near a bridge |
In our experience guys just want to turn up fuck and go like a free professional lady once we say about meeting for a drink to start off with whether at home or hotel ghosting no show are absolutely rife
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Most of them probably enjoy the chat and get off.
No doubt probably have a wife and family and just can't get out or find an excuse to get away.
Just my opinion |
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"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
May I ask had you got the blokes mobile? If asked for my number I sometime give early on but only if thd one asking has photos on the profile and never do if there has not been back and forth messages |
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Sorry to hear of your bad experiences.
I can assure you that we’re not all like that as I’m very genuine etc
Love meeting new people for socials or otherwise and really doing understand why guys do this.
That said I’ve been ghosted by plenty of couples/Fems over the years. But, as yet never been let down on the day
So, frustrating to be tarred with the same brush
Stay safe and happy Fabbing
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Probably had some Dutch courage before realising theyre out of their depth. |
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And this is why we only meet at Chams or PDI Gran Canaria, because you can't get let down face to face, unless they don't turn up and then in those environments there are plenty more fish in the sea so to speak. However we do have 1 local bbc meet from fab a year or so ago who has become a regular  |
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Just to add our Chams meets never let us down |
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"Just to add our Chams meets never let us down "
Love Chams. I hope to get there on Fridays more often |
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Don't have tons of meets but I make sure I keep my word and am respectful. And allways turn up if I say I am going to |
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Hello couples that keep being let down. Check my profile and verifications. Get in touch if interested |
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I guess some lads are all talk, when it comes down to business they bottle it, might be insecurity, I'd happily turn up |
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there is just no understanding some people on here as to how they treat others |
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Couples and single females are just as bad ( well some are ) I've actually reached the point of sitting waiting for people who have promised to be there within the hour... |
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It's just a guess.... I imagine lots of straight guys get off stalking and arranging to meet but just aren't into men? That would fit, right? |
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well , i try ,
but not much luck ,
but, hey ho , you never know lol. |
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"I've had the same experiences but with couples.
Unfortunately fantasists and time wasters are endmeic across the whole of Fab. "
Yep me too. Stood up/ghosted on the day twice recently, once in the afternoon of the meet and the other time just as I was getting in the car to drive the 20 mins to the meet. Despite being well verified genuine and respectful I get treated with utter contempt a lot of the time. Im fast losing faith in the scene let alone the site |
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"We've recently opened up to meeting a single guy and can't believe how hard it is to find one. We narrowed it down to one and within the 24hrs before the meet he just stopped replying to messages wasted about 3 days of our life planning it. We then had a free night and booked a hotel and sent a couple more messages to SG's and one of the replys we got back of a man
probably 25miles away was ''it's a bit far for a * * * * isn't it!! WTF?? We are speaking to a gent now who is actually married and he has been the most honest one from the start and hasn't messed us around, currently trying to pin a date down.
Also we have spoken to guys and they have just demanded pics of us straight away which is really really off putting. To the single guys in the Lancashire/Greater manc area if you've got a big cock 8'' + aren't a bell sprout are honest and reliable, doesn't smoke* like a few pics of
ours and I will get back to you as messages aren' open to sg's. Cheer Tat. "
I would love to meet and have liked some of your pics |
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By *ean34Man 17 weeks ago
Cleveland |
So many fuck it up for us genuine guys and make what’s already a hard job near impossible. I think there should be more measures in place for single blokes because what’s in place is failing us good lads massively. I completely understand the other side of the coin too as I have had couples profiles in the past. Frustrating |
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Agree with what they say. I do meet up and have played plenty of times with couples but is usually in clubs since is difficult to meet through here. Most of my messages get ignored even after sending a polite one. Which is totally fine. But it's the way fab is |
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Wow I’d not let you down if offered a meet… stunning |
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I only meet in clubs its so much easier to chat with people plus if your in a club you know their there for a good social maybe a little play too. |
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I would love to meet a lovely lady but it what scares me most is because I have a non working bladder and have to wear bags all the time & its the thought of someone new seeing it & its a huge thing for me . |
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By *LiamMan 17 weeks ago
Midlands |
Time wasters are available in both genders |
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By *eedof1Man 17 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"We get plenty of them that just chat big when you say ok meet they run & hide."
may because you haven't meet the right one anyway
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By *eedof1Man 17 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"I was in a hotel once and wanted to invite a guy over so go chatting on here and there were four up for it guys. Invited them all on the basis there may be no shows but more than one would have been a bonus, then the excuses started. Result was fab guys nil, hotel barman one."
you're right but not all guys behave like that some of couples too disappointed too believe me
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By *eedof1Man 17 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"It’s not just single guys either. Couples are also very guilty of this. It’s happened to me more than once. "
god bless you for saying the truth
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By *eedof1Man 17 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"This is why clubs are so popular for Couples and singles. Real players who are already there. "
both couple and single disappointed but me i had never disappoint anyone before if I promise to show i will for sure
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By *omRachCouple 17 weeks ago
Wirral |
"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
EXACTLY THAT happened to us 6 months ago. His loss! |
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"In our experience guys just want to turn up fuck and go like a free professional lady once we say about meeting for a drink to start off with whether at home or hotel ghosting no show are absolutely rife
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We're pretty much looking for exactly that, turn up and play straight away, and we have as much trouble getting guys to show up as everyone else has said on here already. That also includes guys who have many meet verifications on here too.
Clubs are difficult for us with our circumstances, so we mostly do last minute or a day or so before and see if they show. We try and not let it get to us anymore, in having the attitude of if they show up its a bonus but we'll still have a fun time anyway.
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Whether singles/couples etc In this day and age of communication, and as adults, all we ask for is that if you change your mind, have a better offer, or have no intention to meet but want some fun/sexy banter, that’s fine, just say so then we aren’t left in limbo and feeling a knob! (Or rather not feeling a knob 😂) |
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By *ojanMan 17 weeks ago
Bedford |
I keep asking but I must be from mars or somewhere maybe one day wishful thinking but it’s common that people let you lot down there must be on medication or they have lost the ability to perform lol |
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This has also happened to us on numerous occasions.
We are like you guys scratching our heads as to why. x  |
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I feel I need to share another perspective. Not one person I've met with on this site or fet has failed to show up pretty much right at the appointed time.
I do chat with people beforehand and my last threesome with Nightpatrol and friend was in the diary for six weeks before the event. My next one in a couple of weeks has been live for two months. You get a feel for potential meetings that are built on sand. |
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"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
Believe me, it's not all one way. I'm in a difficult position and know some find reason to be censorious, but twice now I've found what seems ideal and then been ghosted when I tried to actually meet. My first ever potential meet simply disappeared and returned a year later! |
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"In our experience guys just want to turn up fuck and go like a free professional lady once we say about meeting for a drink to start off with whether at home or hotel ghosting no show are absolutely rife
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In my experience, couples just want a ‘stunt cock’ for the wife, at a moment’s notice, to drop whatever they’re doing, run round to their hotel because she’s had enough alcohol to say “Oh go on then”, wham, bam, and can you leave now please….. |
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By *iseekingbiCouple 17 weeks ago
N ireland and West Midlands |
Stick to bi couples. We show up |
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Some mess it up for the others. I’m always happy to meet couples especially for a social. If you don’t click some will say but others find it hard to be honest and are shy. Some will say I’m abit too honest but it’s the best way on here I find. Met some lovely people in clubs and had a good laugh. Very hard to start a convo on here though especially when there’s thousands of single men. I sometimes think it’s myself or how I put my profile across or it’s just me in my pics |
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By *elphinius OP Couple 17 weeks ago
East Midlands |
"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?
Why are you opening up your profile
If you know exactly what you are after, why don’t you do the looking, why aren’t you being the hunters rather than waiting on the mountain to come to you? "
Crass comment. How do you know I’m not already doing this? (I am btw!) |
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By *arand25Couple 17 weeks ago
Crowborough |
We've had quite our share of timewasters, especially at first when we joined here. It was really frustrating just trying to find a guy for MFM & had three bail out last minute. Finally found a decent local guy, we got there in the end. |
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By *iHungMan 17 weeks ago
Blackpool |
I’ve done quite a few MMF with couples, few verifications still but some gone as people have left the site. Looking for more in Blackpool & surrounding area. |
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"Result was fab guys nil, hotel barman one."
Haha love it |
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By *iHungMan 17 weeks ago
Blackpool |
"Stick to bi couples. We show up "
Would love to meet a bi couple |
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"Stick to bi couples. We show up
Would love to meet a bi couple "
I’ve met a couple of bi couples on here. |
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"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
hang on you’ve blocked any single guys from messageing you I would and will travel from the lakes to have fun with both of you check me out I always turn up |
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"We're getting a lot of this kind of crap. Who would have thought it was so difficult to find a single bloke up for fun! Going to keep tabs on this post to see if we can learn something. If we reply to single men, don't be surprised if we ask lots of questions! So many wannabes it would seem, bad mannered and spineless it would appear!"
well I’d travel to meet both of you check my profile I’m 100% genuine always turn up massage me for a photo if your interested
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"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
I'm the opposite - I have a long-term track record of reliability and all things positive, but although I do really well in a club I now find myself ignored a hundred per cent of the time on Fab.
I think the bottom line is that Fab was such a more honest, genuine and friendly place before Covid. Couples, women and men sent messages and received messages, but no longer. The sire is swamped with single guys who aren't genuinely swingers, who make little effort, aren't ever going to meet and are just using the site as a 'w**k-bank'.
On the flip side a lot of good guys come and go due to a perpetually empty inbox, having tried to jump through all the hoops demanded of them, only to be ignored. I've known several brilliant guys simply walk away after a period. For me personally there's no way I'm messaging anyone now - it's simply not worth the time and effort. I stay here to message friends I already have, or who I meet at a club and to keep my verifications for those who might be interested in a club, but who want to check me out beforehand.
We all know women (and couples) get bombarded with messages and can never answer all, but guys are also not going to continue making the effort for nothing either.
In the end nothing is going to change - you'll continue to get the wasters, but hopefully you'll find the odd diamond among them. Those guys are well worth the wait, if you can be bothered to make an effort for them too.
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"Sadly that’s why those of us who do want to meet get a bad rep across the board.
Peoples circumstances change and things happen sometimes but on the whole it’s the thrill of the chase that people enjoy and when it comes to the actual meet they back out because they get overwhelmed or scared.
Sorry you’ve had to have people back out. We’re not all like that though "
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"It’s not just single guys either. Couples are also very guilty of this. It’s happened to me more than once. "
Yep, same! Drove all the way home to Coventry from Cardiff for a meet with a couple, only for them not to show up. |
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"This is why clubs are so popular for Couples and singles. Real players who are already there. "
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"It’s not just single guys either. Couples are also very guilty of this. It’s happened to me more than once.
Yep, same! Drove all the way home to Coventry from Cardiff for a meet with a couple, only for them not to show up."
That is brutal… |
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""I've had the same experiences but with couples.
Unfortunately fantasists and time wasters are endmeic across the whole of Fab. "
That!
Not reserved to single guy's as has been said already, and we find guy's to be pretty decent by and large.
Though by the fact men make up the vast majority here, proportionally they'll be more case's reported, however with the Fab hierarchy, if any guy here posts a similar thing about ladies or couples there'd be a public crucifixion or tumble.. 🤷🤣😘
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"I just wish I could get the chance chat to a couple,nevermind meet. All goes pearshaped."
Maybe not every couple is looking for a pear shaped one! |
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"Every day there are forum posts from men crying about how they cant get meets but they will never understand the sheer level of dross women or couples have to look through if they want to meet men. If you haven't seen it you can't understand it."
....and therein lies a big issue. Plenty of single guys who are poor, but also plenty of single women and couples who are equally as disrespectful, just in the opposite way.
High value men will do all the right things, but will only bang their heads against a wall for so long, then leave or change their approach, leaving the women and couples with the guys who are fantasists, wasters and who just get a kick out of the messaging.
Personally I'll never waste my time messaging a single woman or couple on Fab again - ever. It's just not worth the effort.
There are guys who aren't worth giving the time of day to of course, but those who have self-worth will simply walk away after jumping through all the hoops demanded of them, if the result is perpetual tumble.
I now go to quality clubs and have great success, without wasting time messaging people I know won't reply. Other genuinely committed guys will find what works for them elsewhere. I can see the day when the couples and single women have pretty much only the wasters left to choose from, plus a very small quantity of top class men who are massively in demand.
Having started my Fab journey as part of a couple I know where you're coming from, but the blame isn't just on single guys. |
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We must be lucky then....every meet we have arranged with a single guy has resulted in a meet. Some guys more than once! |
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"We must be lucky then....every meet we have arranged with a single guy has resulted in a meet. Some guys more than once!"
Brilliant! Proves beyond doubt that there are still some really great guys out there. Generally it's single guys who cop the blame for pretty much everything, but I know some absolutely class acts! |
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By *elphinius OP Couple 17 weeks ago
East Midlands |
Well I’m glad that some people on here have good experiences with SMs, and yes ofc it’s not all guys-but IME I’ve been stood up and let down by about 80% of SMs. I’m just looking for a couple of male FWBs in my local area who want to play with couples. It shouldn’t be so difficult! |
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"Well I’m glad that some people on here have good experiences with SMs, and yes ofc it’s not all guys-but IME I’ve been stood up and let down by about 80% of SMs. I’m just looking for a couple of male FWBs in my local area who want to play with couples. It shouldn’t be so difficult!"
. Where about are you if your anywhere near Bromsgrove I'm more than happy to come along
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Sorry to hear about the let-downs — that’s never fun. Single guy here, genuine and happy to meet if we connect.  |
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Fab has many more dreamers than it has serious people
By the way, I’m in Nottingham and I’m serious, so consider me |
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Happens both ways. That's why I tend to meet at clubs these days because if they cancel or something comes up for them I can still go there on my own and have a good night regardless. Bonus if they do show up. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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well i can’t message you …perhaps you could message me ?👍😀 |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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i’m in Spondon and always available , please take a minute to look at my bio . |
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"Every day there are forum posts from men crying about how they cant get meets but they will never understand the sheer level of dross women or couples have to look through if they want to meet men. If you haven't seen it you can't understand it.
....and therein lies a big issue. Plenty of single guys who are poor, but also plenty of single women and couples who are equally as disrespectful, just in the opposite way.
High value men will do all the right things, but will only bang their heads against a wall for so long, then leave or change their approach, leaving the women and couples with the guys who are fantasists, wasters and who just get a kick out of the messaging.
Personally I'll never waste my time messaging a single woman or couple on Fab again - ever. It's just not worth the effort.
There are guys who aren't worth giving the time of day to of course, but those who have self-worth will simply walk away after jumping through all the hoops demanded of them, if the result is perpetual tumble.
I now go to quality clubs and have great success, without wasting time messaging people I know won't reply. Other genuinely committed guys will find what works for them elsewhere. I can see the day when the couples and single women have pretty much only the wasters left to choose from, plus a very small quantity of top class men who are massively in demand.
Having started my Fab journey as part of a couple I know where you're coming from, but the blame isn't just on single guys. "
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Gave up on the single guy meet years ago after getting pissed off with all the excuses.
Fact is that most single guys are not single.
Most have a wife/girlfriend not in the lifestyle so getting meet-time is near impossible.
If genuinely single they often come with a host of other problems.
We have plenty of 3somes mostly with an extra guy but they invariably come from swinger couples we’ve already played 4 with.
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"In our experience guys just want to turn up fuck and go like a free professional lady once we say about meeting for a drink to start off with whether at home or hotel ghosting no show are absolutely rife
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How disappointing. I prefer the bit of chat and drink first too. There are times for a quickie but mostly, I prefer it where we all get on! |
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"We've recently opened up to meeting a single guy and can't believe how hard it is to find one. We narrowed it down to one and within the 24hrs before the meet he just stopped replying to messages wasted about 3 days of our life planning it. We then had a free night and booked a hotel and sent a couple more messages to SG's and one of the replys we got back of a man
probably 25miles away was ''it's a bit far for a * * * * isn't it!! WTF?? We are speaking to a gent now who is actually married and he has been the most honest one from the start and hasn't messed us around, currently trying to pin a date down.
Also we have spoken to guys and they have just demanded pics of us straight away which is really really off putting. To the single guys in the Lancashire/Greater manc area if you've got a big cock 8'' + aren't a bell sprout are honest and reliable, doesn't smoke* like a few pics of
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I also wish that I were able to message you |
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By *iHungMan 16 weeks ago
Blackpool |
"We've recently opened up to meeting a single guy and can't believe how hard it is to find one. We narrowed it down to one and within the 24hrs before the meet he just stopped replying to messages wasted about 3 days of our life planning it. We then had a free night and booked a hotel and sent a couple more messages to SG's and one of the replys we got back of a man
probably 25miles away was ''it's a bit far for a * * * * isn't it!! WTF?? We are speaking to a gent now who is actually married and he has been the most honest one from the start and hasn't messed us around, currently trying to pin a date down.
Also we have spoken to guys and they have just demanded pics of us straight away which is really really off putting. To the single guys in the Lancashire/Greater manc area if you've got a big cock 8'' + aren't a bell sprout are honest and reliable, doesn't smoke* like a few pics of
ours and I will get back to you as messages aren' open to sg's. Cheer Tat. "
Definitely interested, have veri’s with couples. |
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By *elphinius OP Couple 16 weeks ago
East Midlands |
To all the guys saying they’d like to message me-thank you, I do appreciate it. If you aren’t close to Nottingham however then there’s little point. And if you are close then LMK here and I’ll take a look at your profile. |
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By *elphinius OP Couple 16 weeks ago
East Midlands |
"We've recently opened up to meeting a single guy and can't believe how hard it is to find one. We narrowed it down to one and within the 24hrs before the meet he just stopped replying to messages wasted about 3 days of our life planning it. We then had a free night and booked a hotel and sent a couple more messages to SG's and one of the replys we got back of a man
probably 25miles away was ''it's a bit far for a * * * * isn't it!! WTF?? We are speaking to a gent now who is actually married and he has been the most honest one from the start and hasn't messed us around, currently trying to pin a date down.
Also we have spoken to guys and they have just demanded pics of us straight away which is really really off putting. To the single guys in the Lancashire/Greater manc area if you've got a big cock 8'' + aren't a bell sprout are honest and reliable, doesn't smoke* like a few pics of
ours and I will get back to you as messages aren' open to sg's. Cheer Tat.
Definitely interested, have veri’s with couples. "
You also have a hidden profile! |
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"To all the guys saying they’d like to message me-thank you, I do appreciate it. If you aren’t close to Nottingham however then there’s little point. And if you are close then LMK here and I’ll take a look at your profile."
How close is close? Coventry ok? X |
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I could say the same for couples on here no showing but I honestly suspect it’s down to single guys again, just on this occasion it’s single men pretending to be couples for the titillation.
In the years I’ve been on and off here it does appear to be getting worse. I’ve met some wonderful folk through Fab so I hang in there hoping. |
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By *ockybukMan 16 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
Wish i could get the chance to meet a couple or single lady
Problem is a lot of single guys ruin it for the genuine decent ones with their attitudes in clubs and socials and the way they are , A lot of them are fantasists too which is why they dont show up
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"I could say the same for couples on here no showing but I honestly suspect it’s down to single guys again, just on this occasion it’s single men pretending to be couples for the titillation.
In the years I’ve been on and off here it does appear to be getting worse. I’ve met some wonderful folk through Fab so I hang in there hoping. "
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I dont think its any harder for couples than singles. The age old problem of no shows and fantasists. Really think fab should have some kind of rating/league table
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Name invites no show show
Id win on goal difference |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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You're right.
They give the rest of us a bad name. |
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By *elphinius OP Couple 16 weeks ago
East Midlands |
I’m sure you would. Shame you’re so far away! |
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_east with 2 backs. Do you remember Monroes in Whalley? Great times. |
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"_east with 2 backs. Do you remember Monroes in Whalley? Great times. "
Monroes was great harwood next town up from Whalley. if we are thinking of the same place |
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Mad isn’t it that single guys complain about not getting meets….. then don’t turn up. Seems the majority ruin it for the rest of us x |
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Im based in essex would love a couple to show me some new experiences.
Watching, cuck, MMF, events. Im pretty open. |
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By *ommy 2wMan 16 weeks ago
burton on trent |
Hi I'm Tommy from Burton-On-Trent can travel. I'm clean respectful and hung. Love to have some sexy fun |
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By *ommy 2wMan 16 weeks ago
burton on trent |
"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
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By *ommy 2wMan 16 weeks ago
burton on trent |
Wow I'd love to meet you both your so hot
Tommy |
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"_east with 2 backs. Do you remember Monroes in Whalley? Great times. "
Great Harwood definitely… showing your age now!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"Isn’t this what Fab is for? Any suggestions?"
always look for good verifications with profiles you can check up .
I've seen some single men and so called females (sick males pretending to be females ) post fake profiles and verifications but its so obvious if you do a little checking first sign is not photo verified and no other profiles on the false couple or female its a joke to them sadly its not for the rest of us better luck for the future all the best Tom x |
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"It’s not just single guys either. Couples are also very guilty of this. It’s happened to me more than once.
Yep, same! Drove all the way home to Coventry from Cardiff for a meet with a couple, only for them not to show up."
I drove all the way from the lakes to an address which no one lived at in south Birmingham |
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Surprised at that, thought most guys would jump at the chance.
Make sure they're meet verified first I guess |
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By *jonesMan 16 weeks ago
south west |
"I could say the same for couples on here no showing but I honestly suspect it’s down to single guys again, just on this occasion it’s single men pretending to be couples for the titillation.
In the years I’ve been on and off here it does appear to be getting worse. I’ve met some wonderful folk through Fab so I hang in there hoping. "
I "discovered" by a chance conversation and someone spotting the same photo ...a couple that had other couple and single profiles (nothing like each other) and they used them to organise meets ...and we're giving the same reasons on the different profiles for last minute cancellations...
Just be wary of assuming it's just single guys driving all the fake profiles ... |
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I have no luck ,no verifications ,
Any help please |
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Incredible that anyone would do that.If I ever got a meet through here I'd think I'd won the lottery. I certainly wouldn't back out. |
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Omg these guys must be crackers meets are like gold dust for me |
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By *elphinius OP Couple 16 weeks ago
East Midlands |
"I have no luck ,no verifications ,
Any help please "
Well you could start by replying to private messages you get sent.
And also, rather than ask for advice on my thread-please start one of you own, piggybacking is rude. |
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By *jonesMan 16 weeks ago
south west |
"Husband and I have been looking on here for single guys for MFM fun. Every time we open our profile to SMs we find a handful that we’d like to meet socially. And then it goes wrong. Soo many ghost, delete their Fab account or just don’t turn up. The most recent was a guy who came for the social, agreed to a play date then stood us up ON THE NIGHT after we had paid for a room.
Seriously guys? So many of you say you have no luck on here, but I’ve never known such a flaky bunch of (non) f***ers. WTH is going on?"
Lovely profile and pics... |
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Over the years we’ve had some great meets with single guys but it’s slowly started to get worse over the last few years, no shows when arranged to meet then then excuses when you ask others.
But the last 2 guys we’ve met have been great and restored a little faith in fab. Xx |
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