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So a few times when out and about have had one of my closest friends mother come on to me. She is very attractive and has a very strong sexual energy toward me. However I don’t know how my friend would take it if he found out 😉 do I? Don’t I? |
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"Depends how much you value you friendship really. Not really taboo from a sexual point of view but it’s got to have some effect on your friendship "
to be honest our friendship has drifted for a while. And more to the point “who’s gonna tell him “ 😉
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"Men get very cross if other men they know have sex with one of their woman relatives.
If you do it be prepared for him to not be happy to discover that his mother is an adult with a sex drive "
she has been alone for a while from her own choice, I don’t think I can let her ‘go without’ for much longer. We have great chemistry and have great laughs I think ima do it but the devil on my shoulder tells me no  |
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"Men get very cross if other men they know have sex with one of their woman relatives.
If you do it be prepared for him to not be happy to discover that his mother is an adult with a sex drive she has been alone for a while from her own choice, I don’t think I can let her ‘go without’ for much longer. We have great chemistry and have great laughs I think ima do it but the devil on my shoulder tells me no "
If you do to ahead let it be on equal terms not because you can't let her 'go without ' |
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"So a few times when out and about have had one of my closest friends mother come on to me. She is very attractive and has a very strong sexual energy toward me. However I don’t know how my friend would take it if he found out 😉 do I? Don’t I? "
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My saying is.
Regret the things you have done not the things you have not done.
But not in this case. There will be way too much fallout! And not just between your friend and yourself. Your whole friendship group. |
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"So a few times when out and about have had one of my closest friends mother come on to me. She is very attractive and has a very strong sexual energy toward me. However I don’t know how my friend would take it if he found out 😉 do I? Don’t I? "
How would you feel if he fucked your mother? |
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By *kibirdWoman 16 weeks ago
Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent) |
"Question for those guys saying to go for it. Would you be okay if one of your friends got with your mum?
Is your mums sex life any of your business? "
That’s actually a good point. No, I suppose it shouldn’t. It is a good thought experiment for when should someone’s private life impact others and where are the boundaries.
On the one hand our private lives should be ours alone but on the other there is the respect we show to others and the value we place on our relationship with them.
Honestly that has got me questioning my initial reaction. I know I’d be pissed if I found out what one of my friends was doing this but as you say, should it really be any of my business ? |
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"Question for those guys saying to go for it. Would you be okay if one of your friends got with your mum?
Is your mums sex life any of your business?
That’s actually a good point. No, I suppose it shouldn’t. It is a good thought experiment for when should someone’s private life impact others and where are the boundaries.
On the one hand our private lives should be ours alone but on the other there is the respect we show to others and the value we place on our relationship with them.
Honestly that has got me questioning my initial reaction. I know I’d be pissed if I found out what one of my friends was doing this but as you say, should it really be any of my business ? "
I understand why people might be upset by these issues but at the end of the day as long as both parties are fully consenting adults it shouldn't really impact on anyone else.
Although maybe you wouldn't want your best mate becoming your step father!
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"Question for those guys saying to go for it. Would you be okay if one of your friends got with your mum?
Is your mums sex life any of your business?
That’s actually a good point. No, I suppose it shouldn’t. It is a good thought experiment for when should someone’s private life impact others and where are the boundaries.
On the one hand our private lives should be ours alone but on the other there is the respect we show to others and the value we place on our relationship with them.
Honestly that has got me questioning my initial reaction. I know I’d be pissed if I found out what one of my friends was doing this but as you say, should it really be any of my business ?
I understand why people might be upset by these issues but at the end of the day as long as both parties are fully consenting adults it shouldn't really impact on anyone else.
Although maybe you wouldn't want your best mate becoming your step father!
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He used to be my friend,
Now he’s just my Daddy. 😆 |
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"Question for those guys saying to go for it. Would you be okay if one of your friends got with your mum?
Is your mums sex life any of your business?
That’s actually a good point. No, I suppose it shouldn’t. It is a good thought experiment for when should someone’s private life impact others and where are the boundaries.
On the one hand our private lives should be ours alone but on the other there is the respect we show to others and the value we place on our relationship with them.
Honestly that has got me questioning my initial reaction. I know I’d be pissed if I found out what one of my friends was doing this but as you say, should it really be any of my business ?
I understand why people might be upset by these issues but at the end of the day as long as both parties are fully consenting adults it shouldn't really impact on anyone else.
Although maybe you wouldn't want your best mate becoming your step father!
He used to be my friend,
Now he’s just my Daddy. 😆"
😆😆😆 |
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"Question for those guys saying to go for it. Would you be okay if one of your friends got with your mum?
Is your mums sex life any of your business?
That’s actually a good point. No, I suppose it shouldn’t. It is a good thought experiment for when should someone’s private life impact others and where are the boundaries.
On the one hand our private lives should be ours alone but on the other there is the respect we show to others and the value we place on our relationship with them.
Honestly that has got me questioning my initial reaction. I know I’d be pissed if I found out what one of my friends was doing this but as you say, should it really be any of my business ?
I understand why people might be upset by these issues but at the end of the day as long as both parties are fully consenting adults it shouldn't really impact on anyone else.
Although maybe you wouldn't want your best mate becoming your step father!
"
I'm with you on this.
I never understand why everyone thinks the man in this situation is wrong and not the woman either. |
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By *kibirdWoman 16 weeks ago
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I never understand why everyone thinks the man in this situation is wrong and not the woman either. "
I was actually thinking it was worse that a parent would consider doing this than the friend. My parental responsibility to my children doesn’t ever end as far as I’m concerned.
The user above did get me thinking though about the distinction between what people do in private and how much they should be entitled to enjoy life. It’s an interesting question that I’m not sure I have the answer to.
I know what feels wrong to me even if logically I know it shouldn’t |
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I never understand why everyone thinks the man in this situation is wrong and not the woman either.
I was actually thinking it was worse that a parent would consider doing this than the friend. My parental responsibility to my children doesn’t ever end as far as I’m concerned.
The user above did get me thinking though about the distinction between what people do in private and how much they should be entitled to enjoy life. It’s an interesting question that I’m not sure I have the answer to.
I know what feels wrong to me even if logically I know it shouldn’t "
I think there's a lot tied up in this not least the centuries old assumption that men are entitled to a say in who their women relatives have relationships with. I've even heard of men asking their friends if it's ok to date their sister.
I don't deny though that I would find it very awkward if a friend of mine was seeing my dad but I really hope that if nobody was being hurt, coerced or humiliated I could keep my thoughts to myself. |
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"If you ever wonder whether to do something or not, then do it.
If your initial instincts say don’t do it, leave it well alone.
Are you good at fighting and physically defending yourself? 😂"
Us Welsh are good for only 2 things. Fighting & fucking 😉 |
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"Question for those guys saying to go for it. Would you be okay if one of your friends got with your mum?
Is your mums sex life any of your business?
That’s actually a good point. No, I suppose it shouldn’t. It is a good thought experiment for when should someone’s private life impact others and where are the boundaries.
On the one hand our private lives should be ours alone but on the other there is the respect we show to others and the value we place on our relationship with them.
Honestly that has got me questioning my initial reaction. I know I’d be pissed if I found out what one of my friends was doing this but as you say, should it really be any of my business ?
I understand why people might be upset by these issues but at the end of the day as long as both parties are fully consenting adults it shouldn't really impact on anyone else.
Although maybe you wouldn't want your best mate becoming your step father!
He used to be my friend,
Now he’s just my Daddy. 😆
😆😆😆"
love this reply. And it is right that she is free to do whatever she wants behind closed doors. But yes that would be an awkward moment if we were ever caught or took things further than just a one night stand 😉 |
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