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My partner wants to try dogging
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By *kibirdWoman 16 weeks ago
Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent) |
Okay, so they want to try it, how about you? Is it something you want as well? Time for some honest communication about what you both want and boundaries if it happened then go from there |
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By *kibirdWoman 16 weeks ago
Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent) |
"Spoken to her about it and it seems she did some research and want to try it but on her own "
Okay, same question stands, how do you feel about especially if she’s on her own . Do you already do solo meets ? |
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"Spoken to her about it and it seems she did some research and want to try it but on her own
Okay, same question stands, how do you feel about especially if she’s on her own . Do you already do solo meets ?"
Yes we do she said she wants to do it film it and show me we live separate lives and get together at weekends I’m ok as long as it’s with someone you can trust so I suggested that we pick someone together for her to meet |
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By *kibirdWoman 16 weeks ago
Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent) |
"Yes we do she said she wants to do it film it and show me we live separate lives and get together at weekends I’m ok as long as it’s with someone you can trust so I suggested that we pick someone together for her to meet "
The only thing I’d say about dogging is that it invites all kinds of risks as you can’t control who else might be about too. If you want it to be with someone you trust, this could be difficult to achieve |
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"Yes we do she said she wants to do it film it and show me we live separate lives and get together at weekends I’m ok as long as it’s with someone you can trust so I suggested that we pick someone together for her to meet
The only thing I’d say about dogging is that it invites all kinds of risks as you can’t control who else might be about too. If you want it to be with someone you trust, this could be difficult to achieve "
agree I said that if it’s what she wants I need to be |
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By *kibirdWoman 16 weeks ago
Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent) |
"agree I said that if it’s what she wants I need to be"
Sounds like it’s something you both need to talk about and go through the details of how it would work for you both but that’s just my humble opinion |
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"My partner said to me she wants to try dogging it came out of the blue what should I do "
You have a profile on fab but you are struggling to figure out how to react?
If you had a profile on a home baking site I might understand your confusion but this is a swingers site!
Or is it just that you want to keep this all secret from your partner?
Lots of questions appear in my mind |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Kelly would NEVER go dogging on her own.
Firstly, she can't drive(bit of a handicap,i know)
Secondly,she wouldn't feel safe at all.
Each to their own though,but please think long and hard before you try it. |
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"Kelly would NEVER go dogging on her own.
Firstly, she can't drive(bit of a handicap,i know)
Secondly,she wouldn't feel safe at all.
Each to their own though,but please think long and hard before you try it."
Exactly this. As a woman, I can't think of a less safe thing to try "on my own" for the first time.
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We only go dogging occasionally maybe 2 times a year in the summer, I always go and make sure Shell is safe and I also make sure its condoms only for sex ,if your Mrs goes alone I guarantee she will get carried away and be bearbacked in the first 10 minutes... we have a few couples we meet and have a few house party's which is great fun ,but evey now and again my naughty mrs wants complete strangers and this is in my opinion what dogging is .. be prepared for your Mrs to be the complete center of attention especially if you are the only couple at the site .. our meets start we us having a kiss n cuddle in the car i tend to use toys on her and stuff we then gage who is around the car... we start with just the window open and move on from there ... it can be hit or Miss but its great fun ... but remember safety first ... be prepared to see your loving wife take lots of cock |
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I think you both need to rethink the safety aspect.
It’s not likely it will be one fella there, it could be many. And some folk forget their manners and go deaf at hearing the word “no”. She would be in a very vulnerable position on her own.
There are some weird people out there, it’s not exactly 100% safe with two of you, but at least one of you could drive you both away should it get too much.
And are you sure it wasn’t just a “in the moment” fantasy and she didn’t actually mean it?
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