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By *atty OP Man 16 weeks ago
Bristol |
Hey, been on this site on and off for a while. Was wondering how my profile looks to others. Can definitely notice the decline or response I get or the amount I get blocked without a response haha
Any advice on where to improve or where I’m going wrong would be great. I can appreciate I’m sure there are loads of forums like this but I can seem to see them or they are too old to get a response. Cheers  |
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Try searching for "profile advice"
From my perspective, your photos are too cock-centric, your only body photo is several years old, and your bio tells me next to nothing about you or what you're looking for. |
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By *atty OP Man 16 weeks ago
Bristol |
"Try searching for "profile advice"
From my perspective, your photos are too cock-centric, your only body photo is several years old, and your bio tells me next to nothing about you or what you're looking for."
Thank you and for your advice, appreciate it. You have a great profile btw x |
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I would loose the cock pics and just put one in friends, people will ask if they want to see it.
More body shots would be nice, people will typically want to see you have a profile at least. It comes off as a little submissive for me personally. There is a lot of emphasis on whatever you want , you decide and I'm just happy to be there, it reads like the whole dynamic is left to me, our interactions would be based on just what I want. This may not be the case but it reads that way to me personally. It doesn't give me an idea about what you actually want. It feels like your looking for just anyone to pleasure.
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OP, not sure if you were trying to put some humour in your profile or if you're actually serious about your "oral encounters" rules  . To me, it sounds cringy, but it's your profile, stick with what you think works.
The "cannot accommodate" bit can be off-putting as a lot of people on here read that as "married/attached", which is not always the case. You don't have to explain in your profile why you cannot accommodate but might be useful.
Last but not least, your age range. There aren't that many women under 45 on here - but again, your profile, your rules. |
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"Any advice on where to improve or where I’m going wrong would be great."
We'd maybe open your message as your profile pic is at least a pic of you, not your dick, so that's a start.
But we'd not reply after reading your profile text because it's confusing, makes no sense at all and would indicate that messaging you will be hard work, sorry.
Start your text from scratch, losing all the obscure humour and check what you're copy and pasting - that last part about forwarding your post after asking five questions? It's a profile not a chain email. |
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Sorry op, but it reads very pretentiously to me.
From my point of view, I'd prefer to read what you're actually into /looking for and what you offer meets. I also don't get the don't let the verification fool you bit.
If you're getting blocked regularly, what type of messages do you send op?. |
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Sorry OP I don't think it's much of an improvement (bar the photos)
Did you use AI to write it? It has a strong whiff of that about it.
As someone else already commented, it seems quite pretentious, and all that faff about oral rules would have me clicking out of your profile straight away.
Just be yourself and try to convey a sense of that to the reader. Of course, if you're happy that it already does then it's perfect. You can't be all things to all people.
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