You can get to a point when you want to give up. But a profile and a pic dont say everything adout you. Just need some 1 to take a chance. Dont have problem face to face. So will any 1 take a chance just that simple
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OP, you've only been on here 3 months, it's like seconds in Fab time. If you haven't got problems getting attention in person, have you actually tried getting out and about, trying swingers clubs or organised socials? Not many people can develop, and maintain, an attractive online persona, enough to catch attention of their target audience. For the simple reason, that it's almost impossible to convey your real life personality through a written word.
If this site is damaging your mental health, take a break. |
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"Unfortunately opening your pics means we get smacked in the face by a dick pic, which unfortunately seems to contradict your status."
I'm so glad it's not just me that thought that....
I don't know how you come across when you message people, but the 'woe is me' vibe that this post gives off, is not attractive.
If you do well in person, why don't you get yourself to some organised socials? |
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It's essential to have realistic expectations here. Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, so most messages won't get answered with a physical reply as no reply = no thanks.
Getting to Fab socials and clubs is ideal for those who prefer to engage face to face. 
As others state take a break if it affects you negatively |
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Why don't you take a chance and get out there? Go to a local social event, pop along to a club?
Why expect people to give you a chance when you haven't really gone out your way to meet anyone?
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"You can get to a point when you want to give up. But a profile and a pic dont say everything adout you. Just need some 1 to take a chance. Dont have problem face to face. So will any 1 take a chance just that simple
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Complete your profile out a bit - it’s pretty much blank - and put some pics in it then you may get someone reply to a well thought out message. Just a thought 🌈 |
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"You can get to a point when you want to give up. But a profile and a pic dont say everything adout you. Just need some 1 to take a chance. Dont have problem face to face. So will any 1 take a chance just that simple
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Get your profile and photos to say something better about yourself. For example, you have two spelling mistakes. To me that makes me think ‘lazy bastard can’t be bothered to write a profile so won’t bother being good at sex’. |
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I'd take a chance on a new variety of crisps or a film I wasn't too sure about.
I'm not going to take a chance on a profile that I'm not attracted to on the off chance they'd be better on real life.
If you feel the profile isn't selling you at your best, change it. |
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