"I like your profile and pics. Have you thought about trying an organised social or a club? X"
Definitely something I’d like to try, just feels very daunting to go solo for first time! Would like to meet someone also interested in them to go with x |
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By *aandLoCouple 12 weeks ago
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Agree that you need to up your photo game. Delete the one with another person in it, and spend a little time creating some more appealing photos - that does not mean 100 cock pics, lol.
And, yeah socials are daunting but be brave and go. Even if you only stay an hour and talk to one person the first time. Or try a spa club, everyone seems to chat in a jacuzzi. |
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It’s good that you’ve put some vanilla stuff in there about your interests and hobbies, but I don’t feel like I come away with a sense of what you’re looking for from Fab specifically so I feel like you need to beef that up. |
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"I like your profile and pics. Have you thought about trying an organised social or a club? X
Definitely something I’d like to try, just feels very daunting to go solo for first time! Would like to meet someone also interested in them to go with x"
Can understand it's difficult getting that first verification as couples like ourselves avoid unverified guys for the fact that they can be very unreliable and have a tendency to get cold feet and not show up. It's a catch 22 for someone in your situation but try not to look at clubs as something incredibly daunting and that you need someone to go with....it's just as daunting meeting a couple for the first time. You're entering someone's dynamic as an outsider and trying to fit in with 2 people that know each other far more intimately than you could and you can'thave someonehold your hand in that situation. At least with a club there's no pressure, just go and have a walk about, say hello to people, have a drink and get a feel for how things work in those environments. Fortune favours the brave! Go and get your face out there and you'll soon see the verifications rolling in. |
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"Won’t meet unless verified, can’t get a meet to get verified?"
Yawn....this again. Why not try and organised social to get those first verifications? We won't meet anyone without a meet verification as there are FAR too many on this site that just gets off on arranging meets that they don't turn up to. Either don't have the balls, just enjoy the setup, or are married and can't come up with a reason to leave the house.
Getting verified at a club or social proves you DO leave the house. |
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By *ashedMan 12 weeks ago
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I have been on here for years and tried many different approaches. Nothing is set in stone it's all about the luck of the draw as they say right place right time . Single men out number women and couples 20 time . So good luck if you throw enough ball at a coconut you might win a fish  |
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I’m assuming you’ve updated your profile since posting, I think you’re profile is fine
Though I’d add more photos personally, maybe add some other interesting stuff other than being nerdy and stuff because not everyone is nerdy too, I felt like I wouldn’t connect with you just based on your interests
But all that being said a lot of it actually comes down to the conversation rather than the profile, not to say you gotta stand out but you gotta show you read their profile, you get to know them before going into anything sexual, go for a social and you’ll get a verification that way
And generally don’t be grimey like some men on here -.- I don’t expect you are anyway but still
Alternatively have you thought about going to a swinging club to get verifications even if it’s just social ones?
I personally rather meet people at my local club especially men than going on fab looking for them, hence why I put no men on my profile so I don’t get harrassed as much XD I’d rather meet a guy in a club and have a conversation in person before playing |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Hi all recently single m over the years ive expermented with partners and solo on and off of here the account im on is fairly new had a couole of meets one recently thats verified me. But for some reason not getting many messages back were am i going wrong |
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"Hi all recently single m over the years ive expermented with partners and solo on and off of here the account im on is fairly new had a couole of meets one recently thats verified me. But for some reason not getting many messages back were am i going wrong "
Smoker and can't accomodate won't help. Otherwise your pictures and profile are ok..
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