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Wife has recently been very horny
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I'm bit sure what's happened.
She's normally fairly low labido, goes through the odd period of horniness, but that just presents in wanting sex, masturbating more regularly.
But the last few weeks it's become quite extreme.
It started as horniness, but has escalated far more.
She's started masturbating in the morning. Sending me messages through the day, where she must be masturbating.
More concerning is that she's been watching a lot of porn, and some has been quite extreme.
She's made comments during sex that are probably just fantasies and her verbalising certain things to make her more horny, which is fine, but it hints at some of the stuff she's watching.
We've talked about this and she's not changed anything diet wise, has had no health issues... So we're just playing it by ear, and it's nice to have her with a higher sex drive than me.
Anyone been through anything similar?
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By *aandLoCouple 11 weeks ago
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On the face of it she's a little young for perimenopause but it's not impossible.
My libido rocketed when I hit perimenopause. It lead to our sex life improving in every way.
Enjoy it, and eat your Weetabix 🤣 |
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There was an article on BBC last year about medication given out for restless leg syndrome that had a side effect that led to 'risky sexual behaviours'.
Just make sure that she knows that she can talk to you about everything and anything she she wants to do and is doing, then you can both enjoy it, knowing she is safe |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I think the observation already mentioned is there's a significant reason your wife's libido has changed.
It could be something you're unaware of, such as an exciting connection at work, or in the vanilla world.
The key to successful and sustainable lifestyle membership is the openness that you'll both need to have with one another.
If she's got something in mind, you're going to need to work on getting her to open up to you to help you understand this.
If not, you'll have a thought in the back of your mind that's going to get worse and worse.
Just ask. You'll never know otherwise |
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agreed! 😅