It's maybe a weird one, but me and my wife have been on Fab for a year now and really enjoy it. We are a Hotwife/Cuckold couple but looking to branch out into soft swap as a couple but have found it hard to do that.
I think it's more us as when we have gone to clubs we have found it a bit clicky but appreciate it's up to us to approach people first.
It was just after advice on what the best way to start meeting as a couple would be, as in meet a couple on their own maybe experienced or another couple who are new, go for social first or hit more clubs together.
We have enjoyed it so far but looking to move onto the next chapter, maybe wondering if other couples have experienced this and what did they do.
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Maybe look at organised group socials for a way to try to build connections. Remember with clubs, the more you go the more comfortable and relaxed you'll feel and get known by the regulars.
It's a big step to strike up a conversation but I find clubs and socials the easiest places to do it.
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Hot tubs are great for breaking down social barriers.
Try a club that has one.
Everyone’s naked and chatty on a hot tub.
Some clubs are worse than others for Cliques so try a few.
Remember that couple on the other side of the room might be as nervous and unsure as you are.
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If looking to meet couples from here, maybe write on your bio that you're looking for couples as nothing on there suggests you are at the min.
Also it'd be good for other couples to be able to see some pics of the man of the couple,to see if there would be any attraction. As the man isn't very visible on your profile and obviously if you're both involved, they'd want to see you both.
Get to some socials if you can , I'm half a couple and we've made more connections at organised socials, than just relying on here. |
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