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So genuine question here maybe more to the ladies and other couples.
We are thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle having enjoyed numerous MMF now hoping for that to continue. Also tempted by other scenarios!
But one thing I really find hot to think about is a MMMF and it dos turn me on. But does it make me look cheap wanting to be the centre of attention of 3 men I know and trust or am I just overthinking it? |
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If you value a male perspective, that whole narrative is shaped by men and I used to think the same thing. But wrong that you’d enjoy that? I’d love it the other way round, the trust part is big and definitely changes things, in that scenario it’s 4 people having fun rather than 3 guys “getting to fuck” a woman, which makes the perspective lean towards the area that you’re worried about.
Enjoy yourself I say lol |
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"Do you think the women on fab and in clubs who enjoy this look cheap? "
No, but that’s not really my question I guess it’s more how does it make you feel after..
I’ll be honest I think / know I kinda overthinking because I have too much free time this week |
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"If you value a male perspective, that whole narrative is shaped by men and I used to think the same thing. But wrong that you’d enjoy that? I’d love it the other way round, the trust part is big and definitely changes things, in that scenario it’s 4 people having fun rather than 3 guys “getting to fuck” a woman, which makes the perspective lean towards the area that you’re worried about.
Enjoy yourself I say lol"
Thank you for that |
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"Do you think the women on fab and in clubs who enjoy this look cheap?
No, but that’s not really my question I guess it’s more how does it make you feel after..
I’ll be honest I think / know I kinda overthinking because I have too much free time this week"
I think you're overthinking too but women have been subject to criticism for enjoying sex 'too much' for so long that it's a hard thing to get past.
Truth is some people even on here will think it's wrong but that's their problem.
Go ahead and enjoy yourself and the memories afterwards too. If you don't want to do it again it doesn't matter  |
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"Do you think the women on fab and in clubs who enjoy this look cheap?
No, but that’s not really my question I guess it’s more how does it make you feel after..
I’ll be honest I think / know I kinda overthinking because I have too much free time this week
I think you're overthinking too but women have been subject to criticism for enjoying sex 'too much' for so long that it's a hard thing to get past.
Truth is some people even on here will think it's wrong but that's their problem.
Go ahead and enjoy yourself and the memories afterwards too. If you don't want to do it again it doesn't matter "
I think that’s what I needed to hear off someone other then him haha |
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"Do you think the women on fab and in clubs who enjoy this look cheap?
No, but that’s not really my question I guess it’s more how does it make you feel after..
I’ll be honest I think / know I kinda overthinking because I have too much free time this week"
I'd say that my nans expression
"We do what we do while we are doing it"
Is perfect here.
Just enjoy the experience if it is what you want for yourself.
Make it about you and revel in it to get what you want from it.
It's nothing to do with anyone else but who you choose to be there and who you trust.
Enjoy yourself , it's your life to live.
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"Do you think the women on fab and in clubs who enjoy this look cheap?
No, but that’s not really my question I guess it’s more how does it make you feel after..
I’ll be honest I think / know I kinda overthinking because I have too much free time this week"
If you think you're not going to be feeling good about yourself afterwards, why risk that? |
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By *aandLoCouple 10 weeks ago
Southampton |
I've enjoyed that type of dynamic a few times now, and it was so much fun. Everyone who was there enjoyed it, so that's all that matters.
There will always be someone judging whatever you do. You just need to remind yourself that their opinion actually has zero effect on your real life.
You're a strong, confident woman who knows what she wants, and is making the most of life! That's far from cheap, it's priceless.
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By *andy IanMan 10 weeks ago
cheshire/Preston |
My Gf and I started like you with mf then mmf she found the attention from two men sexually exciting. In public we were just a normal couple no one paid any attention to us but in privacy of our own home she loved to dress in very short and low dresses revealing her lingerie. We decided to visit a club so she could dress the same not so much in public but in front of other like minded people. We were both turned on by the looks and attention she received and was extremely wet I was hard we had to have a private play. There were plenty of men so I asked her if she would like another mmf experience and she said yes. As it happened there were two guys very interested so thinking I may not have recovered in time we invited them both to share her. The experience was mind blowing for both of us as I did recover and she had three erect cocks to pleasure her. This became a norm when possible even to the point of having a one off nine man gang bang all safe sex. The point is we were a normal respectable couple going in and coming out it was for where sexual pleasure and we both enjoyed it. |
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Group play is fine but it depends who you're playing with. It gets cheap when you lower the standards of people you play with.
Personally we'd encourage you to look for folks who you've played with before rather than try a random group. Just trying to get a session going with randos in a club or party where you don't know many folk may not be the best approach. |
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"So genuine question here maybe more to the ladies and other couples.
We are thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle having enjoyed numerous MMF now hoping for that to continue. Also tempted by other scenarios!
But one thing I really find hot to think about is a MMMF and it dos turn me on. But does it make me look cheap wanting to be the centre of attention of 3 men I know and trust or am I just overthinking it? "
It makes you look like a women who knows what she wants and that’s a huge turn on, it’s nice to do it as a couple because you have your partner there to make it safe, so you can let your hair down and just enjoy it |
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"Do you think the women on fab and in clubs who enjoy this look cheap?
No, but that’s not really my question I guess it’s more how does it make you feel after..
I’ll be honest I think / know I kinda overthinking because I have too much free time this week
I think you're overthinking too but women have been subject to criticism for enjoying sex 'too much' for so long that it's a hard thing to get past.
Truth is some people even on here will think it's wrong but that's their problem.
Go ahead and enjoy yourself and the memories afterwards too. If you don't want to do it again it doesn't matter "
I think the ones who have the problem are the ones who are not invited to play or join in, if you offered them the opportunity, they wouldn’t hesitate lol |
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Mmmf fun is great as long as the guys involved aren't greedy and take the time to ensure the lady is thoroughly enjoying herself at the end if the day it should always be about the lady's pleasure over the guys. |
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"So genuine question here maybe more to the ladies and other couples.
We are thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle having enjoyed numerous MMF now hoping for that to continue. Also tempted by other scenarios!
But one thing I really find hot to think about is a MMMF and it dos turn me on. But does it make me look cheap wanting to be the centre of attention of 3 men I know and trust or am I just overthinking it? "
nope doesn't make you look cheap at all.. makes you look like a sexually confident female that knows what she wants and will enjoy taking the guys on.
It is a total power trip for me when I do so... I enjoy it a lot and the added part of my partner knowing I can, and watching me ... it is just great...
Its a bit of fun x |
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"So genuine question here maybe more to the ladies and other couples.
We are thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle having enjoyed numerous MMF now hoping for that to continue. Also tempted by other scenarios!
But one thing I really find hot to think about is a MMMF and it dos turn me on. But does it make me look cheap wanting to be the centre of attention of 3 men I know and trust or am I just overthinking it?
It makes you look like a women who knows what she wants and that’s a huge turn on, it’s nice to do it as a couple because you have your partner there to make it safe, so you can let your hair down and just enjoy it "
Thank you that’s so true! I’m going to stop overthinking it and if and when we make it happen it happens! |
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"So genuine question here maybe more to the ladies and other couples.
We are thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle having enjoyed numerous MMF now hoping for that to continue. Also tempted by other scenarios!
But one thing I really find hot to think about is a MMMF and it dos turn me on. But does it make me look cheap wanting to be the centre of attention of 3 men I know and trust or am I just overthinking it? "
Not at all, we would like to do the same 😋 |
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