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By *itsbits OP Couple 9 weeks ago
DONCASTER |
Hey everyone , when looking through couples profiles 80% have female pictures and non of the man , sometimes one of him holding his yoghurt slinger !! we are a MF couple and try to have a few male ones so people know the score . 80% seems the norm why is this ??? |
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Have a guess that most profiles are ran by the male and they don't have much interest at being seen or looking at other males. Ironic really as we'd imagine the success rate of profiles with pictures of both parties being far greater |
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By *eyeYCouple 9 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
If it's a hit wife scenario and Mr doesn't play absolutely no problem with hardly any pictures of him.
If not quite a red flag and frankly we don't pursue the conversation, really pisses Y off as she feels I've shown myself to a point, though obviously she'll be the major draw.
We discussed this yesterday as she'd actively for a bi lady/guy to join us for some fun and said that lack of effort from guys even single one's is crazy, and when there are pictures it's multiple cock shots..
Case in point above I noticed 🤷🙄🤦 |
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By *eyeYCouple 9 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"I run our page and then show the Mr. I’m more of an exhibitionist and he’s not. So each couple varies I suppose x"
And very hot you are! I'm sold, Y would still want to see him though x |
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By *eyeYCouple 9 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"I would love to share some pics with naughty couples or ladies
How does that contribute to the thread?"
Thought he was very helpful in demonstrating what doesn't entice couples or women for that matter 🤔😆 |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"I would love to share some pics with naughty couples or ladies
How does that contribute to the thread?
Thought he was very helpful in demonstrating what doesn't entice couples or women for that matter 🤔😆"
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I would guess that with quite a few couples looking for more bi-fems then having more photos of the female half would possibly make more sense.
There is also far more interesting underwear for the ladies than there is for us blokes that is more photogenic. |
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A lot depends on the couples actual dynamic, as a cuckold couple that enjoys meeting with other couples there are photos of us both on our profile, but ultimately it’s the hotwife they will be playing with more so makes sense to have more photos of her on there. |
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By *eyeYCouple 9 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
D just showed me the thread, the fact many don't show Mr to any degree (among other things) actually makes me want to just leave it to him and occasionally look at the 'highlights' but that's unfair.
It seems the MO for many is to show off the Mrs to garner interest, then occasionally share pictures of Mr when it comes to messaging (which is often like getting blood from a stone and feature old, 50 foot away pics or wearing bloody sunglasses, nearly didn't contact D on bumble for that faux pas 🤣) by which time it's more awkward to say no if he's not my taste physically or facially..
#Timeconsuming 🤦 |
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Its one (of many) things that really annoys us.
Our profile is a mixture of us both, and if we choose to message someone, there is always pictures of both.
Often its pictures of just the woman as she is the bait to attract people.
Its a red flag now. If we cant see you both, we wont reply, and you'll be blocked.
Mrs. |
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By *eyeYCouple 9 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"Jinx! (Well pretty much) 😉🤣😘
You guys have a lovely profile, I remember it well. Good bio and pics.
You for us fall into the "out of our league category"
Mr. X"
Thank you! ☺️
Unsure on your reasoning, but lovely words.
Y x |
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By *on_20Couple 9 weeks ago
Manchester and Cardiff |
We are the other way around. As I’m 95% cuckquean and prefer not to participate (it isn’t even necessary for me to be there for me to get my kinky needs met) there are few pics of me and more of C. |
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By *eyeYCouple 9 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"We are the other way around. As I’m 95% cuckquean and prefer not to participate (it isn’t even necessary for me to be there for me to get my kinky needs met) there are few pics of me and more of C. "
Quite a rare dynamic here, but makes sense with what you want x |
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By *on_20Couple 9 weeks ago
Manchester and Cardiff |
"We are the other way around. As I’m 95% cuckquean and prefer not to participate (it isn’t even necessary for me to be there for me to get my kinky needs met) there are few pics of me and more of C.
Quite a rare dynamic here, but makes sense with what you want x"
Yep, we tend to have an easier time in clubs than striking up conversations on here. I would hate to think alcohol accounts for that (but it probably does) xx |
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They have their reasons I guess. But, on my couple profile , we avoid profiles that don't show the man & delete any messages we get where I can't see anything of him (except a cock pic usually).
Experience has shown it generally takes ages to get a pic of him, as he hates having his pic taken, or can't have pics for work etc. Then there's often no attraction to him on my part.So we don't chat and ask anymore.
Unless only the lady plays, I think couples should show both people.Even one or two pics of him to give an idea of his build etc.
It just reduces their chances with other couples and ladies. But, it's their choice, their profile.
It is frustrating as a straight women though, because so many couples do it. |
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It seems that the MF Couples profiles that have pictures of the male are the ones where the man is bi; straight male couples should follow suit, it's now to see what both members of the MF Couple look like.
Also, a lot of couples, quite rightly, don't like single people sending messages that are aimed solely at the female of the couple; surely if 99% of a couple's pictures are of the female, then this understandable (still not forgivable)? |
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"It seems that the MF Couples profiles that have pictures of the male are the ones where the man is bi; straight male couples should follow suit, it's now to see what both members of the MF Couple look like.
Also, a lot of couples, quite rightly, don't like single people sending messages that are aimed solely at the female of the couple; surely if 99% of a couple's pictures are of the female, then this understandable (still not forgivable)?"
Yep I understand that. Many couples moan that men just address the woman and have no pics of him at all, so it looks like a woman's profile.
Same with the many couples who post wanting to attract other couples or unicorns and have just pics of the woman on their profile and can't see the issue.
Couples looking for couples & women are gonna want to see both the man and the woman, to know if there's any sort of attraction.
But, again, it's their profiles so they can run it how they wish I guess.
We show plenty of my partner on our couple account, so people can see upfront if we would be for them or not. |
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"They have their reasons I guess. But, on my couple profile , we avoid profiles that don't show the man & delete any messages we get where I can't see anything of him (except a cock pic usually).
Experience has shown it generally takes ages to get a pic of him, as he hates having his pic taken, or can't have pics for work etc. Then there's often no attraction to him on my part.So we don't chat and ask anymore.
Unless only the lady plays, I think couples should show both people.Even one or two pics of him to give an idea of his build etc.
It just reduces their chances with other couples and ladies. But, it's their choice, their profile.
It is frustrating as a straight women though, because so many couples do it. "
Exactly this for me. It's now a straight delete when those profiles message me (especially when I make reference to it in my bio) |
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I completely understand it if a couple is just looking for men however I (female) get a bit annoyed when they are looking to meet couples and there are no photos of the guy at all or just a close up of the cock. |
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"We don't have any of me (Mr) on because we don't meet couples. Just looking for guys to fuck my wife so no point me putting pics on I don't think. "
Your dynamics, it makes sense.
But if any couple wants their man to see any action....you need to show yourself.
I cant do conversation anymore with someone thats not ready to share their pics.
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By *aandLoCouple 9 weeks ago
Southampton |
We have a few photos of J, but he's not the exhibitionist I am so isn't so comfortable being stage centre on our profile. We also don't like explicit photos of us being on view for all to see. Our choice.
In our 'Friends' photos there are plenty of explicit photos and face photos of us. If that set up isn't to the liking of others, that's their choice.
We go to clubs and parties to meet couples, so primarily use Fab to connect with single guys, and they seem happy with my photos. 😁 Lx |
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Honestly, I think the most common reason is the man of the couple sets up profile so the lens he is often looking through is a straight man. So the focus is on pictures of her. In addition I think because men are visual creatures we then to take pictures of our Mrs in lingerie or having sex. But women are much more sexually intelligent and sensual and visual stimuli is less required. This means the folder pre taken photos is often all her. |
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