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Wondering if anyone can give some tips and advice on how to try and fulfill a fantasy as safely as possible. I realise that nothing is ever 100% safe.
I have a cum fetish and particularly the feeling of a guy finishing inside me ( creampie )
Only I can't take contraception other than using condoms.
Is there anyway of knowing a guy is genuine when he says he has had a vasectomy? Obviously I would ask to see test results as well.
I also would like to experience a female glory hole, but using condoms. How can you be sure that the guy has a condom on if you can't see or have access to put it on yourself?
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"Wondering if anyone can give some tips and advice on how to try and fulfill a fantasy as safely as possible. I realise that nothing is ever 100% safe.
I have a cum fetish and particularly the feeling of a guy finishing inside me ( creampie )
Only I can't take contraception other than using condoms.
Is there anyway of knowing a guy is genuine when he says he has had a vasectomy? Obviously I would ask to see test results as well.
I also would like to experience a female glory hole, but using condoms. How can you be sure that the guy has a condom on if you can't see or have access to put it on yourself?
Peace and love "
Ever considered a copper coil as non hormonal contraception?
And would female condoms help with the glory hole scenario? |
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"Wondering if anyone can give some tips and advice on how to try and fulfill a fantasy as safely as possible. I realise that nothing is ever 100% safe.
I have a cum fetish and particularly the feeling of a guy finishing inside me ( creampie )
Only I can't take contraception other than using condoms.
Is there anyway of knowing a guy is genuine when he says he has had a vasectomy? Obviously I would ask to see test results as well.
I also would like to experience a female glory hole, but using condoms. How can you be sure that the guy has a condom on if you can't see or have access to put it on yourself?
Peace and love
Ever considered a copper coil as non hormonal contraception?
And would female condoms help with the glory hole scenario?"
I had a copper coil and I ended up collapsing at work from complications. It was very painful to remove. Sadly it's not an option but I'm intrigued to know more about a Female condom |
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"Just to clarify test results to ensure STI free***"
Test results only tell you they were clear at the time they did the test your have no idea of knowing what they did after that and some stis don't show on tests straight away either. Going bare will always be a risk. |
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"Just to clarify test results to ensure STI free***
Test results only tell you they were clear at the time they did the test your have no idea of knowing what they did after that and some stis don't show on tests straight away either. Going bare will always be a risk. "
I'm aware but as I said, nothing 100% risk free, just trying to minimise them. |
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I have a friend who I think has the same and after some pregnancy mishaps, has gone on the pill. Guess some call it a breeding fetish. 😂. Curious to know, what does it for you, or more, how does it make you feel when a guy finishes in you.
I know I prefer sex without condoms (as I'm sure most people would say they do) but have only done so with people I've been a regular Fwb with where we've both agreed to exclusively fuck without condom with one another but if with other people to use a condom. Ultimately it comes down to trust and honesty with people being up front with what they do or tests they've taken and when etc.
I do like the feeling of cumming inside a woman and it being received. I do like those porn video where it may start of with a condom but the woman pulls it off and urges the man to cum in her 😂😂 |
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"Wondering if anyone can give some tips and advice on how to try and fulfill a fantasy as safely as possible. I realise that nothing is ever 100% safe.
I have a cum fetish and particularly the feeling of a guy finishing inside me ( creampie )
Only I can't take contraception other than using condoms.
Is there anyway of knowing a guy is genuine when he says he has had a vasectomy? Obviously I would ask to see test results as well.
I also would like to experience a female glory hole, but using condoms. How can you be sure that the guy has a condom on if you can't see or have access to put it on yourself?
Peace and love "
If you have a vasectomy then you’ll have scars on you balls from the operation, although not always easy to see them I guess unless close inspection.
As a cuckold couple, Dee has always preferred bareback but like others have said testing and trust is a massive thing ! |
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"I've always imagined with a glory hole... A good friend 'overseeing' would ensure latex/free safety
I really need a club buddy! "
Was just going to suggest this I used to go to a club with a female just to keep her safe as we never played between us |
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By *olo_89Couple 5 weeks ago
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"Wondering if anyone can give some tips and advice on how to try and fulfill a fantasy as safely as possible. I realise that nothing is ever 100% safe.
I have a cum fetish and particularly the feeling of a guy finishing inside me ( creampie )
Only I can't take contraception other than using condoms.
Is there anyway of knowing a guy is genuine when he says he has had a vasectomy? Obviously I would ask to see test results as well.
I also would like to experience a female glory hole, but using condoms. How can you be sure that the guy has a condom on if you can't see or have access to put it on yourself?
Peace and love
If you have a vasectomy then you’ll have scars on you balls from the operation, although not always easy to see them I guess unless close inspection.
As a cuckold couple, Dee has always preferred bareback but like others have said testing and trust is a massive thing !"
Male half here, ive had a vasectomy no scars visible anywhere so that is not always an indicator. The incision is so small even if therebwas a scar it would be negligible when looking for it even after a few years. Just got to really on trust for a kink like this unfortunately |
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Do you track your periods using an app? I know it’s nowhere as reliable as birth control but it can reduce the likelihood of unwanted pregnancy.
I really wish male birth control was available here 😭 |
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I occasionally encounter ladies using diaphragms (Dutch caps) on the scene, so there’s another contraception option for you OP. They’re not ideal though, and vulnerable to inquisitive fingers.
Female gloryholes normally leave enough room for you to feel for a condom if you wanted to, but the action on the other side of the wall is usually frenetic. Without a trusted helper some guys will be inside you before you have chance to check.
For the same reason, your helper needs to be ready to physically intervene, or guys will be inside before they’re made to put a condom on. In my experience, in the heat of the moment most guys don’t react well to having their dick pushed away (or pulled out) by another guy, so some experience needed, or maybe a female helper?
Good luck finding a solution, and enjoy living out that fantasy. |
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