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Looking to the boys in the room for some friendly advice please.
It's time my husbands cage went from virtual to real. Can you offer any first hand recommendations for a cage suitable for someome new to wearing one?
I like a look of the stainless steel, but I assume the plastic might be easier and more comfortable? I've got no idea what it's like to have a penis so help a girl out 
Thank you xx |
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mark is locked 24/7 as part of our female led relationship. Start slowly. The metal cages are really suitable for long term wear. It depends what you’re looking for. mark now wears the holy trainer version 3. I like it because it has an integral lock and easier to get through airport security. |
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By *idsAndyMan 13 weeks ago
Worcestershire |
"mark is locked 24/7 as part of our female led relationship. Start slowly. The metal cages are really suitable for long term wear. It depends what you’re looking for. mark now wears the holy trainer version 3. I like it because it has an integral lock and easier to get through airport security. "
I love that you don't even remove it for the airport  |
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I've worn both plastic and metal. We've found plastic when worn for a while can be quite smelly. When showering, the metal one allows the cock to be cleaned better. Also think the weight of the metal one is more of a reminder to the wearer of his place in the relationship |
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Weight can also cause it to sag a little , which is why some come with an additional belt to support it . We don’t care for the look of that , so if you are going for metal I’d make sure it was lightweight.
Agree with Amandamarks wise advice above . We currently use a Holy Trainer knock off from Amazon. Pretty good for several days , usually five or so here , before a couple ‘ free’.
Have pics and happy to share experiences if you’d like to dp. |
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"Is your ultimate goal occasional chastity around meets or long term chastity?
The former, leading to the latter x"
I've been in chastity since 19 when I started my first of teo cuckold relationships, I prefer plastic myslef, and that's been my go too.
I have tried many styles sizes and materials over the years all have merits and disadvantages especially important for long term use . You'll probably go through a few before settling on yours . |
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"Looking to the boys in the room for some friendly advice please.
It's time my husbands cage went from virtual to real. Can you offer any first hand recommendations for a cage suitable for someome new to wearing one?
I like a look of the stainless steel, but I assume the plastic might be easier and more comfortable? I've got no idea what it's like to have a penis so help a girl out
Thank you xx"
Does he have a profile here op? If so it might be best for him to ask, then he can ask any specific questions and give the info needed for the right advice maybe. |
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"Looking to the boys in the room for some friendly advice please.
It's time my husbands cage went from virtual to real. Can you offer any first hand recommendations for a cage suitable for someome new to wearing one?
I like a look of the stainless steel, but I assume the plastic might be easier and more comfortable? I've got no idea what it's like to have a penis so help a girl out
Thank you xx
Does he have a profile here op? If so it might be best for him to ask, then he can ask any specific questions and give the info needed for the right advice maybe. "
Thank you for your reply.
We do have a couple's profile but in our relationship, this is an area in which I take the lead and make the decisions  |
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Thank you all so much for taking the time and effort to reply and offer advice and recommendations.
I decided on the Holy Trainer and feminizer v3 to start out with and we'll go from there.
Once again, thanks to you all xx |
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"Thank you all so much for taking the time and effort to reply and offer advice and recommendations.
I decided on the Holy Trainer and feminizer v3 to start out with and we'll go from there.
Once again, thanks to you all xx"
Make sure you show him off in it. |
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"Thank you all so much for taking the time and effort to reply and offer advice and recommendations.
I decided on the Holy Trainer and feminizer v3 to start out with and we'll go from there.
Once again, thanks to you all xx"
Don’t forget to post pics he is lucky you have taken control of his cock
My Mr has learnt to live with his on all the time x |
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"Looking to the boys in the room for some friendly advice please.
It's time my husbands cage went from virtual to real. Can you offer any first hand recommendations for a cage suitable for someome new to wearing one?
I like a look of the stainless steel, but I assume the plastic might be easier and more comfortable? I've got no idea what it's like to have a penis so help a girl out
Thank you xx"
So I am mostly a 24/7 chastity boy/girl now
Ideally you need to take measurements and get the right fit i also found that a larger cage at night to sleep in helps then over time the normal day cage will become a permanent cage and will only have to take it off for daily cleaning under your supervision of course |
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"I guess it would be rude not to share  "
I think you made a good choice. How is he progressing in it? I would expect a big improvement in behaviour generally , particularly obedience to instructions and eagerness to please.
Have you shown pics somewhere? I couldn’t see. But we know what a looked cock looks like I guess! |
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By *anus7Man 9 weeks ago
Chesterish |
Choosing the right size base ring,
(40-42 mm is best IMO) and stainless is best,for the reasons stated,but plastic is ideal if you need to go through airports.
As an additional ordeal,try the ones with a piss pipe fitted,or small spikes inside the base ring.. |
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As a cock caged cuck I feel naked without it, you become used to wearing it and the constriction it offers.
Metal cages are best but too impractical for everyday wear so a plastic ‘holy trainer’ style seems best for that. |
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"Such a lucky hubby to have a lady into this
100% this. So wish Mrs N would lock me up but it's always at my behest and it just doesn't feel like I am a proper cuck  "
Looks like you getting some good fun tho |
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"I have tried a few and found the stainless steel most comfortable for me x"
agreed. You'd think that silicone or plastic would be better but I found them because the stick to skin and dont breathe as well more uncomfortable for longer wearing.
Metal was a game changer. Can go a long time wearing it. But I do like a girly pink elasticated belt to hold it in place better, metal obviously is heavier.
Try places like "lock the cock" as its got guides for sizes too. x |
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