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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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I'm curious as to what people's levels of post orgasm clarity is?
Any ladies get it? Ever had to deal with a partner having it?
I used to get a real bad swing but I have recently been working on staying in the high and riding the feeling. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"An ex suffered terribly from this, as a result I was often left feeling bad too. "
I can imagine that was a struggle for you both. Taints the enjoyable bit. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"I get a serious flight reaction, I just want to get out when the fun is over "
That is not great, guessing no one could stop you either. Xx
Seriously though, is tough when you know you've just enjoyed yourself but every inch of you wants to be as far away as possible. X |
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I think you’ve got to have enough of a sense of humour to be able to laugh at yourself and what you’ve just done without taking it too seriously. I do get post nut clarity, but I try to see the funny side that I wanted it so badly just a few minutes ago, even if I’ve pushed my own limits |
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Never understood why "clarity" is taken as a need to exit the situation.
My best meets have ended with genial and pleasant chat while recovering from our exertions. I particularly enjoy the sensation of a guy's cum drying on me and playing with it while we decompress (is that weird?)
I suspect for a lot of blokes who want sex with CD/TV/TS it's still that repressed guilt bubbling up about "gay" stuff turning them on when they still think of themselves as straight. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 2 weeks ago
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I've encountered this a fair bit with guys who after shooting their load want me to vanish as soon as possible.
In fairness, this could be just so that they don't hear the sound of my voice no more  |
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I used to get it quite often when I was younger.
When I stopped having sex because "fuck it, may as well" and started only having the sex I actively wanted to have, I've not had any issues with it 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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"Never understood why "clarity" is taken as a need to exit the situation.
My best meets have ended with genial and pleasant chat while recovering from our exertions. I particularly enjoy the sensation of a guy's cum drying on me and playing with it while we decompress (is that weird?)
I suspect for a lot of blokes who want sex with CD/TV/TS it's still that repressed guilt bubbling up about "gay" stuff turning them on when they still think of themselves as straight."
Understood and gosh you have as positive experience.
Maybe clarity isn't the correct word but it was the recognised, colloquial term I see used. Massive replaced it with switch in desire, reframing of headspace. Anything that moves you from that lustful, playful desires to suddenly going, you know what I'm not interested, wether that is founded in guilt, a biological reaction. That's what I'm curious about.
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