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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd just like to share some tips for all the bi-curious women out there looking for FF fun. I apologise in advance if this comes across as a bit like teaching Granny to suck eggs, but these are all the things I've learnt and may come in handy for other new women to the scene.
- Make sure you talk about boundaries. It's not always possible to cover every eventuality, but make sure the things that are important to you are covered.
- Don't automatically dismiss women that are attached to men. Some OH's are very respectful of others' wishes... some aren't.
- I personally would advise that there is no-one but you and the other F for the first time. It can be intimidating enough as it is without more eyes ogling. However, that's a personal choice.
-Be confident enough to walk away if you don't like the way someone is acting or speaking to you, there's no compulsion to play with them.
- We all know there are fakes out there, and some are a lot more convincing than others. Chat on the phone or on Skype prior to meeting, if that's not possible then arrange to meet in a public place... safety first!
Well, that's my two cents, I hope it helps. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thanks for the tips,I havent put that I'm curious as had a bad time of it a long time ago, both with men and women's remarks etc.But by not putting that im curious it isnt easy broching the subject  |
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"Thanks for the tips,I havent put that I'm curious as had a bad time of it a long time ago, both with men and women's remarks etc.But by not putting that im curious it isnt easy broching the subject "
Yes, I understand the situation. The best thing I can suggest is use the messaging filters if you haven't already, and actively block anyone that isnt of interest.
The other thing is to take the remarks with a pinch of salt and report anyone that's being offensive. hope that helps and best of luck to you! |
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