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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not the usual 'How is my profile?' thread
I started chatting to a lady a while back who had told me she was on the site with her husband and found out he was cheating so she was joining up by herself. I expressed concern she was just trying to get him back and she made quite clear she had already done that. Therefore eased my concern about a revenge shag.
Anyway, we met up, had fun , arranged to do it again.
She has since told me has been cheating again,he is violent, they are splitting up, etc. In a later message she says they have 'sorted it out', come clean with one another both know about each others profiles etc.
Since then I have noticed their couples profile regularly looking at mine. She tells me she hardly goes on it so it is clearly him. I think quite rightly I am concerned. She has tried to dismiss it as him just wanting to know who she had met.
I have since blocked the profile but know he has a singles profile on here. I don't know what it is.
Are my actions over the top in blocking the couples profile and staying away?
I'm concerned now that she knows where I live and this isn't going to go away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be concerned, too. This kind of scenario won't be new though, and I'd be most interested in what others will suggest.
I hope the situation will remain as is, OP.
Blocking seems a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and people dont mind meeting others that are cheating why again?
you reap what you sow, bud.
you knowingly got involved with a couple that were messing each other around and now you are involved in the aftermath.
lesson learned?
who knows.
for your sake i hope so |
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You can't do anything other than what you have done. It could also be one giant mind game they're both playing with you.
As a general rule swinging doesn't solve relationship problems but can create a few for anyone involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not the usual 'How is my profile?' thread
I started chatting to a lady a while back who had told me she was on the site with her husband and found out he was cheating so she was joining up by herself. I expressed concern she was just trying to get him back and she made quite clear she had already done that. Therefore eased my concern about a revenge shag.
Anyway, we met up, had fun , arranged to do it again.
She has since told me has been cheating again,he is violent, they are splitting up, etc. In a later message she says they have 'sorted it out', come clean with one another both know about each others profiles etc.
Since then I have noticed their couples profile regularly looking at mine. She tells me she hardly goes on it so it is clearly him. I think quite rightly I am concerned. She has tried to dismiss it as him just wanting to know who she had met.
I have since blocked the profile but know he has a singles profile on here. I don't know what it is.
Are my actions over the top in blocking the couples profile and staying away?
I'm concerned now that she knows where I live and this isn't going to go away.
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shame you got caught up in these pathetic couples tit for tat antics. If a single man keeps looking at your profile then it could be him. Personally I like to tackle a problem head on so I would talk to him asking if he would like to discuss anything. I don't like living in fear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He gonna find you and punch your lights out.. 
he knows who you are you dont know who he is..
remove profile and start again..  "
I dont know whether this suppose to be comical or what. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not the usual 'How is my profile?' thread
I started chatting to a lady a while back who had told me she was on the site with her husband and found out he was cheating so she was joining up by herself. I expressed concern she was just trying to get him back and she made quite clear she had already done that. Therefore eased my concern about a revenge shag.
Anyway, we met up, had fun , arranged to do it again.
She has since told me has been cheating again,he is violent, they are splitting up, etc. In a later message she says they have 'sorted it out', come clean with one another both know about each others profiles etc.
Since then I have noticed their couples profile regularly looking at mine. She tells me she hardly goes on it so it is clearly him. I think quite rightly I am concerned. She has tried to dismiss it as him just wanting to know who she had met.
I have since blocked the profile but know he has a singles profile on here. I don't know what it is.
Are my actions over the top in blocking the couples profile and staying away?
I'm concerned now that she knows where I live and this isn't going to go away.
shame you got caught up in these pathetic couples tit for tat antics. If a single man keeps looking at your profile then it could be him. Personally I like to tackle a problem head on so I would talk to him asking if he would like to discuss anything. I don't like living in fear "
I appreciate the positive response. I may approach the subject with him (or the couples profile) but don't want to inflame the situation.
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