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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sometimes i think we should consider different advice thats needed for experienced swingers not just newbies
1. How to finish with a cpl you have reg played with
2. what to do if a cpl you have known for years gets too old for you
3. how to break it to your girlfriend you want to come out straight
think of any more?????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its not instant sex as soon as you join.
persistantly pestering someone will usually result in a block.
you will be bombarded choose carefully. a little effort on your profile goes a long long way xx |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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2. what to do if a cpl you have known for years gets too old for you
considering that you age at exactly the same rate as they do thats never going to be an issue is it?"
OK rephrase....
2. What to do if a couple's bodies get too OBVIOUSLY old for you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2. what to do if a cpl you have known for years gets too old for you
considering that you age at exactly the same rate as they do thats never going to be an issue is it?
OK rephrase....
2. What to do if a couple's bodies get too OBVIOUSLY old for you..."
AAAhh...we have got such a lovely ...cosy ...long term friendship...you feel just like family to us now...keep mentioning...the words more like family...may work..??????
kinda takes the sex aspect out of the relationship...but leaves friendship intact... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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2. what to do if a cpl you have known for years gets too old for you
considering that you age at exactly the same rate as they do thats never going to be an issue is it?
OK rephrase....
2. What to do if a couple's bodies get too OBVIOUSLY old for you...
AAAhh...we have got such a lovely ...cosy ...long term friendship...you feel just like family to us now...keep mentioning...the words more like family...may work..??????
kinda takes the sex aspect out of the relationship...but leaves friendship intact..."
oh we did exactly that!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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2. what to do if a cpl you have known for years gets too old for you
considering that you age at exactly the same rate as they do thats never going to be an issue is it?"
so not true! we have met cpls when we first started that were 20 years older than us and are fine now - but in 5 years or 10 years time??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont really know why the age issue comes into it really ? im nearly 55 fitter and healthier than i have ever been in my life .ive got more energy than both my kids and most of my much younger friends .someone definitely made a mistake on my birth certificate so i just ignore it !!!.long may it reign |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i dont really know why the age issue comes into it really ? im nearly 55 fitter and healthier than i have ever been in my life .ive got more energy than both my kids and most of my much younger friends .someone definitely made a mistake on my birth certificate so i just ignore it !!!.long may it reign "
hi it wasnt aimed at 'age' as such - but more what do you do when a cpl you played with for years ages either mentally or physically beyond your desires
please dont take it as an age thing as such |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) what to do if you meet someone but decide you are not interested (a tad pissed off with meeting guys only to find im taller than them )
2) What to do if a meet keeps changing the goalposts for meeting
3) To talk on the phone or not?
4) Fit and genuine, who said?
5) How to break it to someone you've played with that alcohol spoilt any change of a further meet 
6) How to break it to someone you've met that he wants to play but she doesnt 
7) How does one get it into their thick heads that just cos ive a picture of me wearing black stockings and suspenders, doesnt mean thats what im going to wear on a first social meet especially if its in my work lunchbreak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont really know why the age issue comes into it really ? im nearly 55 fitter and healthier than i have ever been in my life .ive got more energy than both my kids and most of my much younger friends .someone definitely made a mistake on my birth certificate so i just ignore it !!!.long may it reign "
Absolutely understand there, ive a now 60 yr old that knocked socks off the 52 yr old i played with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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gawd, you don't read the forums, do you...
it seems to be;
Start by ignoring them
Remove them from your friends list
waste their time
Block them
Wait till they post something on the forums about it, then you know your job is almost done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sort of think we are going to try to do it AND stay friends lol "
Ah, headache when they suggest a meet?
Difficult as your going to reject a part of them. Avoid situations when you might have to play with them?
i'll shut up now.  |
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