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So I am 45 .. Is a 19 year old too young?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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each to their own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Difficult one isn't it, but then if you look at the age gaps I experience (youngest I've met is 21), it's probably the same. Depends on the maturity of both parties I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be for me due to being a mother. However, you're nit me  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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Depeneds, if you had a daughter her age or a bit older, would you meet this girl? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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ask her to pop up a thread asking 'if a 19 year old girl should meet a 45 year old'
and go with those answers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there is a mutual attraction and you can handle her lack of experience then go for it. nothing wrong with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are both honest about it then OK and don't knock yourself out about it. If you lied to get her interest then you've killed it already. I was 50 when I had several great meets with a 22 year old. Even if you took all the pills in the world she is going to realise. It might not last, but it'll be fun while it does Anyway, do her a favour and teach her what 20 years experience can do. She may never look back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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You know it's wrong, or you wouldn't have asked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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a 45 year old women on here looking for a nice 19 year old lad...
they have a special name: cougar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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I know I am only 19 myself, but I don't think she's too young. More older men should be willing to give us young ones a chance! 
So I think you should go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What you got to lose ? Just check her I.D x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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Age is just a number my partner is nearly 10 years older than me, I don't think of him as older so of you click go for it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
Age is just a number my partner is nearly 10 years older than me, I don't think of him as older so of you click go for it xx"
Age is not just a number!
Perhaps the OP should ask the same question about a 71 year old |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It should be about the connection not the age, my age limits have rose to 52, I'm 26 x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what is right for you both but personally I think it's abit ewww, especially if she could be mistaken for your daughter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 what's a 19 yr old girl and a 45 yr old man gonna have in common |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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" what's a 19 yr old girl and a 45 yr old man gonna have in common "
they like sex |
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By *hameless-2Couple
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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Your as old as the woman your feeling
If she's happy with it then go for it
Age is just a number they put on your grave stone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im 46 and i have a friend with benefits whos 20.
we go clubbing at weekends and yes we fuck. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" what's a 19 yr old girl and a 45 yr old man gonna have in common
they like sex "
 I adore sex but not with a guy old enough to be my dad 
Btw _iew, you are younger than my dad x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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" what's a 19 yr old girl and a 45 yr old man gonna have in common
they like sex
I adore sex but not with a guy old enough to be my dad
Btw _iew, you are younger than my dad x"
happy days |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
Not sure I would want to have a long social meet with her as may not have too much in common. However just for meet, why not!! The age range is 18-99 on here for a reason. Mind you I would rather an 18 year old than a 99 year old everyone has something to offer so go for it....as long as she is fully willing and not vulnerable in any way (Dan) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's wrong. No one is taking advantage of anyone else. |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
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we met when lily was 18 and i was 43 we got along fine and are still together now 5 years on
go for it you never know where it may lead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are looking to meet her to fuck her presumably. ...... Not really sure it matters as long as you are attracted to each other? And even that doesn't matter to some. If you need to ask you see it as an issue so it won't matter what anyone else says!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a man imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me swinging is about physical attraction crossed with meeting new people. If you can have a laugh and fancy them go for it. If you're looking for a connection I'd try a dating site. I know what I'd do. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love this place and these posts too - you are all great!!
Thank you!
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"It's a man imo."
pretty usual and highly likely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some 19 year old single female profiles really are women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a man imo.
pretty usual and highly likely"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a man imo.
pretty usual and highly likely"
Nope def a girl have proof!
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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Both consenting adults.
Willing,consenting,adult sexual partners,has no age limits.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just fuck him, age is jsut a number just make sure they are over 16 legal age lol. |
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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Under 18 is too young. Go for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was 18 I fucked a 54 year old house wife. I worked as a plumber and did some work on her house. She turned a young boy into a man. I'll be forever great fun to that lady.
However, she'll be about 73 now hahah. |
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"It should be about the connection not the age, my age limits have rose to 52, I'm 26 x"
Oooohh goody, I'm in with a shout then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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all the comments before mine, are great, but theres a difference between 18 and 19 females and males. For males that age no one batters an eyelid and i agree, but a females of that age and i have to agree with some of the other posts what would you do if you had a daughter that age?
personally i wouldnt, (but this is just my opinion), we only play with people 25yrs and above, its the youngest age we will play with.
hope u find the help/advice you were after
the female |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all
It seems the consensus is gfi - some really good posts here, lots to think about!
Luv ya all! |
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I don't think the age gap is an issue I was meeting a 21year old when I was 40 and did so for over 2 years and we had a fab time but for me personally I wouldn't meet anyone who's age still ends in 'teen' as it just doesn't sit right with me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not for me, as im a mum. But you look fit and she is obviously happy to meet you. Like they said, people might look and think she is your daughter but its probably envy, so if its what you both want then do it and have fun. Life is meant to be fun after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me, personally think she is way too young for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should be about the connection not the age, my age limits have rose to 52, I'm 26 x"
That's good to hear |
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As a Mum l wouldn't meet any one that young but at a club I don't know what I do, in fact yes I do I think wow! |
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"If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer. "
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A couple i know have a 30 year age gap, she is older than him.
she doesn't have kids. They work as a couple.
I think most people that have kids have an internal filter that won't look at people younger or similar age to their kids. I think it's almost an in built natural thing?
If you don't have kids though, that anti incest gene hasn't kicked in, any potential offspring will be younger than your mate so its fine.
I believe we all have an internal moral compass, we know when things are right, or not |
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"If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer. "
Women seems to be against it and guys for.
if you have a daughter generally she could be 30 and most dads will still not want to see them making out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No its not you're both gunna enjoy it so get busy with her. Iv been seeing a girl that's 18 I'm 35 she's also a mates daughter but once she started to tease me I couldn't stop myself from having her. I defy any red blooded man that finds a naked 18year old girl in his bed playing with herself begging you to fuck her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mums and Dads with daughters are naturally those who are most concerned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer.
Women seems to be against it and guys for.
if you have a daughter generally she could be 30 and most dads will still not want to see them making out."
well that's a load of SHIT coz I don't know a man alive that would want to see his daughter gettin fucked be it a 50year old man a 19year old or a 35year old. You just don't ever want to think of your little girl bent over with some guy banging a big cock into her. So that comment makes no sense at all.
Ps my girlfriend is 18 I'm 35 we've been fuckin in secret for months she's loving it so am I. Iv taken loads of grief for it on here coz her dad is a mate me mine kind of but he's a KNOBHEAD an treats her an her mum like SHIT so fuck him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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I'll Sort this, yes you're too old so just send her my way and morally all will be good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer.
Women seems to be against it and guys for.
if you have a daughter generally she could be 30 and most dads will still not want to see them making out. well that's a load of SHIT coz I don't know a man alive that would want to see his daughter gettin fucked be it a 50year old man a 19year old or a 35year old. You just don't ever want to think of your little girl bent over with some guy banging a big cock into her. So that comment makes no sense at all.
Ps my girlfriend is 18 I'm 35 we've been fuckin in secret for months she's loving it so am I. Iv taken loads of grief for it on here coz her dad is a mate me mine kind of but he's a KNOBHEAD an treats her an her mum like SHIT so fuck him "
You're not treating her like shit are you? Unless she knows you're on here!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer.
Women seems to be against it and guys for.
if you have a daughter generally she could be 30 and most dads will still not want to see them making out. well that's a load of SHIT coz I don't know a man alive that would want to see his daughter gettin fucked be it a 50year old man a 19year old or a 35year old. You just don't ever want to think of your little girl bent over with some guy banging a big cock into her. So that comment makes no sense at all.
Ps my girlfriend is 18 I'm 35 we've been fuckin in secret for months she's loving it so am I. Iv taken loads of grief for it on here coz her dad is a mate me mine kind of but he's a KNOBHEAD an treats her an her mum like SHIT so fuck him
You're not treating her like shit are you? Unless she knows you're on here!!!!"
of course I'm not treating her like SHIT she's amazing and laying with me rite now reading what's being said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you got to lose ? Just check her I.D x "
Lol x this is so true ! I like young guys and I do check some IDs to make sure they are over 18 ! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" she's amazing and laying with me rite now reading what's being said. "
You're my hero. jealous face lol |
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"If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was 33 it was a friends wedding, his niece was a bridesmaid and we got it on, she was 18 and stunning. I arranged for us to meet up a week or so later and my god was that the worst mistake ever, great to look at but just nothing in common. Now I know all men don't think alone with their cock so to me a mental connection is equally important as the physical, each to their own I know and like everything there are exceptions to every rule. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you got to lose ? Just check her I.D x
Lol x this is so true ! I like young guys and I do check some IDs to make sure they are over 18 ! Lol "
WOW I bet there's some lucky lucky lads near you with fake Id's I know I would of done anything to get a hot milf like you to teach me about the birds an the bees. Lol |
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Think of it this way at 50 u will still have the memory of shagging a 19 year old. Joey in friends said that btw |
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We get funny looks in public and even more jealous looks. We love it don't hold back go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all the comments before mine, are great, but theres a difference between 18 and 19 females and males. For males that age no one batters an eyelid and i agree, but a females of that age and i have to agree with some of the other posts what would you do if you had a daughter that age?
personally i wouldnt, (but this is just my opinion), we only play with people 25yrs and above, its the youngest age we will play with.
hope u find the help/advice you were after
the female"
What twaddle that no-one bats an eyelid at young guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you had a 19 year old daughter and saw her making out with a 45 year old bloke. That's your answer.
Women seems to be against it and guys for.
if you have a daughter generally she could be 30 and most dads will still not want to see them making out. well that's a load of SHIT coz I don't know a man alive that would want to see his daughter gettin fucked be it a 50year old man a 19year old or a 35year old. You just don't ever want to think of your little girl bent over with some guy banging a big cock into her. So that comment makes no sense at all.
Ps my girlfriend is 18 I'm 35 we've been fuckin in secret for months she's loving it so am I. Iv taken loads of grief for it on here coz her dad is a mate me mine kind of but he's a KNOBHEAD an treats her an her mum like SHIT so fuck him "
You wanna fuck him too?   |
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I believe age is just a number, there have been many happy unions with age gaps either way and many failures of people of similar ages never say never so many cliches sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A word of caution. These forums are littered with timewasters and fakes threads from people who do not see that some things are too good to be true.
So to save you posting one of them:
What "proof" do you have it's actually a 19yr old girl? A pic? I think you'll find they are easy to come by on the internet.
Ask for a chat on the phone or a meet for a coffee. If a load of excuses follow, walk away.
Don't decide to drive out to an unknown address without at least a chat on the phone, but preferably several chats.
Don't let your hardon over rule your brain! If something is too good to be true it probably is. |
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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago
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We have met a 19 year old girl and her 21 year old bf a couple of years ago , when we talked to them and asked why they wanted to meet us at our age they said because the older person knows how to please a man/ woman . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your not sure pass her this way I will!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is nothing - just go for it. And good luck - hope your 19 year old doesn't turn out to be a 60 year old male! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always used the following rule for a lower age limit.
Your age / 2
Plus 7 years
So for 45 it would be 29
That said, if it's NSA and she is very clear on what this is then I suppose there is no problem! I suppose I just always wonder why young girls and guys aren't out there having fun in the off line world |
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By *ersBiGuyMan
over a year ago
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I meet people my age who regularly meet older guys, no big deal , |
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"A couple i know have a 30 year age gap, she is older than him.
she doesn't have kids. They work as a couple.
I think most people that have kids have an internal filter that won't look at people younger or similar age to their kids. I think it's almost an in built natural thing?
If you don't have kids though, that anti incest gene hasn't kicked in, any potential offspring will be younger than your mate so its fine.
I believe we all have an internal moral compass, we know when things are right, or not "
Well said. I used to be attracted much older men but never be around or beyond my father's age.
Now I'm 46yo, I like younger men and as I don't have any child, I have no concept of incest as long as he is legal age. Because I can see him as a man when I'm attracted.
Having said that, I don't think I can go as low as my nephew's age though
Is it the anti incest gene? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She's over 18 so go for it |
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By *ersBiGuyMan
over a year ago
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"A couple i know have a 30 year age gap, she is older than him.
she doesn't have kids. They work as a couple.
I think most people that have kids have an internal filter that won't look at people younger or similar age to their kids. I think it's almost an in built natural thing?
If you don't have kids though, that anti incest gene hasn't kicked in, any potential offspring will be younger than your mate so its fine.
I believe we all have an internal moral compass, we know when things are right, or not
Well said. I used to be attracted much older men but never be around or beyond my father's age.
Now I'm 46yo, I like younger men and as I don't have any child, I have no concept of incest as long as he is legal age. Because I can see him as a man when I'm attracted.
Having said that, I don't think I can go as low as my nephew's age though
Is it the anti incest gene?"
Older women do it better anyway |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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If you are both happy and legal then it's not wrong if it feels right to you both.
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As long as she is over 18 years of age, then she is an adult and she can make her own choices. If she is willing and consenting what is the problem?
I know when i was 18 or 19 and tried chatting older women up in nightclubs it really used to piss me off if they would say i was too young, it really annoys 18 and 19 year olds when you treat them like kids. They are legally adults so treat them like adults. Any 18 or 19 year old women on here want to meet up, please send me an email, lol.
I'm 36 and youngest girl i've met from a swinger site was 19, her attitude seemed more mature than some 40 year old women i've met, lol. |
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By *irmz 93Man
over a year ago
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She's over 18 and legal she's got her own mind so go for It if that's what you both want |
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Why even ask she's of legal consent age so are you nothing wrong at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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Why ask? You're attracted to each other, so meet her. If you click, and my personal experience is that many young women are strongly attracted to older men, then take it from there. 19 year old women are women, and are typically intelligent, sexually mature, and know what they want  |
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By *ersBiGuyMan
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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The sub girl I'm meeting ATM has a 43 year old master and she's 20! I really wouldn't worry mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have to ask ......... |
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By *uss4321Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
How about the girl in question here?
This is a sex website... Sleeping with you might be fulfilling one of HER sexual fantasies. A bit of dilf action!
If you are on the same page so far and are getting turned on at the idea it could be a really hot encounter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about the girl in question here?
This is a sex website... Sleeping with you might be fulfilling one of HER sexual fantasies. A bit of dilf action!
If you are on the same page so far and are getting turned on at the idea it could be a really hot encounter "
Im 49 and been seeing a 19 yr old and I think it's brill go for it and enjoy |
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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If it's only for fun why not, if your thinking of dating/relationship she may be to young as you will have nothing in common.
In the same week i've had fun 21 yr old & a 72 yr old whilst doing their shoots, both younger & older & both great fun.
Go for it mate & enjoy yourself. |
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Really can't see what difference the age of your children are to what age people think it is ok to meet. If a male or female at 18 are mature enough then go for it. My other half's kids are 27 and 23 but this would not stop us meeting an 18 year old. |
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as a mother i have to say if a 40+ yr old met my youngest he would be wearing his bollox as a tie round his neck! |
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"as a mother i have to say if a 40+ yr old met my youngest he would be wearing his bollox as a tie round his neck! "
if you youngest was 18, have to ask the question, why do you think you have the right to decide who she sees? Does she judge your lifestyle? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am chatting to a 19 year old - who wants to meet. Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
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in my opinion yes its to young, but why would you care what I think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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IM 24 and regularly meet men in their 50s. It depends what kind of 19 she is. Is she attending college with her pathetic friends or has she lived a little? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you take bunty magazine, some jelly tots and some colouring pages and crayons.
Just jealous really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i'm the same age as you and i couldn't see myself meeting someone of that age, cant see what common ground you would have but hey that's me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own, your not planning on dating each other just shagging so go for it. As long as your both interested, where's the problem?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no not realy, i was quite grown up at 19 living with my partner and had a baby, then again some 19 year olds are like little kids. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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"IM 24 and regularly meet men in their 50s. It depends what kind of 19 she is. Is she attending college with her pathetic friends or has she lived a little?"
Pathetic friends? What sort of statement is that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if she is a mature 19 or a teen 19 is what i meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends, if they are the kind of guy that's like a fine wine or cheese and get better looking with age etc then ye but you get some middle aged guys on here who try to punch way above their weight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's about what you want and what she wants if your both happy who gives a fuck what anyone thinks .
Live your life how you want to , not how society thinks you should !
RUIN HER !!!!!!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking forward to reading the verification |
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your age restrictions are 18/55 so not really sure why your asking the question ? |
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Isn't it strange, 19 year old females serve on the front line but so many people think they are incapable of thinking for themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 45 soon to be 46, I have a sone of 23 and daughter 25. My sone in law in 31. I wouldn't play with anyone younger than them. I still refer to them as the kids.
My preference only but wouldn't play with a guy if I was old enough to be his mum, just not my thing.
I do wonder about OP. If he is asking the question then he obviously has doubts. I would ask if he has a daughter and if she was 19 would he like her with a 45 year ol guy... I think not. Besides, what would you have in common to talk about? xx |
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"Isn't it strange, 19 year old females serve on the front line but so many people think they are incapable of thinking for themselves. "
That occurred to me too. It's patronising and dare I say it, in some cases territorial sexism. |
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"Isn't it strange, 19 year old females serve on the front line but so many people think they are incapable of thinking for themselves.
That occurred to me too. It's patronising and dare I say it, in some cases territorial sexism."
Like the term 'territorial sexism' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The wife said way to young as it's the same age as our son I say fuck her brains out life's to short to worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go for it. Have fun! |
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if she's up for it and you're happy your personal safety is ok then what's holding you back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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too young for me, although i do prefer thre more mature lady myself, but if its what floats your boat and shes willing meet her, hope all goes well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know it's wrong, or you wouldn't have asked "
I'd really love to hear how you come to that "fact" |
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She is old enough to make her decision, no one should assume she is not mature enough to do this. We don't tend to arrange meets with peeps in their 20's as we have had 2 no shows in the past but we have played with a male and a female on seperate occasions in a club and after a social (both early 20's) and on both occasions it was as fab as all other meets so yes go for it x |
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over a year ago
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If you are both happy with the age difference, and it's not under any falsehoods. I.e. you both know it's just swx and nothing more. Why not? |
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Some are saying they wouldn't let you shag their daughter well sorry but its 2014 not Victorian days what right have you got to stop her leading her own life as has been said they can go front line. |
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I met Sandman through a different site when I was 19; I'm now 21. I've always preferred to date older people as they are far more mature in their social skills than my own age group, and we both share very similar interests.
He's helped out my dad and my sister and, whilst we both know that it's not going to last forever, we're going for it whilst it does.
It helps that he is fitter than the bulk, excuse the pun, of twenty year olds and he knows exactly what he's doing in bed; he also has a really strong moral code and I've seen him drop a thief in Birmingham with just two moves.
So, if it works for you then great but just watch out for girls just looking for 'sugar daddies'; I brought this up myself with Sandman and he knows that I'm not in this relationship for that reason but because he is fucking awesome.
Tank Girl
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is she too young? What do people think - too much of an age gap?
I know I am only 19 myself, but I don't think she's too young. More older men should be willing to give us young ones a chance!
So I think you should go for it "
I think you younger girls should give us older guys a chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are 19 years old you are old enough to decide for yourself who to Fuck.
Every 19 year old boy fantasises over older women and that is just standard so why should it be any diffrent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was 19 I was pleased to get the experience of a wide range of men. I think mid 50s was the oldest I had then but now put a limit on ages as I know what and who I like now |
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over a year ago
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" what's a 19 yr old girl and a 45 yr old man gonna have in common "
You'd be surprised I was seeing a girl 21 yrs younger than me for six months.... We had plenty in common. It wasn't just sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if shes game and you are then go for it |
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By *ready1Man
over a year ago
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Each to their own.
I personally wouldn't. How ever that's based morals as I have children In that age group. |
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thing is at 18 or 19, you couldn't stop your daughter fucking anyone she fucking well wanted to, no matter how much you bang on about it, she could take a 60 year old up her arse and tell you about it afterwards, sorry, it's just plain and simple fact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the OP, give her the fucking of her life mate |
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Your _iew, not mine... |
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I'd not be happy with my 22 year old with an old man. I wasn't happy when my eldest dated someone from a different culture and not happy one of my daughters is dating a jailbird with two kids by two different women.
Fact is adults are allowed to make mistakes. I'm mum, on permanent standby should things go tits up! |
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I am approaching 27 and even I question myself on whether it's ok to see a 19 year old. So I wouldnt even think of it when I'm 45. Each to their own though. |
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Way too much moralising and folk in glass houses throwing stones.
Go for it and enjoy, both of you.
When I was 41 I was shagging a 19 year old stunner and people will gasp in horror. But then when I was in my late teens I was banging more than a couple of 40 something year old ladies. People don't recoil in horror when it's an older woman, only an older man. |
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When I was younger, I had many women of all ages ... and they had me ... and we all had great sex together. And now that I'm older (and vastly more experienced, as in practice makes perfect) ... guess what? I still have many women of all ages ... and they still have me ... and we all still have great sex together. Age doesn't seem to a problem. Don't let it be for you. And, good luck to you both |
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