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over a year ago
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Hello all,
Looking for some insight from more experienced crowd. I was shown the site by someone I chatted to on a pornsite and as I'm single again after divorce and intrigued by social and saucy side I thought I'd join.
As a single unverified guy it's going to be tricky I get that but any advice on if I should be on swinging site if I'm keen on finding a fb or a very select few localy I can relax and play with?
Where's the line in people's view. Others have said that southampton area isn't blessed with an active swinging crowed so not sure if I'm giving off wrong vibe to try and be included or just people can afford to be more choosy.
Thanks for reading, enjoy Easter and happy swinging all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all,
Looking for some insight from more experienced crowd. I was shown the site by someone I chatted to on a pornsite and as I'm single again after divorce and intrigued by social and saucy side I thought I'd join.
As a single unverified guy it's going to be tricky I get that but any advice on if I should be on swinging site if I'm keen on finding a fb or a very select few localy I can relax and play with?
Where's the line in people's view. Others have said that southampton area isn't blessed with an active swinging crowed so not sure if I'm giving off wrong vibe to try and be included or just people can afford to be more choosy.
Thanks for reading, enjoy Easter and happy swinging all."
Southampton has a very good couples scene and a very good bi / gay /bdsm scene
Always a good few social evenings going on , I thinks at least one a week. Also there are organised parties frequently |
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"Hello all,
Looking for some insight from more experienced crowd. I was shown the site by someone I chatted to on a pornsite and as I'm single again after divorce and intrigued by social and saucy side I thought I'd join.
As a single unverified guy it's going to be tricky I get that but any advice on if I should be on swinging site if I'm keen on finding a fb or a very select few localy I can relax and play with?
Where's the line in people's view. Others have said that southampton area isn't blessed with an active swinging crowed so not sure if I'm giving off wrong vibe to try and be included or just people can afford to be more choosy.
Thanks for reading, enjoy Easter and happy swinging all.
Southampton has a very good couples scene and a very good bi / gay /bdsm scene
Always a good few social evenings going on , I thinks at least one a week. Also there are organised parties frequently "
We must be amongst the few who don't know about the bi scene. Ever since JCT2 closed, south Hants seems to have become a swinging desert - where's this bi scene? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for replies....do i look for the meets and events in the section here?
Any that you know of that is welcoming for non pushy single guys as I would imagine a lot of interest does pop up.
The social evenings there too or is it just a case of keeping eyes open? |
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I'd encourage you to move about a bit, if you don't find the local area gives you what you want.
Being a single male is not a non-starter, as far as swinging goes, it could just mean that you have to make plenty of effort.
Some great people all over, as there are clubs. Look out for non-member days, and explore cheap hotel deals in club areas too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you are finding it a struggle then only you can decide if its all worth the hassle or not.
this crap is supposed to be fun, a bit of a giggle,
if its far from that, then i would say its probably not worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not sure if this is the place for you or not only you can decide that, we use this slightly differently to how your suggesting we attend clubs, parties and socials to get to meet and know people then use this site to keep in contact and build on relationships, we use this site as a tool in the swinging lifestyle not as the be all and end all in swinging, anyway good luck and as suggested if you can't find what your looking for locally perhaps travel a bit |
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Haven't looked at your profile so I don't know what you have said about yourself. Whatever it is, keep it positive. You have a decent pic up so people can see who you are. If you don't mind driving an hour or so your opportunities will really open up. There are several different sections to find people from organised socials, clubs, parties and meets tonight etc. have a look around. Post in the forums and raise your profile. Good luck |
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