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over a year ago
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Not sure what you're saying. You are playing with a woman as a couple but you just dont fancy her? Woudnt that mean not playing? Surely your partner wouldn' expect you to play in those circumstances?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont do something you dont want to - this is supposed to be fun and pleasurable- anybody wanting you to is being disrespectful to you - our rule is all happy or nothing happens xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He wants to fuck her but he wants me to play with her as well but she doesn't do it for me. I've told him I ain't going too so we will see thanks for replies xx |
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over a year ago
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"He wants to fuck her but he wants me to play with her as well but she doesn't do it for me. I've told him I ain't going too so we will see thanks for replies xx"
If you don't fancy her don't do it.
It's a very, very rare thing that I fancy a woman and Mr D would never want us to have an encounter where one of us had none of the necessary physical attraction. Just explain you need to wait for a woman you're both attracted to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes I'm sober in simple terms my man wants to shag a woman from a couple we know to me she is ugly but my man wants me to play with her first lick her finger her bite her non existent nipples but I don't want to and I was wondering if I should to please him but now know I'm not going too |
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"Yes I'm sober in simple terms my man wants to shag a woman from a couple we know to me she is ugly but my man wants me to play with her first lick her finger her bite her non existent nipples but I don't want to and I was wondering if I should to please him but now know I'm not going too "
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"Yes I'm sober in simple terms my man wants to shag a woman from a couple we know to me she is ugly but my man wants me to play with her first lick her finger her bite her non existent nipples but I don't want to and I was wondering if I should to please him but now know I'm not going too "
you shouldn't please him if it isn;t something you want to do but you shouldn't insult her either she isn't at fault here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't imagine anything worse than one of us taking 1 for the team.
I would be asking serious questions of your husband if I was you, and as to why he thinks it is ok to want or by the sound of it expect you to do something you aren't happy with? Seems to show a complete lack of respect for you. |
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"I couldn't imagine anything worse than one of us taking 1 for the team.
I would be asking serious questions of your husband if I was you, and as to why he thinks it is ok to want or by the sound of it expect you to do something you aren't happy with? Seems to show a complete lack of respect for you."
he's not her husband  |
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"Does that mean he can disrespect me ?? "
Good Lord no! No human is entitled to disrespect another when it comes to sex but the best form of respect is self respect and that is what is making you uneasy about this situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does that mean he can disrespect me ?? "
not at all - W is my portector and has so much respect for me its off the scale - it works both ways - but very simply you not happy with the proposed meet so dont do it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not doing it I had already said no but needed to make sure my doubts were the right thing thank you to everyone for making my self respect stronger x sue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He wants to fuck her but he wants me to play with her as well but she doesn't do it for me. I've told him I ain't going too so we will see thanks for replies xx"
I would not play .. just to please others as it makes you feel bad after .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't do it. I done it once and really regret it. On top of that. Now when I go to the club, if I see the person and they want to play. I am going to find it very tricky to say no as I have said yes before. I am so stupid!  |
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"Don't do it. I done it once and really regret it. On top of that. Now when I go to the club, if I see the person and they want to play. I am going to find it very tricky to say no as I have said yes before. I am so stupid! "
You're only stupid if you don't learn from it and you have . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry I thought as a couple the whole point was to enjoy who you were with and be able to do this together?
If he wants her and you don't you either both don't or you let him!(new can of worms for some couples) but if you play as a couple you have too enjoy as a couple??
Glad your going to be strong and put your foot down |
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