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over a year ago
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"Personality for me is more important than looks, i like a chat and a drink or coffee first on any meet i like to talk to people as well as have fun with them"
We like to click with people but we are not on here for social meets, we do t have the time.
To be honest looks ect are not that important to me, I have my husband who does everything for me
When we are meeting on here for NSA that's what it is NSA x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality is by far the most important thing for us which is why we don't arrange meets quickly. We need to chat for a bit first and have a couple of social meets before we take things further.  |
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Personality or attitude???
I can't say I've ever know someone well enough from swinging to know their personality, but if they have a decent attitude then it's more likely that something will happen.
Given the infrequency of our swinging and lack of social meets, its not been unknown to play with people we have not even said hi to before, if they happen to be in the same room we are all attracted and it happens. |
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It would leave a lot of people feeling cold so your in very good company here. The other thing is looks can fade but its their attitude / personality is there then you will always have an attraction / desire to be with that person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does personality matter to you? Or will you shag anyone regardless?
Just wondering..."
It doesn't really matter on fab. So long as you are not a total fool?, I wouldn't really think about it much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does personality matter to you? Or will you shag anyone regardless?
Just wondering...
It doesn't really matter on fab. So long as you are not a total fool?, I wouldn't really think about it much. "
Didn't mean to put a question mark in that sentence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does personality matter to you? Or will you shag anyone regardless?
Just wondering..."
I like interesting and interested men.
I have to be attracted to not only their outside but their mind too, corny as that sounds! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality is a massive thing looks attract first but then its all personality. . a good looking girl can easily look ugly with a bad personality then the looks count for nothing.. thats my personal opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although funnily enough on here it can work the other way - messages exchanged suggest a good personality... and then the face pic arrives  
I wonder how often the good personality prevails then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although funnily enough on here it can work the other way - messages exchanged suggest a good personality... and then the face pic arrives
I wonder how often the good personality prevails then?"
So true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does personality matter to you? Or will you shag anyone regardless?
Just wondering..."
Looks and personality are the clincher.
Plus beauty is most definitely in the eye of the beholder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does personality matter to you? Or will you shag anyone regardless?
Just wondering..."
Looks and personality are the clincher.
Plus beauty is most definitely in the eye of the beholder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its hard to show personality in a message.. everything looks blunt without facial expression and tone of voice.. written in black and white just dont do the job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its hard to show personality in a message.. everything looks blunt without facial expression and tone of voice.. written in black and white just dont do the job "
Really?!
I disagree.
So many ways you can express yourself through words.
I can't stand the one to three word messages from some men, total turn off.
There are ways of using the English language to get across your intentions and your personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does personality matter to you? Or will you shag anyone regardless?
Just wondering..."
I wouldn't bother with a woman unless she had a good personality, sex begins in the mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its hard to show personality in a message.. everything looks blunt without facial expression and tone of voice.. written in black and white just dont do the job
Really?!
I disagree.
So many ways you can express yourself through words.
I can't stand the one to three word messages from some men, total turn off.
There are ways of using the English language to get across your intentions and your personality. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its hard to show personality in a message.. everything looks blunt without facial expression and tone of voice.. written in black and white just dont do the job
Really?!
I disagree.
So many ways you can express yourself through words.
I can't stand the one to three word messages from some men, total turn off.
There are ways of using the English language to get across your intentions and your personality.
This"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its hard to show personality in a message.. everything looks blunt without facial expression and tone of voice.. written in black and white just dont do the job
Really?!
I disagree.
So many ways you can express yourself through words.
I can't stand the one to three word messages from some men, total turn off.
There are ways of using the English language to get across your intentions and your personality. "
Yeah I guess its personal preferences.. im crap at messaging but when a women is sat in front of me I get in the zone.. body language is better to read than the English language lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its hard to show personality in a message.. everything looks blunt without facial expression and tone of voice.. written in black and white just dont do the job
Really?!
I disagree.
So many ways you can express yourself through words.
I can't stand the one to three word messages from some men, total turn off.
There are ways of using the English language to get across your intentions and your personality.
Yeah I guess its personal preferences.. im crap at messaging but when a women is sat in front of me I get in the zone.. body language is better to read than the English language lol "
It should be like writing a letter.
Not a long letter!
I love it when a man (not very often) writes to me and I can tell he has actually taken the time to sit and think.
I know it's not easy for some but the challenge of being online is you have to capture the imagination, well my imagination.
Perhaps I'm weird or of another decade.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole package is important to me. If a girl had stunning good looks but a ratty attitude then no, I wouldn't find her attractive, but even if someone had a wonderful personality I'd still have to find a them somewhat good-looking in order for me to want to have sex with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its hard to show personality in a message.. everything looks blunt without facial expression and tone of voice.. written in black and white just dont do the job
Really?!
I disagree.
So many ways you can express yourself through words.
I can't stand the one to three word messages from some men, total turn off.
There are ways of using the English language to get across your intentions and your personality.
Yeah I guess its personal preferences.. im crap at messaging but when a women is sat in front of me I get in the zone.. body language is better to read than the English language lol
It should be like writing a letter.
Not a long letter!
I love it when a man (not very often) writes to me and I can tell he has actually taken the time to sit and think.
I know it's not easy for some but the challenge of being online is you have to capture the imagination, well my imagination.
Perhaps I'm weird or of another decade.
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No thats not weird ill take that as abit of advice  thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its hard to show personality in a message.. everything looks blunt without facial expression and tone of voice.. written in black and white just dont do the job
Really?!
I disagree.
So many ways you can express yourself through words.
I can't stand the one to three word messages from some men, total turn off.
There are ways of using the English language to get across your intentions and your personality.
Yeah I guess its personal preferences.. im crap at messaging but when a women is sat in front of me I get in the zone.. body language is better to read than the English language lol
It should be like writing a letter.
Not a long letter!
I love it when a man (not very often) writes to me and I can tell he has actually taken the time to sit and think.
I know it's not easy for some but the challenge of being online is you have to capture the imagination, well my imagination.
Perhaps I'm weird or of another decade.
No thats not weird ill take that as abit of advice thanks "
You're welcome!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are on here purely for sex it shouldn't really matter about personality........ However my biggest sex organ is my brain and I do like a good blether.
If you turn me off mentally it's not going to happen even if you happen to be gods gift & a Chris Cornell lookalike.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does personality matter to you? Or will you shag anyone regardless?
Just wondering..."
Yes it matters a lot but also looks do too well why limit yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No what comes out of their mouth is the important bit to me, not I'm a professional all that stuff.
Just down to earth good laugh, with no bollox attached
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think we may be in the majority here.
Whilst personality is great and meeting nice people is wonderful, we are on here to have 'fantasy' sex.
By that I don't mean that we only fantasise about meets but rather want to fulfil our sexual fantasies with people off this site.
To the end we want to meet people who we feel attracted to and that means finding people who we find physically desirable.
I have fancied hundreds of people over the years, including my other half. I have been lucky enough to have had some fun with the people I fancy but the reason I am with my partner is their personality made them stand out to me. It is what has kept our relationship going throughout the years.
So I think people go for looks first and then if they are really lucky the people they fancy may have a great personality.
We say this because I have never been out with my mates in the pub and heard anyone say, 'Cor look at the personality on her'.
To put it bluntly you go out to a great restaurant to have a fantastic meal as a treat, chips and egg at home, as nice as it is doesn't float my boat as much as a delicious Tournedos Rossini.
(Just been slapped and told she is more Filet Mignon then chips and egg but you get what I mean = looks for nsa sex and personality for relationships).
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"Think we may be in the majority here.
Whilst personality is great and meeting nice people is wonderful, we are on here to have 'fantasy' sex.
By that I don't mean that we only fantasise about meets but rather want to fulfil our sexual fantasies with people off this site.
To the end we want to meet people who we feel attracted to and that means finding people who we find physically desirable.
I have fancied hundreds of people over the years, including my other half. I have been lucky enough to have had some fun with the people I fancy but the reason I am with my partner is their personality made them stand out to me. It is what has kept our relationship going throughout the years.
So I think people go for looks first and then if they are really lucky the people they fancy may have a great personality.
We say this because I have never been out with my mates in the pub and heard anyone say, 'Cor look at the personality on her'.
To put it bluntly you go out to a great restaurant to have a fantastic meal as a treat, chips and egg at home, as nice as it is doesn't float my boat as much as a delicious Tournedos Rossini.
(Just been slapped and told she is more Filet Mignon then chips and egg but you get what I mean = looks for nsa sex and personality for relationships).
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A great post.
I don't buy the personality over looks argument.
There are plenty of people with wonderful personalities that I know, that I would never consider in a sexual fantasy. I'll start with my boss at work a great boss a fantastic lady, but just not my cup of tea.
Conversely there are other ladies at work who I don't know at all and could have terrible personalities but they would be my cup of tea looks wise.
I think personality or attitude is the clincher. It maybe a reason to reject or accept, but it's not a reason to make an initial approach.
"If women were really attracted to a sense of humor, they'd be trampling over Johnny Depp to get to Jay Leno."
Or
"If women were really attracted to a sense of humor, they'd be trampling over Angelina Jolie to get to Jay Leno."
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opps
or
"If men were really attracted to a sense of humor, they'd be trampling over Angelina Jolie to get to Jay Leno."
Damn the joke does not really work when you have to post it a second time.
There goes my chances of showing off that attractive GSOH.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"opps
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"If men were really attracted to a sense of humor, they'd be trampling over Angelina Jolie to get to Jay Leno."
Damn the joke does not really work when you have to post it a second time.
There goes my chances of showing off that attractive GSOH.."
Personally i would rather bang Joe Brand than Angie Jollies
Ok im weird
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