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I thought I'd successfully organised a meet Friday, guy said after his last message he'd not have access to the site, so we agreed at meeting at 10am I get ready in the morning didn't check fs. (He's asked if it was defo 0n) I didn't see this till I got back home all disheartened an grumpy that he'd not turned up.
Do I wait to see what excuse he comes up with tomorrow or ??
Ps he's as fit as fuck, |
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"No we didn't, hubby doesn't want me giving out my number. "
Consider getting a swing-phone.. just a cheap and cheerful phone with a PAYG SIM which you use only for swinging. Then situations such as you've experienced could be avoided  |
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over a year ago
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"No we didn't, hubby doesn't want me giving out my number. "
Hes happy for you to meet a stranger on your own but not to give your number out? Get a cheap pay as you go and use it just for swinging,it makes sense to chat before you meet,and to have contact number incase you're in the same situation again  |
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I know I should make it more specific, oops x
As hubby was at work, we'd discussed it before hand as it was just a social that I'd be okay just having a coffee 
The social was more for me to calm my nerves x
I will sort the profile out xx |
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"I know I should make it more specific, oops x
As hubby was at work, we'd discussed it before hand as it was just a social that I'd be okay just having a coffee
The social was more for me to calm my nerves x
I will sort the profile out xx"
We always have a social to take the pressure off too, we think its right for us. Just a shame your guy didn't turn up.
In answer to your original question we no longer give second chances |
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"I thought I'd successfully organised a meet Friday, guy said after his last message he'd not have access to the site, so we agreed at meeting at 10am I get ready in the morning didn't check fs. (He's asked if it was defo 0n) I didn't see this till I got back home all disheartened an grumpy that he'd not turned up.
Do I wait to see what excuse he comes up with tomorrow or ??
Ps he's as fit as fuck, "
cancellation with reasonable time and a believable reason no problem...no show, no second chance no matter how fit they are... |
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"I thought I'd successfully organised a meet Friday, guy said after his last message he'd not have access to the site, so we agreed at meeting at 10am I get ready in the morning didn't check fs. (He's asked if it was defo 0n) I didn't see this till I got back home all disheartened an grumpy that he'd not turned up.
Do I wait to see what excuse he comes up with tomorrow or ??
Ps he's as fit as fuck, "
He sent a message asking if it was on and you didn't see it/ reply? I think that's probably the reason then... maybe he thought you wouldn't show |
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"I've been thinking that xx
Maybe a miscommunication, although he said the night before he wouldn't have access to the site after his last message Thursday. J
Hope that makes sense xx"
Makes sense to me.
If he reads the forums he will have read all this so maybe you should message him and if he doesn't respond you'll know. |
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"Turns out he was there, I didn't see him but he saw me, but he was too nervous to approach me?
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Really??? How very odd. How's he going to meet people for sex if he can't approach someone in a social situation? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Turns out he was there, I didn't see him but he saw me, but he was too nervous to approach me?
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Did you know what he looked like?
Did he know what you looked like?
If he's too nervous to approach you do you honestly think he'd be confident enough in a play environment should one be arranged?
How much 'pressure' is involved in a coffee?
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"Turns out he was there, I didn't see him but he saw me, but he was too nervous to approach me?
Did you know what he looked like?
Did he know what you looked like?
If he's too nervous to approach you do you honestly think he'd be confident enough in a play environment should one be arranged?
How much 'pressure' is involved in a coffee?
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if the milk is steamed correctly quite a lot   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally, if a guy said he was there to me after not having the confidence to come up to me then I'd just move on, seems very unlikely as I'd spot them, I generally get there early and sit near the door. Time to move on I think, that's as bad as a no show, if indeed he was there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a no show last night from here but i had his number and i refuse to leave my house until theyve called me from the place we're meeting. This pussy decided to block me from whatsapp 20 mins before we met so i didnt even have to get dressed. Lol! Some guys just dont have the balls to meet. Pity him and move on. He might be hot but he's balless. |
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Don't know, he told me what he was wearing an I do recall after going back to my car, seeing some one fitting that description. I could be wrong but if it was him he didn't look as expected.
He did know what I looked like he saw me.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Don't know, he told me what he was wearing an I do recall after going back to my car, seeing some one fitting that description. I could be wrong but if it was him he didn't look as expected.
He did know what I looked like he saw me.
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And did you know what he looked like?
Facially? Not his clothes.
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"Don't know, he told me what he was wearing an I do recall after going back to my car, seeing some one fitting that description. I could be wrong but if it was him he didn't look as expected.
He did know what I looked like he saw me.
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I'd move on, I only give people one chance, if they didn't take it then their loss. Better luck next time. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I did yeah, an his face shape was totally different as well as his figure.
I am moving on, got my stomach in knots for nothing 
I'm leaning towards clubs for sure now"
Potentially 'borrowed' photos then if in reality he wasn't as 'fit as fuck'! 
Report. Block. Move on.
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I would like to point out its not just men that do a 'no show'. I have had several women and a couple that either arrange to meet then not, or go quiet the day before.
As for pics that are outdated etc, many women call themselves curvy but tend to have only one!
Just had to get this off my chest! |
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"I did yeah, an his face shape was totally different as well as his figure.
I am moving on, got my stomach in knots for nothing
I'm leaning towards clubs for sure now"
You should always talk to ameet on webcam before you meet. It proves he's the guy in the pics. I would never go to a meet without webcam. It won't prove he'll show up but at least you know you're not getting all done up for some freak to come meet you. |
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"I would like to point out its not just men that do a 'no show'. I have had several women and a couple that either arrange to meet then not, or go quiet the day before.
As for pics that are outdated etc, many women call themselves curvy but tend to have only one!
Just had to get this off my chest!"
You're right! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I did yeah, an his face shape was totally different as well as his figure.
I am moving on, got my stomach in knots for nothing
I'm leaning towards clubs for sure now
You should always talk to ameet on webcam before you meet. It proves he's the guy in the pics. I would never go to a meet without webcam. It won't prove he'll show up but at least you know you're not getting all done up for some freak to come meet you."
I always cam then social before play x |
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Defo need a play phone
yep x
Whoever it is on the pics he's gorgeous x