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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been on here before as both a single and couple and had a few meets. Since I've joined back up I've only managed 2 meets and struggle getting replies to messages. Anybody any tips regarding where I'm going wrong regarding opening messages and my profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only one pic and thats of your cock? Never good. It is very negative, no humour or self deprecation and nothing to say as to what you have to offer. Tempt and tease always works for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't matter what you put on your profile. This site is crap. I've been here twice before and had 2 people not turn up for meets, and that's it. I've had a decently written profile both times and it made no difference at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter what you put on your profile. This site is crap. I've been here twice before and had 2 people not turn up for meets, and that's it. I've had a decently written profile both times and it made no difference at all. "
If you think its crap why keep coming back, leave and dont return |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter what you put on your profile. This site is crap. I've been here twice before and had 2 people not turn up for meets, and that's it. I've had a decently written profile both times and it made no difference at all. "
Why are you still here then, people remember all the negativity and it won't do you any favours |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I've been on here before as both a single and couple and had a few meets. Since I've joined back up I've only managed 2 meets and struggle getting replies to messages. Anybody any tips regarding where I'm going wrong regarding opening messages and my profile?"
You can't accommodate and you sound very aggressive.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Believe me both my profiles I've had on here have been ultra positive. Im a positive kind of guy. I've posted pics, given a full description of myself, yet it made no difference at all. I've tried 3 times on here and I've asked the same question as this pages original poster, 'what am I doing wrong?' Your face either fits on here or it doesn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Believe me both my profiles I've had on here have been ultra positive. Im a positive kind of guy. I've posted pics, given a full description of myself, yet it made no difference at all. I've tried 3 times on here and I've asked the same question as this pages original poster, 'what am I doing wrong?' Your face either fits on here or it doesn't."
What a crock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not aggressive at all. I'm frustrated with this site. Single guys are severely discriminated against in here. If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not aggressive at all. I'm frustrated with this site. Single guys are severely discriminated against in here. If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye"
We are not discriminated against, people have choices and for whatever reasons have chose not to talk or meet you.
Are you married? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here before as both a single and couple and had a few meets. Since I've joined back up I've only managed 2 meets and struggle getting replies to messages. Anybody any tips regarding where I'm going wrong regarding opening messages and my profile?"
Your on the wrong site mate, if you want to share lots of women join tinder and plenty of fish
I only use this site for the forums I never send messages just reply to people who message me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not aggressive at all. I'm frustrated with this site. Single guys are severely discriminated against in here. If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye"
pmsl he wasnt joking  byeeeee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here before as both a single and couple and had a few meets. Since I've joined back up I've only managed 2 meets and struggle getting replies to messages. Anybody any tips regarding where I'm going wrong regarding opening messages and my profile?
You can't accommodate and you sound very aggressive. "
i think that proves what u said! |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I've been on here before as both a single and couple and had a few meets. Since I've joined back up I've only managed 2 meets and struggle getting replies to messages. Anybody any tips regarding where I'm going wrong regarding opening messages and my profile?
You can't accommodate and you sound very aggressive. i think that proves what u said! "
It was his own aggressive words on his profile that was his downfall  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been on here before as both a single and couple and had a few meets. Since I've joined back up I've only managed 2 meets and struggle getting replies to messages. Anybody any tips regarding where I'm going wrong regarding opening messages and my profile?
You can't accommodate and you sound very aggressive. i think that proves what u said!
It was his own aggressive words on his profile that was his downfall "
well the aggressive side of him definately came out in his last post |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Whoops what have I started!! Without meaning to sound aggressive, what parts of my profile would you say are aggressive? And how would you suggest I soften it up? :-  |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
I'm still trying to figure out whats going on it looks like the person that left and the OP had a very similar profile.
Anyway OP like I said you can't accommodate and you profile sounds very aggressive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Leerise I took on board what you said, and I've asked how you, or any other posters, suggest I make it less aggressive. And there aren't just single males that can't accom, there's lots of couples and single females that can't accom |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Whoops what have I started!! Without meaning to sound aggressive, what parts of my profile would you say are aggressive? And how would you suggest I soften it up? :- "
Re-read your last paragraph. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Leerise I took on board what you said, and I've asked how you, or any other posters, suggest I make it less aggressive. And there aren't just single males that can't accom, there's lots of couples and single females that can't accom"
Couples may have children or relatives living with them, single Fems, well do you really expect them to invite a strange man into there home! |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Leerise I took on board what you said, and I've asked how you, or any other posters, suggest I make it less aggressive. And there aren't just single males that can't accom, there's lots of couples and single females that can't accom
Couples may have children or relatives living with them, single Fems, well do you really expect them to invite a strange man into there home!"
The OP is asking for advise so why don't you try giving him some. |
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"Whoops what have I started!! Without meaning to sound aggressive, what parts of my profile would you say are aggressive? And how would you suggest I soften it up? :- "
The bit where you tell people not to waste your time and that you have no patience... |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Whoops what have I started!! Without meaning to sound aggressive, what parts of my profile would you say are aggressive? And how would you suggest I soften it up? :-
The bit where you tell people not to waste your time and that you have no patience..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!!"
What's wrong with a bit of attention seeking! Crack on mate
P's please view my profile!!!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Leerise I took on board what you said, and I've asked how you, or any other posters, suggest I make it less aggressive. And there aren't just single males that can't accom, there's lots of couples and single females that can't accom
Couples may have children or relatives living with them, single Fems, well do you really expect them to invite a strange man into there home!
The OP is asking for advise so why don't you try giving him some."
It was an answer to his question |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!!
What's wrong with a bit of attention seeking! Crack on mate
P's please view my profile!!!! Lol"
I just checked you out hun and your good to go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leerise I took on board what you said, and I've asked how you, or any other posters, suggest I make it less aggressive"
The only part of your profile that I would keep is this
"I'm looking for nice, honest people for chatting and meets. Thanks for reading" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!!
What's wrong with a bit of attention seeking! Crack on mate
P's please view my profile!!!! Lol
I just checked you out hun and your good to go "
I'm glad iv got your blessing, nice smile by the way |
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"anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!!"
Actually I was just thinking we hadn't had one of these for some times now (at least 4 or 5 days) and then this one comes along and goes and hi-jacks somebody else's thread to do his whining and whingeing   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!!
What's wrong with a bit of attention seeking! Crack on mate
P's please view my profile!!!! Lol"
nowt wrong with a bit of attention lol but i dunno i just think this is blatant lol trying to get girls to read yeer profiles, kinda sad really ol butt hats just me! no offence meant tho to anyone! |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!!
What's wrong with a bit of attention seeking! Crack on mate
P's please view my profile!!!! Lolnowt wrong with a bit of attention lol but i dunno i just think this is blatant lol trying to get girls to read yeer profiles, kinda sad really ol butt hats just me! no offence meant tho to anyone! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!!
What's wrong with a bit of attention seeking! Crack on mate
P's please view my profile!!!! Lolnowt wrong with a bit of attention lol but i dunno i just think this is blatant lol trying to get girls to read yeer profiles, kinda sad really ol butt hats just me! no offence meant tho to anyone! "
Lol I guess I'm a sad man then
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anyways personally i think anyone who puts a whats up with me post on here is just an attention seeker! we get at least 1 of these every day here! same old crap tho! go put abit of effort into the profiles, chat in the rooms,get to know people!! thats what works! oh yeaah and dont be an ass or aggressive,be urself after all thats who ever ur planning on meeting is gonna meet!!
What's wrong with a bit of attention seeking! Crack on mate
P's please view my profile!!!! Lolnowt wrong with a bit of attention lol but i dunno i just think this is blatant lol trying to get girls to read yeer profiles, kinda sad really ol butt hats just me! no offence meant tho to anyone!
Lol I guess I'm a sad man then
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Its not instashag. Use you right hand if your that horny "
OP check out this mans profile it may help you.
He's only been on the site for two weeks and he's had a meet already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not instashag. Use you right hand if your that horny
OP check out this mans profile it may help you.
He's only been on the site for two weeks and he's had a meet already."
fookkkkkkkkkkk it is instashagggggg |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire/South Yorkshire |
Some people take things said too seriously sometimes. There's more to life than if your face 'fits' in online an online forum...
OP: the last paragraph comes over aggressively, except for one sentence and may put people off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not aggressive at all...............If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye"
Oh dont be like that! Tell you what - I have these 20 yr old Japanese Nympho twins lined up for tonight -would you like........Oh he's gone!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not aggressive at all...............If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye
Oh dont be like that! Tell you what - I have these 20 yr old Japanese Nympho twins lined up for tonight -would you like........Oh he's gone! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not aggressive at all. I'm frustrated with this site. Single guys are severely discriminated against in here. If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye"
the question is ..... did he bin his ice cream as he left.....pmsl  |
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"I'm not aggressive at all. I'm frustrated with this site. Single guys are severely discriminated against in here. If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye
the question is ..... did he bin his ice cream as he left.....pmsl "
Those toys need putting back in the pram. What a grouchy chops! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not aggressive at all. I'm frustrated with this site. Single guys are severely discriminated against in here. If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye
the question is ..... did he bin his ice cream as he left.....pmsl
Those toys need putting back in the pram. What a grouchy chops! "
LMAO, he's not at all aggressive but then tells them to shove his words up their ass haha. How very aggressive!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not aggressive at all. I'm frustrated with this site. Single guys are severely discriminated against in here. If you don't like what I say then you can shove my words up your arse. Goodbye
the question is ..... did he bin his ice cream as he left.....pmsl
Those toys need putting back in the pram. What a grouchy chops!
LMAO, he's not at all aggressive but then tells them to shove his words up their ass haha. How very aggressive!!"
Sounds to me they are into anal sex by shoving it up lol. |
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