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over a year ago
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You've only been here 4 weeks. I think on average it takes about 6 months for some men to get their first meet. It isn't the quick fix many men sign up for hence the moany statuses and threads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I may take a little of your time, let me see if I can shed a little light on the problem for you.
1. You've been here for just four weeks. Given that single guys outnumber the ladies by around 100 to 1, I'm afraid they really can afford to be fussy. They also receive in the region of 100 messages A DAY! I would suspect that doesn't leave them a great deal of time to go on the lookout. Have you been pro-actively messaging or are you expecting them to come to you?
Just for the record, it takes most guys months to get their first meet. That's just the way it is.
2. Let's take a look at your profile and see if there's any room for improvement.
OK. Let's start with the title. Not entirely eye catching really, to be fair. Bordering on stating the bleedin' obvious.
Think of this as your introduction. Think of it, if you will (to use a fishing example) as the bait on your hook.
Next. Drop that status. Seriously. Clear it right now.
It's whiney and makes you sound desperate and women do NOT find this attractive. Yes, it's frustrating, but you need to try and be positive. Show everyone that you're upbeat and enthusiastic.
Now to the meat of your profile. Your description.
Nothing majorly wrong about it, but I would drop the comments about being genuine and about turning up etc.
I understand totally where you're coming from, but some women might see this almost like a double negative. They will be asking themselves, why does this guy feel the need to go on about being genuine. I'd also lose the bit about time wasters. It's just more negativity in your profile that you don't need.
While it's good that you set out that you can't accommodate, it would be wise to state why. Women want to know that you don't have a wife at home that your cheating on and stuff like that.
One last thing I would say is try to think about what you can offer them.
Why should they meet you. What's in it for them.
Basically, think of this as your advert to the women of fab and sell yourself.
Pictures.
Upload some.
One picture of your chest is not going to be drawing the masses i'm afraid.
If you can, get a face pic on there, but if you'd rather not, for reasons of work etc, explain why on your profile but say that you're happy to provide one - and ALWAYS send one when you're messaging.
Hope this helps. Sometimes it takes another pair of eyes to see the wood for the trees.
Above all, you just need to be patient, but pro-active.
Try out the chat rooms. They can be fun.
It takes a while to get yourself recognised around the site, but you'll be fine.
Have a good day young man.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women in general or (couples) on, FAB. Can get (meets) no problem. As for (verifications). Most are FAKE anyway. Just to get people established on, fabswingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women in general or (couples) on, FAB. Can get (meets) no problem. As for (verifications). Most are FAKE anyway. Just to get people established on, fabswingers."
That's quite a generalisation indeed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't meet newbies only coz most of them didn't turn up now I only meet ones who are on my friends list,don't give up you will start getting meets soon be patient and when you message women we like conversation not just one liners which say I got a big cock you want to suck coz most of us don't like it and one main one don't ask if their escorts coz I get men asking and they get told not to be cheeky  |
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"Women in general or (couples) on, FAB. Can get (meets) no problem. As for (verifications). Most are FAKE anyway. Just to get people established on, fabswingers."
Fake veris ahould always be reported. I think that's a masdive ive generalisation to say most are fake. You can spot the fakes a mile off wuth a bit of nouce and diggin. |
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The quickest and best way to get meets will be visit socials and make friends there and get your face know.
Or be patient and enjoy the forums and what they have to offer and get to know the lovely people that post and comment regularly. |
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I think that meeting people on here is generally no different than meeting people in real life. I assume that when you go out women don't generally fall over with their legs in the air and beg you to shag them?! I would also imagine that if you see a woman you like, you spend a bit of time trying to engage with her, flirt with her etc. The 'rules of the game' are no different on here - the successful men on here are probably also successful off the site - they're the ones who realise they have to put a bit of effort in to stand out! |
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"Women in general or (couples) on, FAB. Can get (meets) no problem. As for (verifications). Most are FAKE anyway. Just to get people established on, fabswingers."
If a profile has verifications, then it is easy enough to check the verifiers to see if they ring true by having verifications of their own, which can in turn be checked, and so on, so to boldly pronounce that most verifications are fake is highly unlikely.
The system is by no means foolproof but is generally robust, and although some minor changes could be made to improve it, as far as I can tell over the last three years, it seems to work fine |
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"You've only been here 4 weeks. I think on average it takes about 6 months for some men to get their first meet. It isn't the quick fix many men sign up for hence the moany statuses and threads."
Hope you are right as i have been on here for 6 months lol |
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"You've only been here 4 weeks. I think on average it takes about 6 months for some men to get their first meet. It isn't the quick fix many men sign up for hence the moany statuses and threads."
Hope you are right as i have been on here for 6 months lol |
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"hi,why is it so hard for newbies to get a meet ?,im genuine not ugly and its like some women wont give you the time of day because im not verified grrrrrr "
But how do we know youre not ugly?
Nice chest btw |
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"Women in general or (couples) on, FAB. Can get (meets) no problem. As for (verifications). Most are FAKE anyway. Just to get people established on, fabswingers."
None of our veris are fake |
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"Women in general or (couples) on, FAB. Can get (meets) no problem. As for (verifications). Most are FAKE anyway. Just to get people established on, fabswingers.
Fake veris ahould always be reported. I think that's a masdive ive generalisation to say most are fake. You can spot the fakes a mile off wuth a bit of nouce and diggin."
Some you can yes but not all  |
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"Women in general or (couples) on, FAB. Can get (meets) no problem. As for (verifications). Most are FAKE anyway. Just to get people established on, fabswingers."
And your evidence for this, is? |
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"Women in general or (couples) on, FAB. Can get (meets) no problem. As for (verifications). Most are FAKE anyway. Just to get people established on, fabswingers."
what a load of rubbish!;; |
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