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Suggestions please (anal)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bend your knees up to you chest and take it much slower. In a bit then push it out. In again, push out again.
Repeat until it pops in then push it out straight away.
I have one of those graduated didlos that looks like a stack of beads increasing in size. That's quite good to start with. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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suggestions for anal:
- glass of wine, then another and another.
- slippery tongue in every crevice
- slippery fingers in every crevice
- slippery tongue and fingers in alternate crevices
- focus on a crevice
glass of wine
- focus on tits
- focus on crevice
... then a x large inflatable dildo. (optional vib)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait til you are really turned on... after an orgasm, after vag/clit stimulation. ... lube your ass... let him slowly and gently slip his cock in... just an inch. .. breathe and get used to it.... then YOU slide back onto it when it feels right. I love it but only like that. No pushing and shoving  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks, doesn't seen to be the lack of lube, more the lack of stretch!
That lube contains ingredients that help to relax the muscle's. "
Just googled it (I know, I've learnt my lesson!) And love honey sell it, sounds like fab discount time! |
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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago
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Always make sure you have already cum once before trying for the first time. Your muscles are more relaxed after an orgasm and just start with a couple of fingers before inserting plugs or dildo. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"Wait til you are really turned on... after an orgasm, after vag/clit stimulation. ... lube your ass... let him slowly and gently slip his cock in... just an inch. .. breathe and get used to it.... then YOU slide back onto it when it feels right. I love it but only like that. No pushing and shoving "
Mmmmmmmm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to hate anal cause it hurt a lot and couldn't relax when Mr L was trying to put it in cause I knew it was going to hurt to start but now I enjoy it still hurts a little but then feels amazing I'd suggest a glass off wine or 2 to chill u out then oral get u nice and wet and orgasm b4 you try and put anything in ur bum start with fingers and a toy to relax then try putting cock in try being on top then u can control how much u put in when it starts to hurt hold it there for a min or pull it out and more lube it will go in just take it slow lots off lube and relax and u will really enjoy it xxx Mrs d xxxx |
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We started off using a 'double penetration cock ring' (google it!) which allows us to build up and then swap (after a clean!), it gives a great sensation to both of us and makes anal incredibly straightforward - may have to practice tonight!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The more relaxed you are hun the easier it gets!
Used to be agony for me but i like it now!! As prev person said - get partner to inch in then stop until you get used to it - then you move back on to him until you have a rhythm!
Enjoy ( well - one day soon I hope!)  xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good anal lube with beads to loosen me up a bit
Then I do a lot of the work before screaming for a reg friend to fuck me hard
I love it when my body gets to the stage where I'm covered in goose bumps : |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anal is an acquired taste but once you relax and take it easy it can become very pleasurable. Use plenty of lube and staart off in the spoon position or go on top and take it at your own pace. I really enjoy it both ways now. Its very erotic and pleasurable. Jim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anal is definitely a mind over matter thing I think for me it's not so much the feeling that turns me on. It's more thinking about how hot and horny the actual act is. Definitely mind over matter for me just try and relax and definitely easier after you've cum x |
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