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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't have a public face pic but a lot don't on this site but am always happy to send one when I start talking to serious people ... Can anyone offer any advice on my profile to help my chances improve for meets?
As I don't seem to have much luck I'm a normal guy and am always polite when I message so have assumed it has to be profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tommo your profile looks fine....I would say get yourself on cam in chat or get yourself to socials. Get yourself out there for people to see  "
I get very little responses to messages I send which is difficult to build any rapport with anyone..... Thank you for your kind comments... socials?? |
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Tommo, your profile suggests a married gent and lots of people wont go there. That could be part of the reason you get little response but also there are a lot of single men here and it does take time, patience and fortitude.
Good luck |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"In the swinging clubs/events section....there is bound to be something in your area
Not sure I would have confidence to go to one in my own "
How old are you? As a single female I go to socials on my own 
Some people just want everything handed to them on a plate it seems  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tommo, your profile suggests a married gent and lots of people wont go there. That could be part of the reason you get little response but also there are a lot of single men here and it does take time, patience and fortitude.
Good luck "
In what way do I give that off if you don't mind telling me? Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In the swinging clubs/events section....there is bound to be something in your area
Not sure I would have confidence to go to one in my own
How old are you? As a single female I go to socials on my own
Some people just want everything handed to them on a plate it seems "
Just in a larger venue I wouldn't feel as comfortable just being honest have thought if it but if not feeling comfortable won't do me any good at all |
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"In the swinging clubs/events section....there is bound to be something in your area
Not sure I would have confidence to go to one in my own "
If you don't have the confidence to go to a pub and meet other people who are fully clothed, having a drink and
chatting, then how will you have the confidence to get naked and have sex with a lady as her husband watches? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And you have had 2 meets in six months that's not bad at all, plus the wanting to meet TVs screams Bi"
Do you know what didn't even bat an eye at that have now changed accordingly thanks |
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"Tommo, your profile suggests a married gent and lots of people wont go there. That could be part of the reason you get little response but also there are a lot of single men here and it does take time, patience and fortitude.
Good luck
In what way do I give that off if you don't mind telling me? Thanks x"
I don't know if you do but your words in your profile do to me, I think mainly its the bit about meeting in the day and nothing about meeting in the evening. Of course I and lots of other people know that could mean you are a night shift worker but you asked fro advice and I was just giving you my impression |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tommo, your profile suggests a married gent and lots of people wont go there. That could be part of the reason you get little response but also there are a lot of single men here and it does take time, patience and fortitude.
Good luck
In what way do I give that off if you don't mind telling me? Thanks x
I don't know if you do but your words in your profile do to me, I think mainly its the bit about meeting in the day and nothing about meeting in the evening. Of course I and lots of other people know that could mean you are a night shift worker but you asked fro advice and I was just giving you my impression "
Sorry didn't mean to offend I'm great full for the advice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get yourself to clubs and socials. If you are truly single and can accomodate then you'll be a big hit I'd say.
As has been said, if you've not the confidence to go to a pub social for a chat then how are you going to be in bed? |
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"Tommo, your profile suggests a married gent and lots of people wont go there. That could be part of the reason you get little response but also there are a lot of single men here and it does take time, patience and fortitude.
Good luck
In what way do I give that off if you don't mind telling me? Thanks x
I don't know if you do but your words in your profile do to me, I think mainly its the bit about meeting in the day and nothing about meeting in the evening. Of course I and lots of other people know that could mean you are a night shift worker but you asked fro advice and I was just giving you my impression
Sorry didn't mean to offend I'm great full for the advice x"
You didn't offend me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a public face pic but a lot don't on this site but am always happy to send one when I start talking to serious people ... Can anyone offer any advice on my profile to help my chances improve for meets?
As I don't seem to have much luck I'm a normal guy and am always polite when I message so have assumed it has to be profile "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a public face pic but a lot don't on this site but am always happy to send one when I start talking to serious people ... Can anyone offer any advice on my profile to help my chances improve for meets?
As I don't seem to have much luck I'm a normal guy and am always polite when I message so have assumed it has to be profile
See some of us reply "
 Your a rear breed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a public face pic but a lot don't on this site but am always happy to send one when I start talking to serious people ... Can anyone offer any advice on my profile to help my chances improve for meets?
As I don't seem to have much luck I'm a normal guy and am always polite when I message so have assumed it has to be profile
See some of us reply Your a rear breed "
Rear or rare??   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't have a public face pic but a lot don't on this site but am always happy to send one when I start talking to serious people ... Can anyone offer any advice on my profile to help my chances improve for meets?
As I don't seem to have much luck I'm a normal guy and am always polite when I message so have assumed it has to be profile
See some of us reply Your a rear breed
Rear or rare?? "
There are rare breeds lol shame they are not in my area lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't have a public face pic but a lot don't on this site but am always happy to send one when I start talking to serious people ... Can anyone offer any advice on my profile to help my chances improve for meets?
As I don't seem to have much luck I'm a normal guy and am always polite when I message so have assumed it has to be profile
See some of us reply Your a rear breed
Rear or rare?? "
There are rare breeds lol shame they are not in my area lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a public face pic but a lot don't on this site but am always happy to send one when I start talking to serious people ... Can anyone offer any advice on my profile to help my chances improve for meets?
As I don't seem to have much luck I'm a normal guy and am always polite when I message so have assumed it has to be profile
See some of us reply Your a rear breed
Rear or rare??
There are rare breeds lol shame they are not in my area lol x"
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